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How much does it cost where you are? I find GPS charges to be quite shocking. So shocking, I miss out on checkups. Do you struggle with affording a checkup?
Casey J 829907
What's the point of Medicare these days.. it's ridiculous how expensive the doctor has become. We are slowly becoming americanised and no one will be able to afford to even go to hospital eventually. It's pretty pathetic to be honest.
13-Mar-23
Dear Rewardians! Let me introduce the new Private Groups here, on Forum Boards. Private Group is a place where you can share your personal stuff to other members. In a Private Group, only members can see who's in the group and what they post It's easy to invite your friends, just click on the button "Invite members" after you created a group You can find Private Groups at the left menu, in the Forums section
Christina C 466456
I have a feeling there are going to be a couple of hookups. I think that's really cute if there are a couple of Rewardia babies crawling around in the next couple of years \ud83d\ude0f
03-May-23

What are your experiences on pre-teen behaviours? Is it normal for them to develop a hate towards parents and start being naughty and develop foul language. Are there any tricks or advice anyone has?
Pearlz
When my children were pre-teens my husband was very often away, often for months at a time with the RAN so I ruled my home with an iron rod. If I hadn't my life would have been hell. They were children and had rules and rarely needed to be punished. There was no acting up or swearing, they were allowed out to play but had a time that they had to be home. I really didn't ever have a problem with any of them and they were church goers. They are all married now with children of their own, they were never in any trouble, didn't do drugs and were not drinkers. They also stayed at home until they married which was late in their 20"s. My mother always said I had turned my sons into sooks but their wives tell me a did a brilliant job with them. Because dad was usually not here my boys were quite close to me and were always very helpful to their mum. One rings 2 or 3 times a week for a chat.
04-May-23

In winter, I usually have homemade chicken soup in the freezer & think it works wonders when I have a cold. Excluding the std 'fluids & rest' what is your go-to remedy to help fight a cold?
HOT PANTS HARRY
KIRSTY IF YOU WISH TO GET RID OF THE FLU YOU HAVE TO GO TO BED WITH 3 MEN,CAPTAIN MORGAN, JIM BEAN AND JOHNNY WALKER
17-Apr-23
I am just curious how many points people get in a month? Is it enough to cash out?
APB
Started out getting 50,000 points in six weeks....easily....and over 4 years it has just got worse and worse...my current 50,000 will take 4 months at least
I don't get surveys anymore...they now seem to have cut back on using my Trivia, Polls and Discussions pages...so the next one might take the best part of a year...I think I need a new site......read the technical issues...its quite an eye opener.....its a good job I like the people on here...and they give me a laugh....
29-Mar-23

What is something you have purchased & regretted? I'll start - 'leather look' trousers I bought on holiday that def got looks in my small town & I never wore them again
lippy loo
I do not regret but at times realise that they are just not me so I give them to Lifeline. All my good clothes I no longer wear I give to the charity shop. I actually have 2 bags in my boot ready to go there but I still have a bit of my robe to go through.
22-Mar-23
Alot of us Rewardian's have or have had pets in our lives- i have always been privileged to have precious creatures in my life. Just wondered if anyone felt like sharing a funny story or something memorable one of their animals- past or present- has done. I love seeing people's profile pics of their animals. We have had many funny experiences- one in particular with my husband's special fellow Bronson, who lived until he was 16. Hubby took him to visit a friend who...
BLM
I do not have any type of pets and I never had any inclination to own a pet. However, I saw a movie called "The Daring Dobermans (1975)" - clever Doberman pinschers (dogs) that were being trained to become bank robbers (once upon a time - a goal of mines) - my type of "pet" - since I have a ton of untapped latent criminal behavior in me - (aka capitalism and aka white-collar crime) - lol!
28-Sep-22

Should cannabis be treaty as a prescription drug and charged at standard prescription pricing?
merricat
no, not everyone who wants to be able to use it wants it for medical purpose. If alcohol is legal when used responsibly, then marijuana should also be legal under the same regulations.
04-Jan-23

We've all heard stories where winners of huge amounts of money say it changed their lives for the worse, or they managed their newfound wealth poorly and now have nothing left. If you were to win a huge sum, what would you do with it and what steps might you take to avoid the same fate?
Amaya B
I would give some to my family and keep a bit for myself, but what I would really love to do with the money would be book tickets for Brisbane and visit Australia Zoo :D Also I would donate lots of the remaining money to their Wildlife Hospital and conservation work
16-Jan-23
We know that plastic is bad for the environment and that is why we pay council rates for recycling, now councils introduced cash for recycled items (instead of having the bin chicken we now have bums looking for recyclable items in our bins) my question is why we have to be penalised for plastic waste if we are already paying the council rates for the so-called recycling
APB
Not sure what a chicken bin is...The "bums" will probably sort out plastic waste and make some money out of it...I hope that you never become one (but you might be)....I'm not sure about what the last bit is about entirely
16-Nov-22

How do you see the inflation in the next 5 years? How will it affect you in the long run, and do you think things will ever get back to normal as they were before the pandemic?
Bugalugs
Just who is responsible for this big rise in Inflation?
The Reserve Bank of Australia (RBA) must think the blame rests on those on middle, low and fixed incomes for it is they whom the RBA is punishing. Yes, the Australian Bureau of Statistics shows that people are spending more for the Retail Figures have gone up. What the RBA does not seem to understand is that Retailers have been Increasing Prices - with, on average, the Supermarkets recording a 21.7% INCREASE in their Prices! So, of course, the Public are spending more BUT are they actually Buying More or is it simply that they are buying the same amount, or less, but paying 21.7% more for it?
The Big4 Banking Cartel and, to a lesser degree the smaller Banks, Credit Unions etc. have steadfastly refused to pass on Interest Rate Increases to Depositors but have wasted no time in Increasing Interest Rates against those who have borrowed money from them!
At the same time when the RBA Reduces Interest Rates, the BIg4 Cartel - all of whom make well in excess of $AU6 billion, post Tax, profits - immediately move to Reduce Interest rates to Depositors but drag their heels for Months in reducing the Interest rate they charge Borrowers.
The Federal Government should pass Legislation making it mandatory that every Increase/Decrease in Interest Rates is passed on In Full to both Depositors and Borrowers and that they do it within 7 days of moves by the RBA.
They entire Financial System is now based on one thing: GREED and Greed leads to Corruption.
15-Nov-22
Hey there fine Rewardian Geniuses..this is a dilemma for a close family member of mine who is very important to me. Their spouse has retired a year or so ago- made Redundant. They have continued to catchup and stay in touch with a Colleague since then. The Colleague is of opposite sex. They text and meet up for coffee etc. My family member feels threatened and uncomfortable- though the spouse says there's nothing going on- (of course). I'd like to hear people's...
Lachelle B
Hi Mary, I have a good male mate, I spend nights over there, he comes over here occasionally (he lives in the wop wops). 90% of my mates are male (less hassle lol). I don't hide my phone, say where I'm going and who with, etc. There needs to be proof, acting on suspicion can break a relationship with no substance to back it. Get your family member to meet the colleague, if the spouse has nothing to hide then no worries. My partner is fine with my friendship with my mate. It's called trust (insert happy emoji smiley face).
25-Oct-22

I don't know if it's universal, but where I'm living (Australia), it's getting harder and harder to buy a house young. Does anyone have any tips?
Bugalugs
Isn't the problem today that people want their McMansion, a huge house with 6 bedrooms, 7 bathrooms, 3 car - they must, of course, be BMWs, Mercedes 4WDs - Garages, the obligatory Pool, Top-of-the-range BBQ, A kitchen with the latest hi-tech, most expensive equipment, a den, an office, a rumpus room, a formal lounge or two. Yes, you can have all trhat straight away IF you win Lotto but you know that is in all probability not going to happen.
Our parents started Small and gradually over the years moved into, if not bigger, certainly better houses. Today's younger people want, no they Need, Instant Gratification, they think they are Entitled to it - despite not having the money to pay for it.
As we have seen in Australia, and reportedly overseas as well, there was a huge spike in the price of houses in recent years, Interest Rates were low, and Yes, Australia's Reserve Bank told us that they would remain low until at least 2024 which was wrong but it was inevitable they would start to go up sometime. Young people kept on borrowing huge amounts of money without giving a thought to the future. They wanted and "Must Have" everything. Interest Rates started to rise and have kept rising. House Prices are dropping, wages are remaining stagnant and now people are in trouble. Their houses are now worth less than what they owe the banks, eventually people won't be able to keep up the payments, the banks will foreclose and then what? People will start demanding that "The Government does something". I make no apology for writing this, but people have brought this on themselves. Greed and Self-Gratification are now the God Kings.
17-Oct-22

Recently as I scrolled through Instagram looking at my friend s holiday activities, it struck me that we all have different interests and hobbies. One family I know makes time to plan a family backpacking adventure every summer. Another one travels across the country to attend a sporting event together. Others love the beach, or watching musicals, playing board games or exploring their hometown together as a family. So there s no one perfect family activity your ideas for...
Gigi
Being together without contention and not having to be doing something special to have good, quality time with your family. It's the little things that matter most. Sure doing activities is great. But it isn't a prerequisite to quality time with family. Just be....and appreciate each other.
15-Oct-22

If you had a choice to remodel any room in your home with no expense spared, which room or area would you remodel? Even if you rent and can't just change a room, forget about that and choose anyhow.
APB
This is a question...not a discussion.... because there is nothing to discuss...is there?..all I can discuss is your question...so I am trying....
26-Aug-22
Do you find the grammar used in public statements is atrocious these days? I cringe nearly every day at the obvious errors made in newspaper, television and radio reports. Today an instruction to a group I am associated with stated that for a performance the Band was to wear "Uniform: Marching Shirt no hats, pants, shoes etc". This was written by a lawyer who I would have thought would have a high standard of English. (I commented "Wow, that will get the...
BLM
Grammer is important in a formal setting (Example: Law office). Grammer is not important in an informal setting (Example: Rewardia.com).
12-Aug-22

Over the past months/years we have all read just so so many negative inputs BUT yes we do all get great surveys, we do get to give our input, and we do get full points. Amongst my best was giving my input to our National Road Safety Program and also one re the best Chocolate I have eaten. Your favourite and best survey is/was on?
Crazy Chef
I quite like the short surveys about new product or advertisement concepts, they usually pay reasonably well. Also the Red surveys usually give me 30 points compensation when screened out.
25-Jul-22
Since I have all kinds of latent criminal behavior in me (HAHA) - the movie where the ending completely surprises me is "Thief" starring James Caan (1981).
OKIE K
How about a book instead, it's just the one where the ending literally made me do a double take and really really stuck with me. It's Rebecca by Daphne DuMaurier - they did make a movie of it though,I think with big name actors even, but I haven't seen it. I do a lot more reading!
20-Jul-22
Hello dear fellow Rewardian grafters..anyone got some good tv shows/movies etc they are watching at moment? We haven't gone anywhere since march coz of covid version 201 having fun in the community and ruining ours. So lots of viewing going down. Anything good anyone wants to share or recommend?
blunder boy
yep we watched Yellowstone 3 seasons, I think it's on stan a great show, and bosch is also on stan I think 6 seasons, I also got into watching concerts on youtube
13-Jul-22

I cannot believe that I am saying this. I just thought I would give them one last go to help me recover from a spot of bad health. Furthermore, I have tried cooking them many ways but always found them bitter and pretty horrible and vowed that I would never eat them again. Is there a new breed I wonder; or is it because I have been eating them raw or a bit of a quick braise in the air fryer with some finely chopped bacon then topped with a spot of pesto. They just are...
AlanH CENTRAL VIC
try growing them in your own garden,they take up vey littl room and taste s a lot better than the ones you bu in a supermarket,
10-Jul-22

Recently, I read a report stating that the production of making an Electric vehicle was more damaging to the environment than the production of petrol driven cars. And a well maintained small petrol car in its lifetime was just as clean to the environment as an EV. I own a reliable older Toyota Corolla that keeps on going and going and think that it would be friendlier to the Environment than the current Electric vehicles for sale. What do you think about Electric...
lippy loo
I'm not impressed by them. You still have to make the cars and that involves the usual stuff. You have to generate more electricity to accommodate the increase in electric cars and of course outlets all over the place. I guess we need the cons and negatives to really understand if there are any actual benefits. Of course, the world is probably running out of oil so this could be the impetus to change the fuel. My car is 20 years old and I just had it serviced and checked and it is in good nick. Mind you I have not even reached 70000ks yet so I do not drive much and most of those k's were in the first 10 years. lol
30-Jun-22

Reputation matters. As social beings we re hardwired to care what others think. A good reputation takes time to build, but can be destroyed by just one misstep or allegation. For many, the online world turns reputation damage into inescapable trauma. When reputation takes a hit, do you think it can be restored?
APB
Reputation in the real world (remember that) is hard won and defended...online variants are laughable...so much can be twisted and distorted..or just open and unsupported lies
24-Jun-22

Did you know there's a thing called DE-BANKING? It's where the banks have been given a right to shut down a bank account, without informing the banking---- customer. It's happening more often with these private banks, and they are given more powers to do so by our stupid banking legislation. Here in Australia and overseas. Some people claimed they had their accounts shut down without being told, others were told their accounts were going to be closed. The...
Sha
I think it's wrong for the banks to do that. They should contact the customers first before doing so.
26-Jun-22

Animals without medical condition or problem being dressed, does not sit well in me. In dresses, in trousers and more. Do you find it right or wrong? I don't like it.
Metachair
Up to the own. My sister dress her German sheeper up cloths but the dog pulled the cloths off each time. Will how is the boss?. The dog.
17-Jun-22

As we get older, there are always things we learn. What are the 3 best things you have learned. Mine are: Always treat people as you would like to be treated, Laugh a lot, no-one is getting away from here alive Love lots and tell people you love them, you never know if it will be the last time you see them.
APB
Never burn your bridges unless there are a lot of Russian tanks on them at the time....and....come on everyone..... when life throws you some gristle....have a little whistle......AND...always look on the bright side of life....
05-Apr-22

How are you? No, really ... how ARE you? Yes you. I was taught as a child to say "well, thank you". So I still do. I could be dying. Had surgery. Lost a loved one. Fighting fires. But "I'm well, thanks". How do you break a lifelong polite habit, and should we?
Mr T
It is a common term of politeness but I do struggle to come up with more than "Good thanks And yourself ?"
But I do find the greeting between blokes The
"Hey how they hangin ? " A tad harder to reply to
16-May-22

I have constantly been on diets, I lose my weight, and it slowly creeps back on - what is the secret is there any diet out there that actually makes you happy and keeps your weight off and motivated?
Dada WA
I'm not slim and don't try to be. Overweight but at my age why worry. I can get around, play bowls and am mobile. Better than many 80 year olds.
10-May-22

I started to gamble a little this year. Nothing major but playing lotto once a week. I treat it as fun and sometimes win, but not much. So far, I was able to invite my partner for lunch using the win money. Do you guys play Lotto as well?
BLM
NOT into any form of gambling - I worked too damn hard for my money (before I retired over 23 years ago and counting) :-))!
21-Apr-22

Why do people pursue perfection when perfection is unobtainable? You can be better at basketball than someone else, but nothing you do will make you a better human than someone else
Rod R 101788
Perfection is a personal ideal. You can be a better version of yourself without having to be better than others.
Better isn't necessarily perfect, but it's the best I've got.
15-Apr-22

My husband, myself and 3 children went to Disneyland and had the best time. It was indeed a magic kingdom, so when we were in Hong Kong a couple of years ago, we decided to go and re-live our first visit. When the train pulled into the station people charged like stampeding animals to get a seat and once inside the "kingdom" the pushing and shoving continued. I arrived at one ride just as the barrier came down and despite being the FIRST in the queue I still didn't...
WonkyandProud
Maybe there are more people now than there used to be. I have no idea how people can afford to take their families when everyone says how poor they are! Secondly, nothing is the same the second time. I lived in Sydney for six months with my fiancée, and it was a wonderful time. I know if I went back, it would never be the same. Besides, we're divorced now. I went back to where I was raised, and all I did was cry because all my memories of being a kid weren't there. Everything had changed! It's best to keep old memories and make new ones!
17-Apr-22

Just for our health's sake, we need regular check-ups at the doctors. With women needing mammograms after 50 or so, I once told my GP that checking for breast lumps would be easier if there could be a dummy that women could feel that sort of thing and was told that there is such a thing, but this practice could not afford it. Wouldn't you think governments should pay for such things?
Michelle S 553303
As its 19 years to the day since my own dear mother died from breast cancer at the young age of 62, I would agree that existing products such as the one referred to SHOULD be made available. There's a lot of government money spent on utter nonsense that surely funding should be made available to save many, many women just like my own mum. Thanks for reading.
06-Apr-22

I've read a bit lately about how it is harder to make friends later in life. I have a couple of friends I would consider close, i.e. ones I can talk about personal things. The rest are more along the lines of colleagues/ that I mostly met via previous jobs, but who I wouldn't consider close. They are more Facebook friends and who I sometimes chat with over messenger, comment on their posts etc, but not ones I see regularly in real life. How about you ? .
lippy loo
My sister and I were the closest of friends but she passed a couple of years ago. I have a couple of neighbours I am friendly with and can ask for help within reason but not the same closeness. I agree, if you are not in a social circle it is hard to make friends. Some of the older people go out and about but I am a bit of a home body mainly and I really cannot stand being with a lot of people anyway.
28-Mar-22

As a kid I was promised jetpacks...flying cars...colonies on the moon and Mars at the very least (even a nuclear-powered post office in orbit around the planet?)...all of those things (apart from the post office) seem to be getting a lot closer...but I wonder...it all might be a question of Don't Believe the Hype?...right?...something for my grandchildren to look forward to?...
Happiness
I thought I would have my honeymoon on the moon. Look at how far things have come but we still have wars and people still kill people. Maybe we should work on that.
29-Mar-22

Supermarkets stopped giving away plastic bags...and started selling them instead...nice and cheap..." Do you want bags?" ....and most people are just buying bags now as well....they are reusable....just like the ones they replaced...the supermarket makes more money....and we just carry on dumping plastic bags into our waste...but now they are a bit stronger and durable...because we had to pay for them.......is there something wrong with this picture?
IdentifyAs
It was all a con, saves the supermarket money and makes it money. We are all wrapping our dog poo in paper, right? what about all these masks, PPE, testing plastic...where is THAT going?
31-Mar-22

This I have heard many times and I agree with its point intended, but haven t we repeated history, despite learning from it?
Gaza
Yes, just look at Putin, I'd put him in the same class as Hitler or Mussolini. Sometimes, stupid people seem to want to change the past.
27-Mar-22

What items would you take? Items can only fit inside one banana box, and people and pets have already been rescued.
APB
I would be terrified AND confused....I don't know what a banana box is!
..and why would you have a banana box in your house in first place?...you would probably have to eat a lot of bananas....or you would you be working on a plantation or something?
23-Mar-22

I have lived in big cities and small cities, big towns and small towns. I love the small town that I live in. But I have lived in a small town that had the attitude that you don't belong here and why are you here. I love this town where the postie knows me if something has the wrong address on it, he checks, if we are in town for the day they put any parcels around the back. The shop owners know you, if anything happens the whole town rallies around. Do you...
Grommie
tried both and the smallest towns I ever lived in were ships at sea. That's a real test to see if you can get on with your "neighbours".
Joy L., I learned to spell, too, never seen versers before, guess there's a first time for everything.Small towns? It only takes one person to start a rumour about you for whatever reason, and you're sunk.
14-Mar-22

Recently, one of our local rural roads was reduced in speed to 80kph - this was because it was cheaper than fixing the road in the first place. The road is still terrible to drive on, but it appears the city has first preference when it comes to fixing up the roads...a local freeway was 'smoothed' over a few weeks ago, a total waste of money - we have a lot of dirt roads round here, which could have benefited from the material used to 'fix' the freeway. What do...
The dog house
I travelled through rural area's on a holiday and saw a lot of dead animals such as wombats and kangaroo's. There are signs asking people to reduce their speed for the sake of the poor animal.
19-Feb-22

The Australia's government in some areas have made it compulsory indoors or out to mask up or cop a $200 fine & as some believing it's their right to NOT wear one should they be made to pay their own medical bill's or the rest of the tax payers pay it for them?
Judi D
Only if there is an outbreak. I'm fortunate to be living in Perth where there has been no community transmission for nine months.
28-Jan-21

Should the government step in to enforce stronger penalties for animal cruelty.? Should the SPCA be given more power legally to remove animals at risk and enforce penalties and fines? Should the government have a task force to deal with animal welfare in general,especially on farms and in factories and abattoirs.
Mr White
Stop the breeding,
Humans can’t care for themselves let alone another species,
When will we learn that the planet isn’t here to entertain us.
08-Apr-21

And don't say world peace...we tried doing that one last year and nothing happened...a bit like COP 26 really.....jingle jingle jingle....lets all just try to keep it deep and crisp and even.... and happy holidays to all persuasions.....
RuthieV
Enjoy a lovely meal with my family. My brothers and their family is in Melbourne and we miss them. We are in Perth.
23-Dec-21

As of 2020 the global life expectancy is 72.63 years. If you are given a chance to live to 100 years old, how do you wish to spent it? What will you do from today?
JoeB
Too damn right, I’d do more of the same, as much as I can get. I’m gonna live till I’m dead then I’m coming back for a bit of haunting …..lol
19-Dec-21

Over 600,000 Australians suffer from a hoarding disorder. The rest of us may not be hoarders but there are other complicated attachments to things that we have. How much stuff do you have? What happens when we don't own stuff but the stuff starts to own us?
BLM
Between 2% and 6% of the US population are hoarders. In the US it is called Hoarding Disorder (HD). Men are more likely to become hoarders then women. HD can severely affect (in a negative manner) your "mental health" - trust me - I know! Extreme HD can lead to your apartment becoming a potential fire hazard - if you are a smoker. Warning signs you are a hoarder (if you reside in the US): 1. You live alone 2. You are more likely to be obese then then the average person 3. You are a perfectionistic 4. You still have at least one family member who is STILL a hoarder (that you came in contact with on a daily basis at one point in your life). I used to be hoarder till I recognize I had a "problem (HAHA)". I started seeing a pysychologist to deal with my "problem" (31 years ago) - and I was able to stop beginning a hoarder for the last 29 years of my life! Yes, I am OLD! However, the urge to hoard stuff still lurks in me - I learned with the help of professional (pyschologist) to keep hoarding at bay for the rest of my life! NO! You can not literally (with your own stuff) hold onto your PAST forever - regardlessly how hard you try! Time moves on - you have to learn to adapt and move on - or you will trap yourself in the past (with your own stuff).
10-Dec-21

Free range and pasture raised chickens are much healthier for consumption and animal lifestyles. Allowing chickens to run free encourages their egg development and lets them live happier and healthier. Farmers should work to introduce more pastures for chickens.
Linda Humby
THEY DONT TREAT CHICKENS LIKE ANYTHING OTHER THAN EGG MAKERS. ITS REALLY SHOCKING. IVE WORKED IN ONE. MADNESS AND CREULTY, JUST LIKE OVERSEAS. I THOGHT WE DID BETTER IN OUR COUNTRY. THE CHICKENS ARE KEPT AWAKE 24/7 SO THEY LAY ONE EGG EVERY 12 HOURS. HONESTLY, I CANT SAY DESGUSTING OFTEN ENUFF. I CANT EVEN SPELL IT PROPERLY COZ IM SO MAD AT HUMANS
07-Dec-21

Is it possible to never forgive people who wronged you and still go on with your life (and thrive)? Can you be happy with never being able to forgive? Do you think forgiveness is overrated?
Roslyn A
I have been badly scarred by a sociopath who has no real feelings. I would never seek revenge but I can't forgive. Everything he did was wrong and he has no sense of remorse. What's the point of endorsing his actions by forgiving?
09-Dec-21

Why do people pay good money to buy ripped and torn Jeans that make them look like they can't afford new clothes, because I don't care how broke I am , I refuse to leave the house wearing rags.
Anneliese
Yes I personally don't like the look either, but fashion is what it is. It's the same as the messy hair look or beach hair look, people spend money on products to recreate a look they can achieve naturally because they want to appear effortless because it's seen as desirable, when actually they are the exact opposite. I guess I just don't care enough about fashion.
13-Mar-21

I have just spent about 45 minutes washing my car, and oh my lord, the amount of white paint where people have scraped my car getting in and out of a parking space is unbelievable. How hard is it to pull into a parking space and back out without touching the car next to you? I think it would be extremely helpful if the shopping centres installed CCTV so we could see who was doing this. I know if I have a bad enough one I get to pay the excess for any repairs that need...
MoB
I park as far away from the shops as possible. Most cars that have trouble getting into a shopping centre carpark are four wheel drives. I think shopping centre carparks should have a separate area for these big cars to park in. They don't only cause trouble when they are parking but make it impossible for a small car to see around them when trying to get out of a car park.
03-Dec-21

Should children be allowed to have actual real decision making say in large life changing or altering decisions that will affect their families future? Such as 1.) Where a family will be moving and/or purchasing their new home. 2.) Should a family purchase a different model or style or size of vehicle then they normally would to help with world issues such as pollution,gas costs, or parking structures/lots to store all of a city's vehicles? 3.) Types of groceries or foods...
Pearlz
This has to be a joke. Children are just that, children, and to my mind children should be seen and not heard. Why would they have a say? They don't earn a living, they go to school to learn. It seems to me that parents do not want the responsibility of rearing children and want children to rear themselves. How can a child possibly have the maturity, experience and knowledge to even be given consideration in making life changing decisions. Children deserve a childhood free from such things, no worry or responsibility, that will come soon enough. If an adult feels the need to check with a child for permission to lead his or her life then perhaps they should remain childless. Is it any wonder there are so many horrid bratty children out there, they don't have a parent they have another friend. Stop frightening them with climate change, possible war, sustainability and all that other rubbish. Why scare them with things that might never happen. I remember the Cuban missile crisis and asked my father "will there be a war", he told me I was not to worry about it or be concerned but to let adults sort it out. Indeed they did and my father was right, as a child I had no need to worry. Do not put grown up heads on little shoulders. Let them be children.
15-Nov-21

Crime is something that can affect anyone. Our political leaders should spend more money on reducing crime. Educating the general public on how to best protect their self's and families. What suggestions do you have to reduce the rates of crime in your town or suburb? Should more money be spent on ---Neighborhood-Watch?
Pansyrhonda
Crime will always be around. (unfortunately) The legal system is very broken. One person can commit a crime and get probation. The next guy does the very same thing, and he will get 2 years. Crimminals really are not afraid of the justice system.
17-Oct-21

It's sometimes mentioned by the media, that WOMEN tend to have much poorer financial skills than men, and that does seem to be the case! Many women say they like to be --independent, but some of them prove otherwise. Some leave it to their partners to sort out the family finance. Many of those then...who break up with their spouses... are left High and Dry!. Some end up with little money when they part company with their Ex --partners. Why do you think...
Jellypony
My grandmother had 2 small children during WW2 and they fled Malaya and ended up in Western Australia, she lost a baby on the journey. My grandpa ended up a prisoner for years. Any way my grandma was one of the first in Australia to put strawberries into vanilla ice cream. She made quite a bit of money for her self and her 2 children. They waited until grandpa could come back and then went back to the UK. My parents settled back here once they were married. I am proud to say I am in charge of our finances, I pay all the bills and I know where every cent has gone or where it needs to be. I do believe some women aren't allowed to have their own money in some marriages. Me kind of included the first time around. Not the case this time. It certainly makes a change. I still have my own bank account and I transfer what I want when I want.
17-Sep-21

Say a couple of your friends decided that they wanted you to go to the casino with them because one of the friend's birthdays. You hit the jackpot I mean big jackpot how would you spend it, how much would you save, and why?
Imperia S '' PIER''
first I would not go to the casino, I only buy lotto tickets, and if ever I won money I would share with my sons, plus I would give the birthday girl a few dollars depending on how big a jackpot and the rest I will buy an RV and travel the country from one end to the other, I miss my traveling days, thanks to NSW Premier that let the dreaded Covit In
27-Aug-21

Most people struggle with falling asleep and have times where you're stuck thinking, so what do you do? drink something warm? read? what is your favourite thing that helps you
Edward S 497347
Getting to sleep is very much like the type of dreams you have when you fall asleep.
The length of time it takes to get to sleep depends entirely on things like medical conditions, the amount of stress you were under that day, problems in your life, noise around you, and how active your mind is when you go to bed.
The best way to get a good night's sleep is to try to clear your mind of all worries before going to bed or failing that, to listen to some relaxing music in bed.
NO eating for at least one hour before going to bed, NO computer use for at least one hour before going to bed, leave your mobile ( cell ) phone in another room, NOT worry about things you have to do the next day instead write a list of those things before going to bed.
Having said all of that, I am the type of person who cares about others and worry a lot about things which are going on in the world and it takes me between one and four hours to get to sleep ( Living on a highway with traffic all day / night does not help either ).
As a result of this, I average 3 to 4 hours of sleep at night, then I get up and do surveys, then do whatever else I need to do that day then have 2 to 4 hours sleep during the day.
Counting sheep does not always work for some people because if you go to bed hungry then while you count the sheep they might start turning into lamb chops LOL
26-Aug-21

Do you donate money to Animal Shelters or Animal Cruelty? So many people abandon animals on the street here and overseas. They are thrown in the tip to die. Would that make you want to help?
lippy loo
I sometimes take old towels, blankets and such to the animal shelter near me.
I cannot understand cruelty to any living thing. To see animals being hurt in any way sickens me. .
29-Jul-21

Europe has a proposal to ban all new cars that run on fuel by 2035. It might yet get the go ahead, but there is quite some resistance to the idea of doing this, as you would expect! The new vehicles would have to be electrical. If this goes ahead eventually in ---Europe....you would have to anticipate it would follow on to other nations, in North America, Asia, Australisia, etc. Would you like to see this happen in your country? Do you think this is good...
Stephan S
Europe has a good infrastructure and not so long distances.Australia is completely different and I dont think electric cars are suitable at the moment.There is not even the necessary infrastructure and also the grid is already now on its limits.I will not buy an electric vehicle anytime soon
23-Jul-21

Should police departments tackle the issue of mental illness and sociopath within their own ranks MORE aggressively to minimize the danger of unstable officers? I m not sure that tackling officers mental issues is as important as tackling the 'causes' of police officers mental issues. Police officers should be expected to be excellent at their job. However, they should not be expected to be perfect. No one short of God is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. A mistake...
Arthur
with all due respect to rewardia panellists, I have a firm belief that folks who join the military or the police force are the ones who couldn't make it to be lawyers, doctors, architects, computer programmers and the list goes on.. Some of the police personnel make it to become politicians like the oaf Dutton, others rise in rank and become like the NSW deputy commissioner who stated lately in a televised news program that the police are tired of people breaking the quarantine rules (tired!!!!), srlsy? you are only issuing fines and nowadays all is computrized.
16-Jul-21

Some of us are in different countries, others from different provinces. We live here, there and a few more places. What dishes or foods do you find yourself cooking or eating? And, why? I'm interested and hopefully, recipes will be shared!
Moemoe
I like to try recipes from different eras, the ones from the 1930s are particularly good for anyone on a tight budget as they were developed for the depression into the era of food rationing during WWII
08-Jun-21

Do you feel wedding bands are necessary? Should a ring symbolize your love? Or is love, enough?
Mr Blobby
Maybe I am "old school" but I believe both partners should show their love and commitment to one another by wearing wedding bands.
05-Jun-21

I had intended to install solar panels on the roof of the building that I own...these panels will not only meet all my power needs but also feed back MORE power to the grid...my body corporate is actively doing everything possible to stop this...THIS IS MADNESS....body corporates need to be forced to allow solar panels...by law...if we can't install solar panels..how are we going to make any difference to climate change...all these little self important...
lordofthekitchen
No!, keep them away, give little people a bit of power, it goes to their heads, solar panels are good for the world, some little idiot should not have a say, fight on, you're doing a good thing.
06-Jun-21

I wake up during the night frequently. I seem to sleep for a few hours and then I am awake. I get on the computer and make myself a cup of tea and toast. After a few hours up I go back to sleep for a few more hours. This does not bother me as I no longer work. How about you?
lulu
I had sleep aponea at 80%, could not cope with that machine so i went on a weight loss programme and lost seven stone. Everyone i knew told me it wouldnt help but hey guess what it did and i no longer need the machine and sleep six to seven hours solid per night .
27-May-21

So often we hear people say, "If I only knew then what I know now." Looking back now I see so many things I wish I had not done, wrong decisions made, usually to please other people and I wonder if given another chance, would I still have done it. If you could go back and change one thing in your life, what would it be?
Pato Lo Duck
I’d have a lot more money, and also avoid all those sneaky surveys where you get the boot after completing 98% of them..
23-Apr-21

Being seniors we are concerned about what happens if our dogs outlive us. Fortunately our daughter overseas has written a promise that she would return to Australia as she is passionate about them too. Have you made arrangements about the future of your pets?
JoeB
No, my poor old Ragdoll is on her last legs and waiting for God. The vet has checked her and says she is not in pain but just fading so to wait a bit yet but it’s hard to see her like that. She’s 20 so not bad eh?
15-Apr-21

One of life s many wonders, for me, is heritage and cultures. Many are steeped with the knowledge of it and others not so much. I am a blend. I am Tsalagi (Cherokee - American Indian), African-American, and Irish. I know enough about they all, but never all. How do you feel about your heritage and it s culture? Or, is there anything you are willing to share about your heritage to enlighten some of us with an additional awe?
Gaza
I'm Australian as was my parents & grandparents, why do I have to bend over backwards to appease the indigenous people of this country that my family help build to today's standards I'm getting sick and tired of the racist remarks of the aboriginals, they get insulted with the word black but wear black shirts and clothing with their own flag on it and everywhere else.
07-Feb-21

A few local parking lots. I'm almost afraid to go there during peek hours. They drive like crazy people and I'm fearful of an accident!
JoeB
Parking lots are shared spaces with pedestrians so extra care is needed. I really hate it when you’ve backed half way out and some brainless kirp roars around the back looking so indignant and flips you off. No patience, 5 seconds and the job is done
11-Apr-21

With so many latch key kids should one parent always be at home when they arrive home and leave for school. Also on school holidays. There are so many kids getting up to mischief now days, do you think having a parent at home would help?
BLM
One, not every family can afford (for one parent to stay at home - the harsh realties of life). Two, not every child needs supervision (I know a lot of latch-key children who went on to become happy, well-rounded, and successful adults). Three, not every family has a support system (grand parents and/or extended family) to help raise a child. Four, this is not an issue where one solution works for every family (PERIOD). Five, MAYBE we new tougher standards for people to become a parent (obvious - what we have now - is not working). Six, I am not a parent (don't have any children) - I am definitely not the parent type - and I realizes that early in life (I got a vasectomy - did not become sexual active till I got a vasectomy)! Seven, I don't have a solution (other then 20th Century thinking (this is the 21st Century)) is NOT the solution - we need an array of (new) ideas not based on 20th century thinking!!
01-Apr-21

I recently joined Ancestry.com and, although l expected to find my immediate family and inlaws, l was also expecting it to be a tedious and hard slog to find many relatives after that. However, after my initial family names had been put in, hints suddenly appeared against each name. Now, 26 family members have grown into a family tree of 1800 names and growing! Genealogy is addictive! Are you interested in genealogy? Do you belong to a genealogy website or...
Krissy
I never uses Ancestry.com before is because I don't too much about my family and where they came from. To me I would like to use Ancestry.com to find out who are my family is and where they a came from.
31-Mar-21

I have problems trying to sleep & I can't sleep. Do you have any great ideas or suggestions of how to fall asleep?
Sha
No eating or drinking before bedtime, it makes me feel bloated. Listen to some soothing music or watch something on TV that can make you nod off. Lol!!!!
17-Mar-21

Thousands and thousands of people around the globe waiting for organ transplants but there are not enough organs available. Legalization might help many people.
Therese M 73305
Definitely not i understand people are in desperate need but whether people would see me as selfish with my comment but i came whole and im going whole i couldnt donate my adult sons organs the thought of them not going whole disturbed me drastically and strangers having bits of my children would have haunted me im sorry but its not for me
18-Mar-21

Should the government make COVID-19 vaccination compulsory as many business are?
Margarret F
Absolutely NOT compulsory. The flu vaccination system works without being compulsory - why should anything else change this procedure. Malaria kills millions of children per year too and measles is much more contagious. There is much to consider.
05-Feb-21

Here in Australia most of the population is in major cities. Australia is known as a wide brown land. Is there a willingness to move to more rural areas if fast rail ever goes ahead or jobs created in large rural towns. Could people in other countries reflect on their situation if it reflects this situation.
Carolyn 395035
I live in a rural area and absolutely love it. Rail - hmmm - what rail??? - We used to have one in Cowra, NSW, but the government decided to close it because it was not making enough money. Same thing happened with the airport. Now the only way people can get here is by train to Bathurst and bus the rest of the way, or you can drive the four hour drive. With due respect to Council, they need to try and get our train lines open again.
01-Feb-21

We have to live and do the best with what we have. Sometimes I feel so frustrated with myself like a cat - chasing its tail going around and around, have so many bad habitats like all the bad habitats are stopping me from genuinely enjoying and getting the best out of my life. I do have some good habitats like listening to music, god please help me and my family and friends, I know life can be better and more enjoyable god bless you all.
Joe King
I only get frustrated when I knock my beer over and it spills onto my breakfast cereal. It makes them taste a tad odd.
30-Jan-21

Well it's been a roller coaster of a ride this year globally. I have met some great people on Rewardia and hope next year will be positive for everyone. I thought I would go out with a poem that sums up a typical Christmas for our family. Aunty May has come to stay with Uncle Bob close by her side, I let out a groan, the kids all moan and my partner's gone to hide! The pavlova's gone flat, I can't find my cat and the turkey is horrid and dry. The pool's sprung a...
Wazzahen
Although this year was terrible for many who have lost their lives but we will cheer those who have overcome their adversity & are here to celebrate the New Year with some trepidation but also hope that we will become stronger & more caring for our family,friends and neighbours
31-Dec-20

Many, many years ago, I worked as a childcare worker and if you witnessed what I saw working in various centres, you WOULDN'T place your kid in childcare. But it's not only the safety aspect. Parents are missing out on their children's important moments. Their first baby steps. Their first word. You can never get that again. Raise your kids yourself!
Angel
Having worked in a childcare centre, some kids are better off in one. We had children that had never sat at a table to eat.
02-Nov-20

I love self-checkout. It's quick, easy and I don't have to deal with other human beings. Perfection. I know some people detest self-checkout though. I am not one of them.
Phyrephly
I'm afraid I don't have very much luck with the machines, they don't seem to even what to take my money! You can hear the machines moaning when I walk up to them! And yeah, agree with David S, jobs being eroded.
16-Aug-20

I've tried some pretty out-there diets! I really want to try the champagne diet. Any diet that allows a couple of glasses of champagne a day, sounds good to me!
Vesta
It's sad that this question implies that dieting is normal - please love yourselves and don't fall into the trap of thinking that you need to be any kind of preferred 'normal' whether that be big, small or any combination of body shapes. When you die the only thing that matters is who you were which shouldn't be defined by appearance. Just aim for the kind of healthy that allows you the freedom to do the tasks you need to, have enough energy to get the job done and enough love and mental peace for those who mean the most.
14-Nov-20

2 tbsp oil 2 large chicken breasts diced 1 onion finely chopped 2 cloves garlic minced 1 cup peas 1 can tomatoes 2 cups frozen spinach 1 teaspoon oregano 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme 1/2 teaspoon chili flakes optional Salt and pepper to taste 1 cup grated cheese Heat oil in a large pan, and cook the chicken, onion and garlic until browned. Add in the seasonings and canned tomato and bring to a simmer for 15 minutes. Meanwhile boil the spinarch and peas. Once...
Phyrephly
a few ingredients, but nothing major league difficult, easy, tasty meal and pretty quick, so it's all good.
6 days ago

My grandson's football team won their championship this weekend and both his parents were there supporting him. They drive the boys to their soccer, football, basketball and hockey practices and games. They send them out onto the field, the rink or the court, not telling them to win, but just to do their best and have fun. That is how it should be, but for so many parents it is not. My two nephews are grown now, but I used to go to their hockey games as they were...
Andrew396
Unfortunately, there's sports parents who take it way too seriously, so they resort to heckling the officials (who quite often are not even adults), the opposing team, other parents, and things sometimes get physical. Relax, let your kids have fun. The chances of them reaching the professional levels, let alone the top pro levels are so small. And yes, those kids with those awful parents will pick up on that and are more likely to become like that themselves in adulthood.
22-Jul-26

Ingredients 1 and 2/3 cups plain flour 1/4 cup cocoa powder 1 teaspoon baking soda 1/4 teaspoon salt 1/2 cup unsalted butter, softened 3/4 cup brown sugar 1/4 cup sugar 1 large egg 1 tablespoon buttermilk 2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract 3/4 teaspoon gel red food coloring 1 cup chocolate chips, white, dark or milk Instructions Whisk the flour, cocoa powder, baking soda, and salt together in a medium bowl. Set aside. Beat the butter, brown...
BLM
Thanks for sharing your recipe (River). However, I have a lack-of-control-issue when it comes to SWEETS!
19-Jul-26
How is everyone coping with the escalating cost of petrol/diesel in your country now due to the blockage of fuel tankers from the Strait of Hormuz. I live in New Zealand and 91 has gone up to $3.69 per litre. It was well under $3 per litre in February this year. Also it is scary to think that we might run out of diesel in 3 weeks time.
Woodster
I filled up on the day the Iran war broke out and don't drive much but the price of 91 in South Australia is around $2.40 I think and the next fill up will be with clenched teeth! You fuel in NZ is very expensive KittyK, in February ours was around $1.59.
29-Mar-26

The best deals are usually immediately after Christmas. This because the retail stores want to sell the materials they have overstocked on. And want to do this as quickly as possible. What is your experience?
Jellypony
Merry Christmas every one, let's hope there is more compassion and love in the world in 2026. Have a great time no matter where you are and with what you have planned for the festive season, Good luck, stay calm and enjoy good foods with family and friends.
21-Dec-25

No matter how good-looking a car may be, safety should always come first. As well as looking out for features such as ABS, traction control, and airbags, you should also check the safety record. What features or characteristics do you value most in a vehicle?
lippy loo
I like the older cars with manual transmissions and wind down windows which are plus for safety. If you break down you can push the car and even push start it. If you go into water you can wind the windows down and get out not so in electric cars etc.
There is so much going on in the new cars that it is distracting the drivers.
22-Oct-25

Genetics are fascinating, my sister is a mirror image of our mother looks, personality, love of fishing and camping, same taste in clothing, same tiny shoe size it's all there, they were often taken for sisters when Mum was younger. I was gifted with her medical issues thanks Mum.
Janet 1621979
I never thought I looked like Mum really ... but never forget once in a shopping centre a couple years ago ... a lady stopped me and said "You are ........'s daughter" Complete stranger.
19-May-25

Ingredients: - 500g mince meat (beef, chicken, or your choice) - 1 jar passata sauce - 1 packet taco seasoning mix (use half if you prefer less spice) - Grated cheese (cheddar or a cheese blend) - 1 onion (optional) - Vegetables of your choice (e.g. capsicum, corn, zucchini optional) - 250 300g pasta (penne, spiral, or your preferred type) Instructions: 1. Preheat oven to 160 180°C (320 355°F). 2. Cook the pasta in boiling...
Von
Aaaw..Let's not be too hard on Rebecca...it's obvious she meant mince meat...not mice meat.
This looks like a quick and easy meal.
08-May-25
Dear Rewardians! We would like to introduce two new games that we have added today to the Play and Earn section. The first game is "Hexagon Fall," where the goal is to remove blocks to let your hexagon fall down. The second game is "Find Me," where you have to find the specific player in the crowd before time runs out. Since we have just added these games today, they haven't had time to gain a rank yet and are currently at the bottom of the list.
Jewel
I see Thomas is at the top of the leader board for Hexagon fall...just wondering how many points you accumulated? I am sitting at no.5 and for my top scoring game I only got 2 points! Hardly worth the effort.
The Find Me game seems to cheat...I click on the man multiple times before it finally registers and then only ever seem to get 2 points.
31-Jan-25

What food do you love that other people seem to think is odd? Or what food do you loathe that others seem to love? I really like coriander (aka cilantro for the US users) as do my sisters. I use it a lot when making Thai dishes. My adult 'kids' hate it, to them, it tastes like soap. (clearly their dad's gene's influencing it) I can't stand olives or oysters, but they are both quite popular with others. How about you ? Do you have foods you love/ hate...
Thylas
I love most seafood but do not like oysters. The appearance of them and the texture is revolting. Yet many people seem to think they're marvellous. I also think kangaroo is disgusting too. Plenty fellow Aussies seem to think it's marvellous, but to me it smells and tastes like it's off.
04-Mar-25
I just completed a Silver survey fro 750 points Anyone else completed a Silver survey?
Chin C
I completed the same survey too tonight. Surprised to see a new colour. Also, my survey list has been spammed by Purple surveys today. All 20 of them, none are accessible - either saying you already attempted the survey or you have been screened out. Yet the surveys won't disappear, just sit there looking pretty.
08-Mar-24

I had a MIL from hell. Enough said on her. The daughter was much the same, though cut from the same cloth as my Mum used to say. My girlfriend's MIL actually was another. My friend had 2 young boys and all were little surfers (I live in Queensland, Australia). MIL decided they should not have the blonde curls (the hair was not that long, and they looked lovely) and so she buzz cut it all off. I would have never trusted her with my kids again as she knew...
Janet 1621979
In general I have found most In Laws are what you make them. I have seen MIL's that have been very pushy ..... but you just have to set boundries. If your In Laws are doing something you are not happy with - be honest AND TELL THEM (politely). Something like "I appreciate what you are saying ... but these are my kids - my rules". If a MIL is to cut your child's hair without FIRST checking with you - I can assure you she would NOT DO IT TWICE in my house. She would get very cool treatment from me. I do agree that it is often a MIL who is not happy about who her son has chosen..... a very stupid woman I say.
23-Jan-25
My favorite TV series is 'The Night Stalker' (1974 - 1975). My second favorite TV series is 'The Prisoner' (1967 - 1968). My third favorite TV series is 'The Avengers' starring Honor Blackman (1961 - 1964) - she left the series after the third season. The TV series 'The Avengers' ran from 1961 - 1969!
PatCat
My whole family were fans of the "Vera" series. I've seen some of them again recently and found them much more "real" than any of the new cop series. Seems just like what has happened to the ABC. They take away more and more of their funding and they can't afford good writers and actors to play them. My brother-in-law still chortles over " Fawlty Towers", and "Life of Brian" endlessly.
28-Dec-24
"Pluggers" are defined as rural, blue-collar workers who live a typical working-class lifestyle, accompanied by a mentality characteristic of the G.I. and Baby Boomer generations. If you think you are a "Plugger", what is it that you do, that makes you think you qualify?
Gigi
You know Aussies and Americans have very different ways of saying things. Constantly am I confronted with a word I'd have no way of knowing in which context you are using it in......like Plugger. Lol
25-Nov-24
Seen an ad for reusable toilet rolls (cloths). $49 for 24. Would you use them. Also similar for dogs but more expensive. I guess its in line with cloth nappies many years ago. But not for me.
Holly Cat
Next someone will be selling eco friendly leaves you can use and throw outside when you're done :). They clean you and can be used as fertilizer, good for the garden.
23-Oct-24
I recently was chatting with my neighbours about one in particular who as I write this is merrily out the front of my windows with his little man power tool collection ,including my all time favourite the angle grinder. I have slammed my windows shut twice now but he does not pick up on the fact I may be slightly irritated having ringing ears.. Funny tho ,I can listen to music on loud all day long but he is the first to complain if there's a party next door as they...
mary c
ohhhh so many many noises...except my own loud music haha. Hate people coughing and sneezing these day- not sure why???
Hate hearing my dog swallowing noisily in the night, or noisily licking nethers eww. Hate hate noisy boy racers revving down our street late at night and doing wheelies at the roundabouts. Though i would probably be one of them if i was young and a lad. And there's more...HATE the sounds of those Gunshot firecrackers that people let off..that freak us and our animals out.
Hubby hates the sound of his neighbour howling..yes howling. And the guy who power saws bits of wood for hours in the nearby workshop. He turned up on a sunday once to cut wood- until a certain man in tank chair zoomed over and gesticulated at him to F.O.
01-Jan-23

Women who have Caesarean births in Scotland go home on the second day of the birth. This is a financial decision, not a medical one. Surely, the care of the mother and child should be paramount. I was concerned when I heard this. Do you think this is going too far in the cost-cutting exercise, potentially putting patients at risk?
Liane H
Absolutely disgraceful. Higher risk of post natal depression and undiagnosed versions of it ...
Why put so much pressure on new mums ? Day 3 is the worst day after birth for the baby blues to set in and milk production to come in properly ,then complications can arise ... that is all just after a natural childbirth!
19-Aug-24

My problem is that I always forget to eat lunch. I'm not hungry, and I get busy during the day. My meter is happy, though. I googled to see how many meals we should eat each day, and it varies. I've read articles saying we could just eat one big meal each day. I've read articles saying we should eat 6 small meals a day. How many meals do you eat? Do you think eating only breakfast and dinner is a bad thing? Or should we beat eating 5 or 6 times a day. How often do...
Linda Humby
I admit, I have a smoothie nearly every morning for breakfast. I often have a quiche or peanut butter sandwich for lunch, and meat and vegies for dinner, (about 3 x a week) I recently read the Whole meal Bread with Smooth peanut butter, No sugar/salt, actually helps your weight and digestion when eaten before bed. So that's my new favorite bedtime snack. It seems to help. Ive been dieting for 6 months. I lost 25 kgs but am a bit stuck for loosing the last 20-15 kgs. In the last month, Ive gone back up 1 kg...grrr... AnY tips? Im trying to Eat Less and Move More.
08-Aug-24

We are seriously considering fostering a child. We need to consider many negative and positive aspects. Do you have any insights or advice based on your experience?
Teri 1282723
I've done it. And if you truly love people and want to help someone who isn't old enough to speak up for themselves, I recommend you do it as well. I grew up in a home where my parents nearly always had 1-3 foster children sharing our lives. We learned as children that fosters come and go, but we were able to adopt 2 of the boys. They are my brothers through and through. The girls that I fostered were being abused, both 16 years old. One was being beaten regularly by her mother and stabbed once, the other was being raped by her mother's live-in boyfriend. The time with them was only a few months each but it was enough to let them know there are good people in the world and both changed into good people themselves. One has a lovely family and the other is a veterinary technician. Both are happy:)
I very highly recommend fostering if you honestly feel your heart wanting to help. You don't get much financially, but you get loads in return emotionally. As much as you know they will most likely be leaving your home at some point, each and every one of them stay in your heart forever. You love with all purity of intentions and build them up and show them good in their world. You will make a positive difference for each child.
17-Jun-24
Ok so they may not have made it to superstardom and won the competition, but some Auditions / performances seem to stick in your memory. Or you may have found one randomly watching other music show clips . Old or new. In fact Dance or other talents ,, magic shows, comedy acts ,,whatever!! Here's one of my favourites. Shavia ( will link underneath)
Holly Cat
I was wondering where you went :) I also like metal, so found this metal cover....Rocio, Sweet Dreams:
https://youtu.be/78Mh3hIh0I8?si=hB-BbTB3C1Lh4LTV
25-Mar-24

If you invited a friend over for dinner, and you suddenly became ill just an hour before they were to show up, do call them to tell them you suddenly fell ill thinking they may feel you're cancelling because you really don't want them to come, or do you tell them the truth to protect them from catching the illness?
Witchypoo
Tell them that whilst you were preparing dinner you tested it for taste and now you feel ill! \ud83e\udd74
27-May-24
WSP (Wealth, Status ,and Power) or if you prefer (CP) Class and Power is tearing the USA apart. The USA was the last country (for a HAVE country) - too outlaw slavery - and that took a civil war! Democrats tried too undermine the election results in 2016 - Hillary Clinton (which the public does not acknowledge). Republicans are trying to undermine election results in 2020 - President Donald Trump (Trump is not a budding genius...
phillH
The problem is you americans are under the delusion that you think your country is the greatest thing on this planet when in fact most of the world generally dislikes your country and what it stands for and finds most of you very irritating and quite honestly I couldnt give a rats arse if your country dissolves into anarchy
18-May-23

How often have we said that someone is "just jealous" when they have offended us in some way. I was a bit shocked one day when one friend told me that another had said this about me after I'd said I didn't think a certain outfit would suit her. I knew she really liked the outfit, but I truly thought she would look better in something more suitable for her weight and shape. I worried over this for some time and concluded that while she has a lot of expensive things that...
Mayhem
My friends jealous because my puppy is better looking than hers .. we are both still besties and always will be ..
04-Apr-24

More & more these days with huge rises to everyone with bills & our every day cost of living, hardly anyone can survive any more. It has forced many families for both parents to work to meet our daily expenses. On top of this, many families also have extra expenses on Babies & Children with all of their needs. One income doesn't do it any more unless both parents are CEO of a company, which is rare. That leaves parents with children to seek a nanny/babysitter. Not an...
LilyRose
I'm 57. Both my parents worked. Neither had CEO wages. I went to pre school as soon as I was old enough. My grandparents didn't babysit because they lived too far away. I'm tired of people whining about lack of money. If you get your priorities right there's no reason why you can't live and save on two incomes. It's been done for decades. Society today spends too much on new cars, TV subscriptions, mobile phones. Inet plans, tatoos and false nails! To name a few! Learn the difference between wants and needs!
01-Feb-24
Ok, so today I heard the story about the 50 year old man who, because he identifies as a 15 year old girl, has been accepted with open arms into a swimming team of girls aged between 13 and 15. And...as if that's not insane enough, this 50 year old man (fully equipped with 50 year old man bits and functioning eyes) is changing in the same change room as his fellow swimmers. So I ask the question...would you be happy to let your young daughter swim and change...
Glenice L 1244113
Oooops! Grandpa may be getting over the hill there!
I've heard of MAP (minor attracted person), but it seemed too filthy for my frame of mind to read any further.
01-Feb-24

Every year we exchange gifts with my sons-in-law, dad and aunt. Most times we do it through my daughter, so we don t even see each other. Many times we get gifts we don t want and either re-gift them or give them to my daughter. I prefer not to exchange gifts. My daughter says just don t give them one. They are not buying for us in expectation of a gift in return. What do others think about this??
Michelle Z 978367
Christmas time to me is all about giving not receiving. If you really want to give a gift donate a child's toys under the Kmart tree for a child in need.
Or perhaps donate an amount that you can afford to charity.
13-Dec-23
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