Discussions of the day

How are you? No, really ... how ARE you? Yes you. I was taught as a child to say "well, thank you". So I still do. I could be dying. Had surgery. Lost a loved one. Fighting fires. But "I'm well, thanks". How do you break a lifelong polite habit, and should we?
APB
I bought a book for a friend who had recently moved to Australia.."How to be 'Stralian"....in this invaulable text book ..it advised that the locals would ask you questions like "how's it going mate?"..or "you right mate?"...and that it was important to understand that nobody cared about how you actually were at all...that they really didn't want to know....and that in Australia ....the only acceptable answer was "good"
....there is a lot of truth in that!
16-May-22

Since Christmas, I no longer received a hard copy of Woolworths catalogue in my letterbox. Whilst I agree with the environmental benefits of not wasting papers, I do miss seeing the hard copy. I know I can go online to look at the weekly specials, like what I have done with Coles for the last 12 months, I find that I actually stopped going to both supermarkets. In the past, the specials in the catalogue would be the main factor for me deciding which supermarket to visit...
Evie
YES! Paper/physical copies are so much better. You can keep them around as long as you want, earmark pages you like, and it's easier to go back and forth. Online isn't the same. Environmental bs is just that: bs. Paper is recyclable and technology is made from plastic and fossil fuels anyway.
14-May-22

Most of the planet seems to be saying "its OK... happy Christmas" and then slamming the door again on boxing day....in Australia we are opening up the door to a massive flood of covid...with a fair bit of enthusiasm...New Years Eve massive super spreader parties and celebrations could be the turning point when every part of Australia looks like the developing mess in NSW...are we all ready for this?...is it too late to exercise a bit of common sense?....
Timtam
Yep common sense has gone out the window with a govt who is more concerned about the next election than the health of the Australian people. The new rule changes are absolute bullshit and have no basis in science, purely politics to hide the real number of covid cases. Rapid tests are an important tool, but the lack of a mechanism to report the +ve cases detected by rapid tests smacks of the desire to cover up the true number of cases.
The 4 hour exposure rule and household only as close contacts is absolute, unscientific, political rubbish.
31-Dec-21

Are we in denial about alcohol? Why do you drink and how much in your opinion is too much? Are the guidelines for no more than two standard drinks per day realistic?
Jellypony
Depends on if it is hard liquor or not. We have 2 beers and some times 2 wines and occasionally we drink every day but only for a little while and then we stop and go back to our 3 nights off a week. Some would think that was excessive. We enjoy our drinkies and nibbles. I don't care what other people think, we do as we please in our own home and we are no threat to any one. We are careful and we manage our own health and I don't think it is doing us any damage (yet)? We are here enjoying life and we are happy. I don't judge others so why should they judge us.
13-May-22

It concerns me greatly going on a shopping expedition to the local supermarket, especially of late. Has anybody else out there cringed at price increases of meat?... Actually, I should say everything in the supermarket lately. Then there's the price of Petrol & Diesel... Yeah, "WOW" enough said! Yes, the struggle is real when it comes to feeding one's family without the added bonus of more financial stress for those out there trying to pay off their little patch of...
Edith v
Yes it is tough out there .We are a couple of aged pensioners & I can get 4 meals from a medium chicken ,Pot of chook stock(I boil the chook using onions ,carrots & celery(don't over cook keep the stock & veg)use the 2 legs(not thighs) & wings.I brown them & with roast potatoes & veg, I use a little amount of stock to make gravy.Meal 1.The thighs we have cold with Salad,Meal 2. 1/2 the stock I put diced pumpkin & diced potato in cook gently in the stock when cooked I mash vegies well for wholesome pumpkin soup & serve with crusty bread meal 3. ,The breast I break in pieces I drain a tin of asparagus pieces add to chicken,I make a white sauce using stock(not milk)Add a handful frozen peas meal 4. (All dishes seasoned to your taste) we freeze some if portions too large. also eat other meats . I shared these recipes for others on a budget .
06-May-22

With the push for green energy all the rage over the past number of years, have you put up solar panels on your roof? Why or why not?
IdentifyAs
God, no!!!! Another BS scheme by the Governments, the Greenies etc. Whilst good in theory, it just doesn't work, the outlay is too much, damage not covered, lifetime is short. I have enough problems!!!
12-May-22

It's been suggested by both major parties in Australia to increase the retirement age. (The age of 70 has been mentioned.) I have a relative who retired about two years ago due to hip problems. He was a former truck driver. Lucky for him...he has enough money in superannuation to rely on. (Do you think that it should be raised?) Not everyone has got enough of the super...and if their health isn't what it used to be...it might be a struggle for some. Some might find...
Pongo
I retired at 65 and I’m busier now than I was when I was working. I’m now 77 and could still do a days work Every one is different
11-May-22

Have you ever been called up for Jury Duty? Do you think it should be compulsory? I mean, it can't be easy for people who are forced into this position. I'm lucky so far ... I haven't been ... but a family member was some years back. Your Views?
Sandra C 12043
Never called up, but would have done it if needed. Not an easy task if you are called up for a murder trial like a friend did. She was called up for the Truro Murders and I think it lasted 6 weeks. She was a nervous wreck after it.
09-May-22

I have constantly been on diets, I lose my weight, and it slowly creeps back on - what is the secret is there any diet out there that actually makes you happy and keeps your weight off and motivated?
Dada WA
I'm not slim and don't try to be. Overweight but at my age why worry. I can get around, play bowls and am mobile. Better than many 80 year olds.
10-May-22

To prepare for future disasters, do you think which kinds of food never spoil, and we can start stocking them now?
'smee,SWQ!
Why not! ... Rice, Wheat, Honey etcetera - but to digress remember when milk would go off after a couple of days (note use by dates on it now!) Bread ... was stale after a day and sold at half price as "Day Old Bread"!
08-May-22

I'm in my 60s, raised a family, worked, kept house all of that stuff, but I would never allow TV when the kids were getting ready for school. I preferred books or crosswords and puzzles. Even at home between jobs I couldn't be bothered with it but now in retirement that TV is never off grrr, personally I think it could be binned anyone else like me?
QMY10
Lived with no TV as child out west n no TV available all hours when rearing kids regionally but once we did defiant none before school at meals or till homework done. I still can't handle a TV on n nobody listening or watching it...I am not a big movie watcher either ...so if mine broke would replace for hubby only
05-May-22

During these days I noticed that the economy in the country has entered a state of inflation, and prices are constantly rising, especially the energy sector, According to my follow-up to local and international news, I realized that global economy has entered a critical stage. What are the steps that may limit the deterioration of the economy in the country? What did you do during the last period to maintain your financial balance ?
Michelle S 553303
This inflationary rise is by design in order to crash the economies of the world and destroy the fiat money system so that the WEF can bring in their Fourth Industrial Revolution and confirm their "Great Reset" which will cause a completely digital economy to replace the present democratic countries and bring in the NWO. Anyone who hasn't been paying attention to these psychopaths ought to because the end game is to cause a global famine that would lead to their being able to reduce global populations by more than 2/3rds and get rid of us "useless eaters"! The time is rapidly approaching when families will have to make a choice between paying the mortgage or rent or eating. It is THAT serious. But TPTB don't want riots on their hands so they have already destroyed the health of billions around the globe with their deadly shots, falsely labelled "vaccines" and in a 12 month period from, I believe, February 2021 to February 2022 the US suffered as many deaths in the working age population than died in the entire Vietnam war. The millenials are dropping like flies especially from cardiac issues. This is an absolute fact but you won't hear it on MSM. The hyperinflation will render the currency of virtually every country useless just like In Venezuela and Zimbabwe and Yugoslavia in the 1990's. The war in Russia and Ukraine is merely a distraction and someone to blame for this manufactured shortage and supply chain issues, but they have existed for far longer than just a few months. If you can afford to stock up on foods like beans, grains, pasta's and tinned foods do it IMMEDIATELY. Same applies if you have the capacity to pay extra on your mortgage or rent. A global crisis far worse than the Great Depression is coming and by later this year even MSM won't be able to hide it. Mock if you like but I have plenty of other things to do rather than spread lies on a survey platform. It's going to be HORRIFIC!
02-May-22

Do you think voting should be compulsory? Are you a swinging voter? Has maturity change the way you think with regard to voting? Have you changed the way you vote from the way your parents encouraged you to vote ... A one off payment is to be announced by the Australian treasurer in the upcoming budget to help with the cost of living. Would that be a vote winner. If it were a princely sum of a couple of thousand dollars, I think I would have to take the money, even...
QMY10
No money hand outs sway me I go from past experience n if they can actually look at the camera when talking cause if they can't dont trust them but I do wish they would ditch in person voting go online like the census
07-May-22

I started out with steak and burgers....then increasingly more Indian Food as a mainstay ... then suddenly didn't enjoy it much and live now mostly on Italian food...someone else did a similar thing but now lives on Chinese food...how about you?
CHERRY BLOSSOM
Yes i think your eating habits change when you get older as i now have a lot of heart burn than when i was younger,so i have to watch what i eat.
04-May-22

What is your opinion on women playing rugby league?
Bugalugs
I don't care what they play. That being said my grandfather was a Professor of Medicine, specialising in Pathology and Anatomy. In his day he was one of the UK's leading experts in those fields. He did not approve of women/girls playing Contact Sports such as Football (AFL was unheard of) Rugby, Wrestling etc., his belief was that physiologically the female body was not suited to these sports - it had nothing to do with gender as such.
If the reports in the media around the world are true that SINCE THE ADVENT OF Women playing NRLW/ AFLW, FFW etc, the number of Women who have been badly injured as a result of taking part far exceeds, on average, those suffered by men over many years longer.If those reports are true then maybe my Grandfather was right. Of course he was a man and therefore, with today's attitude that Men are Always Wrong he would be disregarded and condemned as being a misogynist, a male supremacist or somesuch nonsense!
01-May-22

Television, mobile phone, which invention for you was the best ever? For me, hands down, it has been the microwave. It has made my life so much easier. I can remember nights when the meat wouldn't thaw or the bread was a frozen lump, but now nothing is a problem. I can defrost, thaw or cook whatever I want whenever I want. I no longer cook veggies on the cooktop, or rice and milk, it all goes into the microwave. Even the gravy goes into the microwave. I don't...
Sandra C 12043
An inside flushing toilet. Beats the old dunny or going in the bush.I've been around long enough to use the long drop. the dunny, hear and smell the duinny carts coming to pick it up. Most of you lot weren't even born then.
03-May-22

What is the best lesson you have ever learnt in your life, or the funniest? Mine was that you cannot make every person happy and if you have to change who you are or go against your morals or beliefs to make someone happy, then you don't need that person in your life.
APB
Never think that everyone around you thinks the same way that you do...almost none of them do...and don't make any assumptions or plans based on that idea...people are seriously much more weird than you can possibly imagine
...that took me way far too long to work out...It'll save you a lot of time and effort....
..I might write a book about it
29-Apr-22

The ACT, government in Australia have made changes to some police policy's regarding home-break ins. Under certain circumstances in the ACT...if you're a victim of breakin-burglaries...the police won't attend your home to take a statement, and do a check. You will now be asked to report it online. This is very disturbing to say the least! Imagine the trauma you would feel..and then told to only report it online. Could this become a Australian wide...
Bugalugs
This is an appalling idea. It is just an excuse for the Police to do Nothing for that is exactly what will happen. What about people who do not have, nor want, the Internet, computers, mobile phones etc.? What do they do or will some non-Police employee of the Police simply tell you to either report on-line or forget about it? The Police are Supposed to be there to Help, to interact with the Community not just sit in offices looking a computer screens or swanning around in their fancy cars. Once - many, many years ago, there were Police on the Beat in most suburbs - on foot. Today by the time they would get to you when there is trouble it would probably be far too late.
This proposal is just making the Police even more remote than they already are! Have a look at some of them the next time you happen to see one walking about! Most are Grossly over-weight so to have them off their backsides and walking the beat would be good for them. The result would be the Public would feel Safer and know that the Police actually do care about Public Safety and the prevention of Crime.
30-Apr-22

What books have you read in the past that made you really think, it opened your eyes? I like to read stuff about COVER UPS. People that have experienced things and revealed information... especially when it's not political-correct to do so or the mainstream media didn't want to touch it. These sorts of subjects are often on videos as well... these days.
Bugalugs
"The happiest man on Earth" by Eddie Jaku. "The Auschwitz Photographer" by Maurizio Onnis and Luca Crippa. "The Tattooist of Auschwitz" by Heather Morris. If those three accounts of the Appalling things that can be done by Human Beings to Innocent men, women and children - 6.4 million members of the Jewish religion and another 7.3 millions simply because they did not fit in with the beliefs of a Dictator and his collaborators - do not convince you that these monsters should be stopped then nothing will.
Hitler described the Polish people & those of the Jewish faith as "Sub-humans, the "Scum of the Earth".
The Russian Dictator, Vladimir Putin, has used exactly the same words to describe the Ukrainian People.
He Must be stopped or he will, just like Hitler, exterminate them as well.
28-Apr-22

I m a healthy 51 year old single dad who s after a relationship. The problem I m finding is whether on dating sites etc, most women are just after fun and one-night stands? Are others having the same problems, issues?
Cely
I'm been single for about 4 years....it's taken that long to get over it and because of that relationship I'm scared to find someone but then I'm scared of dying alone...I'm 64 and gay...
26-Apr-22

Can you give an unbiased opinion? Sometimes, in the least? Or, too difficult when it involves your close relationships?
Dimitri T 100433
in my humble opinion, we all have biased since it is our opinion based on our perceptions,which are also biased
27-Apr-22

Who has to get up in the mornings at least an hour before they have to go to work? Just so that we can be alert and up to make it without biting someone head off? It's like this if I don't have my coffee then I'll talk to you, you don't talk to me kinda thing.
Jania S
Not me, I learnt to go remove the idiot box, radio and limit internet, go to bed early, sleep like a log. and never have a problem waking up and being grumpy.
18-Apr-22

Is there really such a thing as justice? When two sides are in such vehement opposition, sometimes it seems only the lawyers are the winners. People talk about closure, but it seems that satisfactions n in the court is something of a myth. Or am I just jaded...?
Carmel C 103964
Justice has nothing to do with closure. Closure is the personal ability to accept something and move on. No-one else can do that for you except yourself.
25-Apr-22

Do you have any celebrity/public person crush? I am in Platonic love with Will Smith for about 2 decades. My husband always laugh when I watch some movie with him. Apparently I always blush.
FastBird
That celebrity is no one to look up to.
His disgraceful behavior at the academy awards has forever tarnished him.
01-Apr-22

It has been implemented lately of assistance increases for beneficiaries and pensioners across the board, however apart from minimum wage increases do you think workers who are within a certain threshold should have access to benefits of beneficiaries when in need for e.g. food grants and dental care?
Sand
Depends of the threshold. When the poor can only afford to eat one meal a day I really don't care about the rights of the haves. I am sick and tired of the wealthier stating that $250 000 is not big wage and that they pay too much in child care, taxes, whinge, whine.... It is time for a revolution. Up against the wall with the richest as they are making people starve. Yes, that is an economic fact!
24-Apr-22

If you could only pick one food item to describe you, what would you choose? It could be anything like a type of beverage, a specific cereal brand or confectionery, a type of cake or biscuit or a fast food item, a fruit, a vegetable, a particular cut of meat or a type of dish for example. So what would you choose and why?
Maria B 89860
Lollies, a BIG bag of Mixed Lollies. I am strong willed and can resist buying them but once open the pack just like magic poof, they disappear!
23-Apr-22

I can't believe the rising cost of healthcare insurance prices. I understand why many people are not insuring themselves for health care, but unfortunately some people need it because of certain illness. I believe that all health insurance companies are putting their prices up and that a lot of people just can't afford it. I have been thinking of switching from my current fund, but there does not seem to be a big difference between funds
lippy loo
If they bought the cost down a good bit many people would take it up but every July up it goes and people start to pull out. Our health system here in Australia over the past 10 or so years has just gone down and down with hospitals closed, staff shortages but costs rising in part due to the top people getting paid very high salaries. Systems put in place that are not logical or workable in many cases. The age care sector is a disgrace. It is time to put someone in charge to go through it all bit by bit and get solutions that are workable yet still cost effective without limiting the care required.
22-Apr-22

At the risk of offending all and sundry, these are my thoughts. We need a license to own a gun. To drive a car. A license is needed to set up a food business. A license is needed to look after other peoples children both in home and out of home. Medics have to be registered and licensed. Teachers have to be registered and licensed. Licensed to sell alcohol. Fishing Licenses. Marriage Licenses To name a few ... Where is it okay for anyone regardless of income,...
BLM
should parents to be - need a license to raise children - YES - ask any kid(s) that has to deal with (mental cruelty - negligence - verbal abuse inflicted on them by their parents) - (sex abuse inflicted on them by their parents) - (physical abuse inflicted on them by their parents) - I GOT LUCKY - I am a survivor of physical abuse and (mental cruelty - negligence - verbal abuse) by my parents - surviving on the streets for four years as teen-ager - after becoming a teen-ager runaway - was a piece of cake - since returning home (as a teen-ager) was not a reasonable option - have not seen my parents in over 56 years and counting - BOTTOM LINE: BECAUSE TWO IDIOTS CAN BECOME A PARENT DOES NOT AUTOMATIC TRANSLATE INTO A FACT THEY WILL BECOME PARENTS !!! P.S. Society should have never ALLOWED my parents to become parents - UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES!!!!
31-Jan-21

While music changed radically in the 1960's, the need to have funny lyrics and songs survived and thrived...aside from funny bands like the Bonzos and the Scaffold...bands from the Beatles to Madness to Ian Dury...all managed to write funny songs...why does everyone take themselves so seriously nowadays?...what ever happened to fun?
lippy loo
All these rap songs are so hard to understand or full of anger or foul language. Some may like it but who remembers any of these so called songs. Many of the 60's music is still played everywhere these days. Some are classics. There are a few songs these days which are good but it seems a lot are sung with nasally whiney voices and again hard to understand. If it is not sung in this fashion then we have to put up with women dressed skimpily and gyrating across the screens. I do not think there is much talent being shown
08-Apr-22

I started to gamble a little this year. Nothing major but playing lotto once a week. I treat it as fun and sometimes win, but not much. So far, I was able to invite my partner for lunch using the win money. Do you guys play Lotto as well?
BLM
NOT into any form of gambling - I worked too damn hard for my money (before I retired over 23 years ago and counting) :-))!
21-Apr-22

A surge of young Aussie men are deciding to remain childless, with some getting vasectomies while still in their 20s. Many are passionately driven by ethical, financial and emotional factors, but will they regret their decision later in life? And what do you reckon involuntarily childless men think about this trend?
Cuddles
In this day and age, with the world's population as it is, people need to think hard before they bring another child into the world. I am a mother and grandmother who adores children, and I agree that they add so much to our lives, but many children are born to people who cannot offer a stable home with loving parents who are prepared to make the sacrifices needed to be a good parent. Rather have people voluntarily deciding they do not want to be fathers, than carelessly doing so, then regretting that decision. I do agree that a person in his very early 20s may occasionally regret their choice, but doctors do not do a vasectomy without questioning why the man wants one and ensuring he is aware of long term results of that decision.. Sometimes a vasectomy can be reversed, as suggested, but as long as any future partner is made aware of the choice that has been made, I feel a man is entitled to his beliefs and decisions about his own body just as a woman is.
20-Apr-22

Why do people pursue perfection when perfection is unobtainable? You can be better at basketball than someone else, but nothing you do will make you a better human than someone else
Rod R 101788
Perfection is a personal ideal. You can be a better version of yourself without having to be better than others.
Better isn't necessarily perfect, but it's the best I've got.
15-Apr-22

My husband, myself and 3 children went to Disneyland and had the best time. It was indeed a magic kingdom, so when we were in Hong Kong a couple of years ago, we decided to go and re-live our first visit. When the train pulled into the station people charged like stampeding animals to get a seat and once inside the "kingdom" the pushing and shoving continued. I arrived at one ride just as the barrier came down and despite being the FIRST in the queue I still didn't...
WonkyandProud
Maybe there are more people now than there used to be. I have no idea how people can afford to take their families when everyone says how poor they are! Secondly, nothing is the same the second time. I lived in Sydney for six months with my fiancée, and it was a wonderful time. I know if I went back, it would never be the same. Besides, we're divorced now. I went back to where I was raised, and all I did was cry because all my memories of being a kid weren't there. Everything had changed! It's best to keep old memories and make new ones!
17-Apr-22

I am from 6 brothers and sisters. I feel very fortunate to have many siblings. Unfortunately, some of them can have funny attitude later in life due to the effect of their partners. Since, I am the younger sibling, I usually just take in ...
Wendy Q
Was fund whle we were younger, having an older brother meant I could go 'out with the boys' and do fun stuff, like climbing trees, lighting fires, etc, good exciting stuff for a girl.
16-Apr-22

You may find the following tips helpful. Use a bowl in the sink when washing fruit, vegetables or dishes. You can then use the waste water to water your plants. Fill a jug with water and put it in the fridge for when you want a cool drink. Turn off the tap when you clean your teeth. A running tap uses up to nine litres of water a minute. If possible, take a shower instead of a bath. A five-minute shower uses about 40 litres of water. This is about...
TERRIE K
I do most of these now but I'm just wondering what a Water Butt is. We have 3 rainwater tanks and use that to give fresh water to my birds and to water the garden.
14-Apr-22

'Guns don't kill people, people kill people', is what I have been hearing since almost forever. I live in America, where it is a Constitutional Right to own a gun. Yet, with the rise in ownership of assault weaponry and the rise of mass killings, some want to know if this is a good thing. While others blame it on evil people, who possibly would have killed anyway, gun or not. Your opinions on this is sought. Thank you.
Gaza
We have a lot less murders per population than the US here in OZ with the strict gun laws, doesn't that tell you something.
04-Oct-21

Do people tend to copy the ideas of others, especially the groups they belong to? Do they then shut out other ideas as a threat to their social position within their group.? When they said the world was not flat or that the Earth was not the centre of the Solar System, scientific groups and institutions and the church held the new ideas as evil. So do people today think for themselves and research reliable evidence, or do we still follow social beliefs?
JoeB
It’s my own idea to follow like a sheep, in fact I love sheep, slow roasted with duck fat potatoes and green beans…..lol
13-Apr-22

So they are talking about having 4 rubbish bins now. A new one for glass only. Most people have 3 bins already. Where are we going to store this one? Council doesn't like you leaving they on the footpath, they look ugly. I sort all my rubbish, rubbish in the bin, recyclables in the other bin, compost to the compost bin, soft plastics to the supermarket, and hard rubbish to the tip, where you sort out electrical, batteries, drums, paint tins, green waste etc. Where's...
DrSuz
It would be okay if you could choose to have four VERY SMALL bins. Otherwise I’ll have no backyard left. Living on my own, it takes me months fill a large council bin, and I resent the large bins taking up so much space.
11-Apr-22

When we think about rising the property market, we should think of our demand in our future generations. There s no point of increasing the prices of our rentals when we know it takes time to find people who want to move in the house, but if we low our price people will always work hard in order to pay the pills and to have food on the table
Robert L NZ
When we came to Auckland in 1979 we had one wage and our first mortgage with the ASB was 21% , but we survived. Always make the most of what you have got.
12-Apr-22

Most people don't love or enjoy their job, and even more people are overworked, exhausted, feel like they have no control over their life because of work. There's a huge difference between an empty fatigue and a gratifying exhaustion. Yet even if it is the latter, we ought to watch ourselves, we are of no use to anyone, if we compromise our career/occupation & health longevity. Have you ever suffered from a burnout?
Annette D 716821
I do love my job. A lot. But am still at risk of burnout if I don't look after my self care needs. Learning the signs, and having a wellbeing plan really helps.
10-Apr-22

Just for our health's sake, we need regular check-ups at the doctors. With women needing mammograms after 50 or so, I once told my GP that checking for breast lumps would be easier if there could be a dummy that women could feel that sort of thing and was told that there is such a thing, but this practice could not afford it. Wouldn't you think governments should pay for such things?
Michelle S 553303
As its 19 years to the day since my own dear mother died from breast cancer at the young age of 62, I would agree that existing products such as the one referred to SHOULD be made available. There's a lot of government money spent on utter nonsense that surely funding should be made available to save many, many women just like my own mum. Thanks for reading.
06-Apr-22

Ok, that was a long winded title. As an example, my youngest daughter was diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum in the last year at 19. It is something that apparently often goes unrecognised in girls who are "high functioning" as they become adept at masking symptoms. Anyway, long story short, I am pretty sure as a woman in my 50's I am on the spectrum as well. Things that I had always thought of as just my own weird quirks are most likely symptoms. I also...
jdoubleu
You are not strange. We are all on the spectrum. Some a little crazy, others totally nuts. It only becomes a problem when it leads to dysfunction in your life. Labeling oneself can be detrimental because it is limiting. They are designed so professional people can group a set of behaviours easily. Do not take it seriously unless it becomes debilitating. Remember all these little quirks and traits make up the unique person you are.
09-Apr-22

Do you think RTA will start to design a better traffic lights working system? When people drive somewhere, it is always a disaster to get out of the suburban area. I think this is because the lights system works in the old way, like it was ten years ago. You probably experienced the situation when you are in the traffic line, and the light is green for only 2-3 seconds. What do you think about it?
Larry S 382961
I have this problem only on weekends. A set of lights run very phase time slow. I have rung the traffic control people and get told. Yes sure is a problem so I will tweak the phase to clear it. Nothing gets done. Even have gone online to report it and nothing done.
07-Apr-22

Do you have the income, so you can see a Dentist often for a check-up and a clean to your teeth? Say every six months is the general time frame to get checked. Or are you one of the people that simply can't afford to go to the Dentist and only go when you have a toothache and have to pay off the bill or get assistance from Winz (Work and Income New Zealand, provide income support)? I feel the prices are too expensive and that is why the majority don't go...
Judy CH
My teeth are falling to pieces and since we were scammed out of $53,500 things have been tough making ends meet, I have asked WINZ 3 times for help but they keep saying you have too much in the bank, we only have enough to cover the mortgage, power, rates etc but no help. If I go to the dentist the only place the money can come from is our food money so I am well and truly stuffed. But they can put people who play the system in emergency accommodation and pay $1,000 a week. Plus help them pay rent arrears and repairs for their last house they trashed!!
04-Apr-22

Every now and then... it's mentioned on the News...of people scamming innocent people out of their hard-earned savings. With so many people accessing the internet daily, and phone's being used by everyone, what is really being done to prosecute those guilty of fleecing innocent people out of their money? You can complain to police but many don't seem to want to know, too hard, too busy, or they don't have enough people to investigate every fraud case they receive. Should...
Judy CH
We were scammed out of $53,500, It was a scam that hardly anyone knew about, we were building a new house through GJ Gardners Manawatu, we had sold our house brought the land and they started building, we had to pay progress payments and the first invoice arrived for the slab down, we knew it had been laid about 10 days before so were expecting the bill, when it did arrive my husband was really sick with pneumonia and a blood clot in his leg, we were backwards and forwards to the Hospital and Dr, lab for tests etc then another email arrived and said when do you expect to pay this so we thought maybe we had missed another email or the accountant had been late sending it so went to the bank to pay it, they told me to go home and do it online, normally we would have gone to Palmerston North and payed by cheque and got a reciept but it wasn't an option as it was a long drive with my husbands condition. About 10 days later we found it was a scam, GJ's denied it was them who were hacked, though we learnt later it was and it had happened to them about 3 Months before but they didn't bother to let their Customers know, the money went into the mules account which had always been in overdraft, the ASB bank never questioned the payment even though it wasn't made out to her, they then let her transfer the money to two bank accounts in Australia. They would not help us at all. If it had been their money they would of had it back in a flash, The police in the City where the mule lived interviewed her and said or she hasn't got any money so we won't prosecute!. We asked the Minister of Police for help he didn't want to know. The Police Woman Detective in the town where we were renting really pushed for the woman to be charged which she was after about 2 years. She has to pay money back a little bit a week but if she stops paying I don't think we can do anything. Every payment I make now I check that the bank account belongs to the company I am paying. A little while ago the Government was caught out by the same sort of scam. Most people I have spoken to about it were not aware of that sort of scam and said they would have been caught out. The Banks don't care because they are too busy ranking in money.
26-Mar-22

Well I would say yes because then they already like to learn how to do work and stuff, so they don't grow up being lazy tell me what you think
Tipps
no, money comes later, teach them first, to help to do chores at home, so they learn the value of helping each other, helping others.. Yes earning money is good, but money is not everything. Love and education starts at home
03-Apr-22

I've read a bit lately about how it is harder to make friends later in life. I have a couple of friends I would consider close, i.e. ones I can talk about personal things. The rest are more along the lines of colleagues/ that I mostly met via previous jobs, but who I wouldn't consider close. They are more Facebook friends and who I sometimes chat with over messenger, comment on their posts etc, but not ones I see regularly in real life. How about you ? .
WonkyandProud
I have one close friend whom I met because she is my caregiver. She has lived in this area for years, but I never met her before. We absolutely love each other and share pretty much everything! God works in mysterious ways. Her son and granddaughters are good friends now too! I finally have a family again!
28-Mar-22

As a kid I was promised jetpacks...flying cars...colonies on the moon and Mars at the very least (even a nuclear-powered post office in orbit around the planet?)...all of those things (apart from the post office) seem to be getting a lot closer...but I wonder...it all might be a question of Don't Believe the Hype?...right?...something for my grandchildren to look forward to?...
JoeB
You’ll be waiting for tomorrow until there isn’t one….then it will be too late, seize the moment, live now and leave tomorrow for when there isn’t one….lol
29-Mar-22

Supermarkets stopped giving away plastic bags...and started selling them instead...nice and cheap..." Do you want bags?" ....and most people are just buying bags now as well....they are reusable....just like the ones they replaced...the supermarket makes more money....and we just carry on dumping plastic bags into our waste...but now they are a bit stronger and durable...because we had to pay for them.......is there something wrong with this picture?
IdentifyAs
It was all a con, saves the supermarket money and makes it money. We are all wrapping our dog poo in paper, right? what about all these masks, PPE, testing plastic...where is THAT going?
31-Mar-22

This I have heard many times and I agree with its point intended, but haven t we repeated history, despite learning from it?
Gaza
Yes, just look at Putin, I'd put him in the same class as Hitler or Mussolini. Sometimes, stupid people seem to want to change the past.
27-Mar-22

Do you ever lend money to family and friends, and if you do are you expecting them to pay you back or not to pay it? My experience has been that whenever I have lent money to friends I always get it back, as for family they just disappear for a while and when they do show up somehow they completely forget about it. So now I just don't lend family any money and if I do in certain dire circumstances I don't expect it back. What are your opinions on it.
Viola9
I've lent money to my sons now and again. It's usually my idea to do it and often I end up telling them not to worry about paying it back. One example was my eldest son one day telling me he was going to get a solar system installed and how much it was going to cost paying it on a plan. Worked out double the cost so I said I'd give him the money and he can pay me back when he has that amount saved up. Then my other son needed money for something some time later and I gave him money for that. In the end I told them both not to worry about paying it back. I have a fair bit sitting in the bank. We don't need much to live on because our house is paid off. We aren't big spenders going on holidays etc and the money will be theirs not so far down the track when my partner and I are no longer here so I figure why not let them have some of their inheritance now. One thing I always do though. If I give to one I give the same to the other so there's no favouritism.
25-Mar-22

When you shop for purchases, do you just buy it straight away or wait for sales? I only buy things that are on sale and wait for things to be so, because I think if retailers can sell things at sale prices for 50/70% off then we are being ripped off paying full price What are your thoughts?
Saara F
Sometimes I pay full price when I need something specific urgently otherwise I wait for sales especially online there is always a sale to be found.
22-Mar-22

When the person isn't terminally ill, but push the button to end their life. The person is just sick of life. At the moment, they have to go overseas to do it. For some reason I don't, but agree with euthanasia by intentionally ending life to relieve pain and suffering.
Sand
Just sick of life is not fair, Kaz. In many cases it is severe mental illness. Does a person suffering from severe depression for decades not have the right to die? In the recent case, the Australian man was 103 years old. He was not in good health. I feel strongly about this as I worked for a quadriplegic, named Jo Ann Dolan, when I was younger. She fought for the right to die and an article appeared in "The Age". We have no right to interfere. I am sick and tired and people saying "people will kill their family for money". Stop hiding behind this BS as some people face suffering that we would not allow on a dog. They have the right to die and it is not your or my business.
25-Jun-21

Recycling is a positive thing...but REUSING is the best way of reducing our carbon footprint and it is STILL not a priority...half the salt and pepper grinders in the supermarket cannot just be refilled...there are more now than 5 years ago...bottles, containers and jars that cannot be resealed...plastic packing that is designed solely for one use...why?...is no-one paying attention?
Belle S
We've gone from paper everything to plastic to save the trees, now they are trying to reverse it back. We had an incinerator in our back yard, which alot of home rubbish was put into it & burned. They decided it was against the law & incinerators were removed. Maybe bring back the incinerator & maybe, we wouldn't have so much landfill like back in the 70's/80's. Like fashion, goes out of style but eventually comes back. Our Government needs to stop fixing things that aren't broke & working well with the planet & fix things that aren't working.
24-Mar-22

What items would you take? Items can only fit inside one banana box, and people and pets have already been rescued.
APB
I would be terrified AND confused....I don't know what a banana box is!
..and why would you have a banana box in your house in first place?...you would probably have to eat a lot of bananas....or you would you be working on a plantation or something?
23-Mar-22

I being bullet from the day one from year 1 to year 6. The teachers think was funny and never stop its. My parents dismissed my said never cry and my father was working long hours bearing at home. I feel like was teaching child be see not hear. I crying all my young life. I being bullet in high school by two teachers to quick years 12 put me down them i crying i fail in the end from them. I was bullet at work crying as no way get home i didn't drive and had a sick mother...
freckes
best solution. go learn some marshal arts, and put them to use, mind and body control, show what you know and they will think a bit differently
10-Mar-21

Do you think that the property market will keep rising, and if so, how do you think the generations today and upcoming will be able to afford housing?
gordy
If you are in the market, you buy you sell the dividends are the same. Future generations are unable to buy property because everyone the older generation is investing and negative gearing with portfolios connected to their super. The cost of buying and keeping up with technology is eating up our money with iPhones and internet connection and also smart technology. The aged care sector has bought all the small home units that use to be a way for first home buyers to enter the market. Whose responsible? the Government are always involved.
20-Mar-22

Growing older isn t what it used to be. With a longer life span, and free from the restrictions of work and family, older Australians are bucking the trends of the previous generations. Are you determined to live your best life, regardless of age and societal expectations?
lippy loo
Unfortunately, money and poor health is a problem so I cannot live the life I would like. I do not have any friends as my sisters were my friends and they have passed. It is a bit lonely and at times I also feel very invisible to people around me i.e. in shops etc. and I really do not like being treated as some idiotic insignificant person. When I go to the doctors and explain my symptoms it is usually brushed off with Oh it's your age or gender. I would have loved to travel more as I enjoyed every country I visited. I have traveled extensively also around Australia but some areas I have not yet seen and would love to.
I do think you need someone beside you who has similar views on life and you can enjoy it with them.
19-Mar-22

Do we respect the law anymore, do we take the police for granted and not treat them properly, or have they abused their power so much we don't trust them anymore yet when we are in trouble it seems they are the 1st to be called, myself I respect the police a lot, they deserve it and have a horrible job to do
sherry s 714699
THEY SHOULD BE RESPECTED FOR THE WORK THEY DO BUT, THEY SHOULD REMEMBER THEY ARE PEACE KEEPERS NOT EXECUTIONERS AND TRY A LITTLE RESTRAINT AND IMPROVE THEIR TRAINING
18-Mar-22

My almost 19 year old grandson came to stay overnight, and while it was lovely to see him, he never let his phone out of his sight. Even eating meals, the phone was right there, and he was watching it and constantly touching it. It goes everywhere with him and he is always looking at it, laughing at it and talking on it. It kept making "tweets" I think they are, and even while watching TV he was still tapping away at it. I can't really blame him because both...
Crazy Chef
Confiscate the dang thing, I've noticed kids destroy each other while the bloody zombie parents are staring at the phone without even flinching.
17-Mar-22

I've noticed for some time... that the people responsible for replacing our street lights... aren't always replacing them all, or there are usually one or two street lights that haven't been replaced when they blow out. It's often left up to the public to complain. I've had to complain in the past...but they don't always seem to listen, as long as there are few lights blazing and not total darkness. I've noticed the same thing happening in numerous streets over the years. Is...
Viola9
Here in South Australia, if you are the first person to report a faulty street light and they don't fix it within 10 days you can get a GSL payment of $25. GSL stands for Guaranteed Service Level. We don't seem to have too many problems with street lights around where I live.
17-Mar-22

Easter seems to changed over the years with many more products on the market. Do you give Easter gifts other than chocolate s? If so, what do you give others at this time of year?
Lones
Growing up, we made an Easter basket at school and received small eggs from the Easter bunny, Easter is about other things than chocolate. These days children seem to get too much and don’t appreciate what they receive. Maybe the should learn the true meaning of Easter
15-Mar-22

I have lived in big cities and small cities, big towns and small towns. I love the small town that I live in. But I have lived in a small town that had the attitude that you don't belong here and why are you here. I love this town where the postie knows me if something has the wrong address on it, he checks, if we are in town for the day they put any parcels around the back. The shop owners know you, if anything happens the whole town rallies around. Do you...
Grommie
tried both and the smallest towns I ever lived in were ships at sea. That's a real test to see if you can get on with your "neighbours".
Joy L., I learned to spell, too, never seen versers before, guess there's a first time for everything.Small towns? It only takes one person to start a rumour about you for whatever reason, and you're sunk.
14-Mar-22

I recently started study in NZ University. I am almost 33 years old. Furthermore, I believe education is an important part of our lives. And I feel good about it. I got very diverse feedback from others. Would you go back to school to educate yourself after 30s, 40s or even older? You have money and time for it - Would you go?
Morenita
Of course I would! After having both my daughters I decided to go back to school and so glad I did! They are now 26 and 17yrs old and I’m working in the field I went to school in. Your never too old!
13-Mar-22

My husband just passed and while the service was beautiful the cost was very high even though it was a basic funeral. What do others think it is worth pre-paying
Grommie
Our family have a particular stance about funerals. Funerals are for the living, not the dead. People attend funerals because they see it as "the thing to do". We come into the world and just about no one knows, so why not leave the same way? Who benefits from funerals?
Many people who attend funerals are hearse chasers after a free lunch.
I know of a funeral director whose wife runs a flower shop and they have a daughter who is a caterer. Talk about tie up the whole swindle.
If you prepay, the money just sits there, earning nothing. If the funeral director decides to sell the business, often you'll find the new operator pays you back your money because it has moved away from being enough to cover the cost. Or worse, they say nothing and send your family an additional bill.
09-Mar-22

What is your opinion...people using ... after a few words... Do you find it annoying? I know I do...
David C
Punctuation is an essential part of language, In the passage from Dickens' used it's appropriate. It implies pace and importance to what would otherwise be just words,
12-Mar-22

Breakfast Shows Does anyone else find the presenters annoying? I think they should be renamed the Giggle Shows. It doesn't seem to make much difference which channel you watch. I get that they need to be upbeat to start the day, but it would be nice if they were sincere at the same time instead of just laughing at themselves.
darsol
I used to watch bet then realised they are really just big ads foe whatever and are really very biased to one point of view so have not watched foe years
11-Mar-22

NZ has decided to ban their YOUTH from taking up smoking. If you're a kid growing up in NZ today ... then, when you turn 18, you -- won't have the legal right to smoke! Good idea, or Not?
AMUSICALTONY
Best idea I've ever heard. My wife suffers from emphysema due to her years of smoking. She's 72 and is like 92 years old. I'm the same, never smoked, and can run a marathon. if needed. I walk up to 10 kilometers per day and enjoy a variety of sports. I have no difficulty breathing and when our grandchildren and great-grandchildren come to visit I have active playtime with them. Smoking is not cool and will impact you in later years.
06-Mar-22

AA is in place for alcoholics! GA is in place for gamblers. Both are big social issues which not only effects the individual but also the entire family. It s like a ripple in a pond. Everybody is effected. Also friends and neighbours as they step up to help. The financial and emotional toll is unable to be calculated. And yet here we have gambling advertisements all day, especially during the time children watch television in the afternoon. We are literally bombarded with...
Raymond K 449636
The very least that should occur is a total ban t v advertising during the hours that children watch t v
08-Mar-22

I've done all kinds of travel over the years and despite the uncertainty of COVID variants etc, I still have plans and hopes for travel etc for my family and me. e.g a family Missions Trip and other travel... What about you guys?? Also, what ideas methods have you found to be effective for generating funds etc for a major dream/plan?
Leslie D 488751
Only spend what you have to. People buy things that are not needed, so their money disappears before their eyes. There are many ways to save, some better than others, so use your imagination. I had plans to go to Ukraine this year but that has been put on hold for now.
10-Mar-22

How do you resolve them? I am generally pretty laid back and let most stuff go, however, my partner is comfortable with uncomfortable conversations, so got up this morning at 2 am to yell at a barking dog. Do we go over there this afternoon and talk to the neighbors, or just let it go? I know you can't stop a dog barking if you're not home, but this was 1.30 until he yelled at the dog at 2am. They were home, they must have heard it.
IdentifyAs
Report it to the council if it continues. Let them deal with it. There are some dogs that can keep barking for hours, and it's sad really because they are the ones being neglected. Some people just shouldn't have pets of any kind.
07-Mar-22

Do you have any dreams, weird or not, that actually turn out that part of it is true? I had a dream last week and Prince Edward's wife, Sophie, was in it. We were just talking and then she started writing. I noticed that she was writing with her left hand. I said another lefty. Likewise, I'm also a lefty. When I woke up, I googled to see if she was a lefty, and she is indeed a lefty.
Secret Squirrel
I have been having unusual dreams and de ja vu since I was very small. The most disturbing was a reoccurring dream of a close friend going away,for about 3 months every night this included other people and places they went . A couple of days before I saw a horrific car accident but was constantly pushed back from the flashing lights and crash scene.. My friend was killed 3 days later,same car same accident,and everyone in the dream did what I saw. I have never been the same
01-Mar-22

Recently, one of our local rural roads was reduced in speed to 80kph - this was because it was cheaper than fixing the road in the first place. The road is still terrible to drive on, but it appears the city has first preference when it comes to fixing up the roads...a local freeway was 'smoothed' over a few weeks ago, a total waste of money - we have a lot of dirt roads round here, which could have benefited from the material used to 'fix' the freeway. What do...
The dog house
I travelled through rural area's on a holiday and saw a lot of dead animals such as wombats and kangaroo's. There are signs asking people to reduce their speed for the sake of the poor animal.
19-Feb-22

Have you ever had a bad experience It is hard to find a hairdresser that will listen or advise you on what is best for your hair. I have had a few unfortunate experiences, once I went in for a trim my hair was long and the hairdresser got carried away, I ended up with short hair. Not a happy girl
Jude21
When I was 15 I went to the hair dressers & got a perm...cause that is what you did back then. I ended up with an affro, not a good look on me.lol I wore hats for months.
04-Mar-22

I am feeling really fearful about the forecast that omicron is going to infect many, and to be prepared for many people to be off work. Who on earth will look after our people who are in care if the trained and specialist staff are all off sick? I don't know who will be able to care for my husband and the others in his Care home. They are always short-staffed at any time. I don't know how Specialist care facilities are coping in other countries.
Pearlz
This is a very sore point for me as my mother is in a nursing home and as you say they are usually under staffed but when they mandated the vaccine almost 30% of the staff left including the entire management team. It took ages to hire more staff and now the place is nothing like it was previously. The new staff don't really care about the residents and things go left undone and they have demarcation lines where only one person can attend to something. My mother was left with a UTI that went untreated for between 12 to 16 weeks and it was only detected after she had a heart attack and was transported to hospital. The infection was cleared in a couple of days but she now has a heart condition. With only 34% of staff having had the booster more will leave again with the new mandate. I don't for one minute believe unvaccinated people catch or spread Covid anymore than vaccinated people and I would much have preferred that the staff who had worked there for more than 20 years had been allowed to remain working there vaccinated or not. For some very odd reason people seem to have lost their minds over Covid and think that people in nursing homes etc. should be protected from Covid at all costs, even if they die from neglect. I don't agree. Of all the deaths in Australia in 2021 only 1% was from Covid. In 2017 almost 250000 people in Australia caught Influenza, and on one night 17000 were hospitalized because of it. Did you hear that on the evening news? My father fell ill and was admitted to hospital and after a week he was doing well and was about to be discharged but he caught the flu despite being vaccinated. Just after midnight on his 91st birthday he passed away. That wasn't on the evening news either, but if it had been Covid you would have heard about it. People should get a grip, stop listening to the alarmist news media and worry about the elderly and disabled being fed, washed and cared for rather than who has or hasn't had the "jab".
24-Feb-22

What does it mean to you? Is it really free? What is the price of freedom?
Bugalugs
So long as Governments, politicians and self-styled Do-Gooders who think they know better than everyone else stay out of the way and keep their mouths shut we have all the freedom we need. Abolish Political Correctness, allow people to think and say what they really think.
Abolish the Greatest Curse ever visited upon Human beings: Religion - at least Religion as it is today which has been bastardized again by people who think they know better than everyone else, who deliberately misinterpret and selectively use parts of books such as the Bible, the Koran etc. to persecute others who don't agree with them.
05-Mar-22

I understand that owning a dog should mean walking it...even when you don't want to...but does owning a cat...or a rodent.... or bird keep happier, healthier and more sane? a fair bit of research suggests it might ... what do you think?
lys
I have accepted many stray cats over the years. They keep me sane, make me laugh and have different personalities. They have different mannerisms and like a variety of music.One I have at the moment loves Mick Jagger singing the blues lol The other one I have to sing his favourite song as HE tucks the sheet under MY chin. Only then he will roll over and go to sleep (bossy bum Maine Coon) LOL I also feed the local crows that have learnt to yell out to me at the front door when they are ready to eat lol I have had to bury many animals which is heart breaking but I wouldn't have missed a day being with any of them. They have given me far more than I gave them.
03-Mar-22

Trainers became fashionable in the late 1970s you had the cool looking shoe mounted on a bed of what looked a lot like silicone...and then a hard wearing sheet of sole with grip marks on the bottom...you bounced around, you walked on air, I could work 16-hour shifts in a kitchen on concrete floors and my feet were fine...these would always last at least a year...and a lot more........now they look "cooler"...more colours, more styles....most give you "firm" support or...
IdentifyAs
That's called MARKETING. I have some Sketchers I have been wearing for years, I pop them in the wash. All these trendy shoes are for those woke people who want to make a statement..hey look at me I'm exercising and boo hoo to you old fat idiots. All you do is see how the shoes feel on your feet. I always look for specials. There only thing after having three kids it is not worth buying cheapo Kmart school shoes for your kids. They didn't last a term and the soles just fell off. I go to clearance shops that have premium leather school shoes at a much lower price.
02-Mar-22

I came up with a thought. Why not have a section where people could write a review of various forms of media such as a film, TV show, book, music album or a video (music, short film, a viral video, etc). For example, people could pick a topic and a title, like a new release movie and write a critical review of it along with a rating out of five stars and if they recommend it or not. This could come under the FORUMS section or GAME COMMENTS...
katpurr
Could we please have more ‘play again’ options, so we don’t have to go back & forth to the list?
Especially with ones like Trivia, because if you go to the list, you get a preview of the question, & I would rather not know the question till I get there.
26-Feb-22

With all this Facebook, Ticktock, Rewardia chat etc people can write anything that can have profound effects on gullible minds. Construction of statements carefully manipulating fact and fiction, laced with emotive fear arousing baits. Is it free speech or free banter? Is freedom the right to do what we like/ what is freedom/ Does it come with a price?
Michelle S 553303
I wonder just how many people here on this forum are aware that since October 2021 that the Australian government can hack, quite legally, your social media accounts and alter and delete them for any reason whatsoever? It's called the Identify and Disrupt Bill which was passed at 2am on a Wednesday late in that month. Go and look it up on the Australian government website if you don't believe me. I was told this by my son who happened to be working with some Barristers who were visited by a man called Arthur, whom our previous female Premier in NSW had been in a relationship with at that time, just so people don't think I'm writing this with the view to commit some kind of fraud! I cannot watch MSM any longer because my research outside of this alleged "media sources" has led me to scientific research and resulting evidence leaving no room for me to conclude anything other than the following: that what is "news" content, at least as it relates to the"magic potion" killing and maiming people across the planet, is simply propaganda and theatre. I did not draw this conclusion without facts empirically derived from Researchers, Doctors and Scientists of many varied disciplines and I KNOW that my own government has lied and continues to lie about their own involvement in this charade. This is backed up in previously confidential documents detailing the Australian Military's involvement from decades ago of weaponising biological organisms through gain of function research and funding the same. I can say with clarity that freedom has never been SO under threat as it is now, not only because the government can come in and change your own words and remove them as they see fit, but because of the terms "misinformation" and"disinformation", but WHO decides this? I can see Big Tech's involvement but who among you are aware of the infiltration of WEF members, of whom Big Tech plays a leading role, in terminology used to discredit certain viewpoints. Just as the CIA coined the term "conspiracy theorist" to describe someone who thinks outside of the mainstream narrative and make them out to be "kooks", so too have Google, You Tube Twitter etc, who are all partners in this globalist agenda for a NWO where there will be no choices, no ownership of anything including your shoes, and certainly no privacy or freedom! If we lose the right to voice our own opinions today they will be gone tomorrow and NEVER return! If we don't want to live in a smart grid with cameras recording our every movement as it already is in China and adopt their credit score system, we all need to think about what it will be like for our children and THEIR children if we don't now say that enough is enough! Thanks for reading this.
25-Feb-22

Should we believe the weather forecaster when they always seem to be wrong? The only time they get it right is in the middle of a thunderstorm or cyclone. What do others think?
Kristina
They are almost always wrong. My dogs actually act funny right before we get the bad weather, as of lately I tend to depend on my dogs for bad weather. Weather stations are usually way off or the weather starts before their predictions.
27-Feb-22

Have you ever had a melody or the song's lyrics, that just kept playing in your mind, and you wanted it out? Did you find a way to get rid of it, or did you succumb to it's power?
Jude21
I often have 'earworms' like that. Today my son was singing 'Won't you take me to Funky Town' and it is still playing on a loop in my head.lol
23-Feb-22

If ever you are to choose in a relationship, which one would you prefer. Is it to be with SOMEONE YOU LOVE, but you aren't love back, or with SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU, but you don't love?
Claude H
Neither. My love was the best and we loved each other having 52 years of happy marriage before she died 13 years ago
22-Feb-22

Maybe I am old-fashioned, but I really do not need to see advertisements for men s underwear, (with the real thing), gambling apps (when there are so many struggling with gambling) and feminine products . The latter I find distasteful. So many advertisements also seem to be misleading. In general, I am very resistant to advertising
misfortune8
You find feminine products distasteful, Shirley? 50% of the population need, will need or used to need them! Mum bought me old-fashioned Modess when I was a kid - then I found out about more modern options & was incredibly thankful for them.
My Nan never got the period talk, so she thought she was dying when it happened - a stranger had to comfort & explain it to her. That's outrageously unfair to a kid! Nobody wants to talk to their kids about condoms, either, but it's better than having your kid contract HIV, hepatitis, &c. Ads can prompt questions or provide a lead-in to further discussion.
18-Feb-22

Australian gas companies are potentially going to force up gas-prices in Australia. Despite creating enough gas, they prefer to export much of it to foreign nations. Forcing up the prices higher in our region ... Australia ... and NZ. Should the federal government intervene to prevent price hiking?
Maria B 89860
Yes, we should look after our own needs, we have a lot of poor people here as well who need to cook for their families and keep them warm. A lot of it is being "donated" to hostile parts and they are laughing at us while we scrummage to eek out a living and pay top price for EVERYTHING!
21-Feb-22

Australians are getting fatter. And experts say diets just don't work in the long term. But should we be looking at this debate differently? Can you be fat and healthy? And are people resorting to surgery too soon?
Smiley
I believe that some can be both overweight and healthy.
As a teenager, i was the "fat kid" and always picked on, but it was also during these years that i was at my healthiest. I went for 15km walks at least twice a week, i was quite strong, being able to pull/push carts loaded with up to 250kgs (bags of soil/fertiliser, etc), i was quite active as well, enjoyed playing soccer and squash as often as i could, i went bushwalking and worked on the farms of family friends (fencing, marking lambs, helping in the shearing shed, digging up paddock weeds by hand/mattock, etc)
I don't think it is fair to tar all larger framed people with the same brush. Some overweight people can be quite fit and healthy, others not so much, while others are all overweight due to medication they need to take.
15-Feb-22

What is your preferred method of tanning, and how often do you tan? Do you use anything to prevent damage if you use a sunbed or tan naturally? Do you have any flawless tanning tips and tricks?
Rod R 101788
I slip, slip, slap. Spent most of my life in Nth Queensland & have a certain amount of tan that is permanent.
If you're going to lay or be in the sun try not to do it between 11 & 2.
A certain amount of sun each day with SPF is healthy, a particular level of brown isn't.
17-Feb-22

Do you prefer chocolates or flowers or something else for a Valentine's Day present? Or does just being with the one's you love good enough?
mary c
I will supply my delivery details if anyone has a surplus of chocs- particularly caramilk and/or milkybar and flowers, ooh and trinkets also accepted :)
10-Feb-22

Would you prefer to text before arriving at someones place? Or just show up unannounced? Or would you ring before turning up? My friend thinks it's rude but I don't have a phone and we usually just knock and if they are there they are there
Sha
I hate unexpected visitors, especially when I'm not in the mood or feeling sick. The very last thing I want to do is entertain other people.
04-Feb-22

Some parents don't monitor what there children watch and read, what do you think? cause I think it's proper. Our duty as parents is to monitor the PG rating of what our children watch or read, because sometimes what they watch and read control's there behavior and character. So I am just curious to see what other parents and people think?
Granny Al MI Q
Yes! There is a lot out there that isn’t suitable for different ages and they have difficulty distinguishing fact from fiction
13-Feb-22

Lots of people are on their phones but for how long? I see people that act like they can't stand being away from their phones but other can, so I want your opinion on this. Are you a phone freak or not? How many hours do you spend on your phone?
Edienz
I use it most of the time instead of a computer. I download and read books, do banking, play games, do surveys, take and edit photos, send texts and emails, research products, order products, watch videos, listen to music, read the news, find recipes and craft patterns, learn French and Chinese, book tickets and accommodation and ask questions about anything I want to know. That takes up most of my day! I very rarely use it to ring people.
12-Feb-22

Always wondered but never quite got the awnser, what does cheating mean to you. Everyone looks at things differently in life and has there own opinion but can anyone even clarify what's the terms of cheating.
Judy CH
The worst thing is having someone cheat on you and when you ask them they lie and make you feel as if you are in the wrong, and when found out and they leave it is worse than when someone close dies, the one who dies doe not leave you by choice and then quite often the one they took up with rubs your nose in it. You can forgive but you can never forget, even after 30 odd years certain things make you remember and hurt.
07-Feb-22

How many people now do their hair at home rather than go to a Hairdresser? What do you do to your hair and how often? Do you ever relent and go to the stylist for help, when do you know it's time? I need stories!
Maria B 89860
I have been cutting/shaping my own hair now for years, mainly because it save me money .. there's a pile of hair money somewhere which I've yet to find!!!
11-Feb-22

I know it's a kind of cliche - The good old days! A time when we were growing up, without too much of the advanced technology that we have to day. Before ... computers, mobiles, Siri, spy cameras just about everywhere. Carefree days, holidays, great music, fun and laughter. Where has it all gone? Well before Covid showed ... it's ugly head. What were those OLD DAYS, like for some of you?
Martin D
No computers, TV wasn't on all day, no videos or DVD's. We went outside to play & Mum didn't see us all day.
09-Feb-22

What can we do to reduce the changes and impacts that climate change had on our daily lives? In the pacific islands, low-lying islands are eventually covered with seawater and maybe in about 10 years time, lots of the islands will now be disappearing.
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
What a load of codswallop! ...... no such thing ...... Mother Nature will control the climate, not some 'nervous Nellies' who do not have a clue!
05-Sep-21

Accomplishment through work? Bringing up a family on your own? Your kids working hard? Looking after an ill one? Leaving a legacy? Standing up for your beliefs? Knowing you were there for someone? Saving animals from cruelty? Getting yourself through the day when you didn't think you could? Everyone is different........let's hear your story........
Wazzahen
I think my most proud moment was when my brother and I spent 2 months looking after my dying mother in palliative care at home we alternated nightly to ensure that she was looked after,she was embarrassed that her sons were looking after as our sister cared for her during the day,I can recall once I took to the bathroom & had to wipe her butt she cried but I told her you wiped my butt for years she never was embarrassed again.This time I spent with my mum was the most uplifting experience in my life,I have spoken about this in groups it has changed my life made me a more compassionate person to all humanity.
06-Feb-22

Many may think: Well, that's what a first date is, but what I mean is, if you were sitting alone and another was sitting alone at a restaurant, would you accept the offer (or make the offer) to eat with them? Or, would you even dine alone in the first place?
Bill B 394870
I guess its a good way to meet people but ive always found it somewhat terrifying eating alone in a restaurant and avoid it.
08-Feb-22

Do you have a loved one in a nursing home and have any tips for others that might be new to this?
JANN R
I worked in aged care for 45 years some of the staff are good but others are only there to get paid they have no empathy for the elderly I always said it would be over my dead body that my mother went into aged care but if there is no one to care for them in there home it makes it hard I moved home to be here for my mother and I am her full time carer she is now 97 and still heathy and on no medication
20-Oct-21

I've been communicating with my friend overseas for almost 3 years now, and have become quite close. With all the uncertainty in the world now, it is unlikely we will be able to meet in person. Any ideas on how to keep the relationship fresh and exciting?
Edward S 497347
The advice here starts with a question:- Have you met each other in person yet or not?
IF NOT, You do not know how well you would get on together once you do meet.
IF you have only met online and communicated online, emails and by phone, it could be risky because people online often lie and mislead the other person into believing they will meet one day and have feelings for you, when in fact they have no feelings for you and have no intention of meeting in person.
Too many scammers online.
IF you have NOT yet met in person, use a "Scammer Test" which I have divised as follows:-
1) Write a list of questions to ask the person. Once you ask him/her write down their answers; then wait a few weeks and ask him/her the same questions again...If their answers are NOT the same as the first time then you know they are lying and it's a scam.
2) Ask them to send you a photo of themselves, wait a few weeks then tell them you would like more photos of them; then compare the photos.
3) Take step 2 further and ask him/ her for a video chat; so you can confirm what they look like and if they refuse or give excuses continuously not to do that, then its a scam.
HAVING PASSED ALL OF THE ABOVE TESTS.
How much does this person mean to you?
Is the person worth waiting for?
IF yes, keep the relationship fresh by being romantic online, if you both have cameras arrange a time where you can have dinner together online...Meaning each of you at your own home, on camera, eating together.
Use emails / phone calls to tell each other about your day as if you were in a relationship face to face.
Finds things to do online together which you both enjoy doing.
Try something old-fashioned like writing long letters to each other and mailing them to each other by 'Snail Mail"...Everyone enjoys getting mail and the excitement builds up while waiting to receive and read the letter.
IF you have never met in person; NEVER send the other person money or valuable items in case it is a scam.
You said you've been communicating with your friend for over 3 years, but yet, the covid-19 pandemic has only existed for just over 2 years; therefore ask yourself and your friend why you never met in person BEFORE the pandemic hit the world.
GOOD LUCK!
05-Feb-22

Since I am STILL getting responses from a Daily Discussion - that was posted 4/27/2021. I decided to go with a TO BE CONTINUE (TBC) - Part 2. The majority of the response were people get married - because of LOVE. I vehemently refused to believe people get marry because they are in love with each other. Which leads to my next point: prenuptial agreements! Why are prenuptial agreements becoming popular in capitalists' country?
Pearlz
Why do you think people marry if not for love? You must be a sad man if you think we are all together for some other reason. Let me put you straight. I would not have picked up after, put away behind, cleaned, cooked for, born children by and now watch as he descends into Dementia if I had not married him for love. I married and have stayed for love for 55 years, and if not for love there were plenty of other things I could have done with my life.
03-Feb-22
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