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In NZ is winter and that means cold and flu time. How do you usually treat cold / flu? Do you buy pricey miraculous pills or hot drink from pharmacy? Do you have any tips from your grandparents or other family member? What work for you... See more
Roslyn A
Stay away from work so I don't spread it! Anyway I usually have the flu vaccination so it would be unusual for me to get the flu.
21-Jul-21

Do you have any ideas to make general house cleaning easier. I found that if you use a piece of baking paper around a sandwich for cooking in a sandwich toaster, there is not much to clean up. Any other useful advice. See more
Jenny L 591463
Handy tip Thanks for sharing Carolyn, we just clean ours with a damp sponge after it has cooled some but still warm. We at the moment are living in a construction site as hubby is renovating our little home so things are a bit more dustier than usual. We are pretty clean people to start with so a little bit of dust here and there doesn't phase us. Right now it is just too hard to keep the dust off every thing and I must admit I am messier than my hubby but I am still organised. Things will improve when things are starting to get finished like kitchen and en suite. Who knew there was so much to learn about water proofing and council requirements.
11-Jun-23

How hard is it to find a job related to your field of study after graduating? See more
Claude H
There are no jobs available when graduating from old age. They say firms are looking for experience, but I have 90 years of experience & no takers.
07-Jun-23

I am a foster care provider. About 14 years ago, my wife and I wanted to see how it works. We started by going to classes for about 8 weeks for training. Once training was over, they match you up with a certain amount of children that... See more
Teri 1282723
I grew up on a dairy farm with both parents and 4 sisters. As far back as I can remember, we had foster children in our home. Often 2 at a time but mostly 1 and once 3. I remember wanting to adopt them all, some more than others because they came as wee babies and stayed up to a couple of years and you get really attached; at least as a kid it felt like 2 years. We did end up adopting 2 boys and we are all very close and loving as siblings should be. I wondered recently if my parents did it for the money but my Dad set me straight real quick; $7/month for each child. That didn't even cover food. It was out of the kindness of their loving Christian hearts that they were doing this. In my adult life I was able to foster 2 teenaged girls. I don't think there's a much better feeling in life than helping young people out of abusive families and into a Christian home that values them for the gifts they are. And teaching them they are lovable and deserve respect and admiration lead them on to work in a dental office and veterinarian office where their kindness and confidence are shared with a gentleness they never learned in their first families. I am so thankful to God for bringing those girls into my life and the ability to give them what they needed to succeed in life and break the abusive cycle. If any of you get the opportunity to foster and/or adopt a child/children, I say pray about it and if you're led in that direction, follow your heart and do it. You will all be rewarded. God bless...
03-Jun-23

Do you recycle every thing? Do you put things in the correct bins? After eating my McDonalds I take the paper with me and place them in the recycle bin at home. At the Shopping Centers take away area there is so much waste. No one... See more
Linda C
It amazes me that the younger generation have the call out for helping the earth, etc. yet they use so much stuff. i.e. wipes, disposable nappies, coffee cups and pods, phones and other electronic equipment, yes and fast food packaging and they usually buy bags at the supermarket also. I have young people around the 30 age bracket in my units here and they do not recycle anything. I saw on the news tonight that the young mothers cannot afford nappies which cost somewhere between $20 and $30 a week apparently and take over 100 years to degrade. We had about 2 dozen cloth nappies that we soaked and washed them. No on going costs with those. We used flannels to wash them with and wipe their faces and then we washed those.
We can do our bit but big businesses are doing more damage than we can ever offset. They need to be made accountable.
Carbon offset is not the way to go either. Carbon negative is how it should be. Buying some trees to offset the carbon is not lowering it as the trees were already there. Sometimes these areas trees/timber have also been sold so a minus. I guess we all need to make everyone take responsibility from the smallest thing to the largest company and governments.
28-May-23

What is the best financial advice anyone has ever given you? See more
MoB
Budget, that's what I was told as a teenager. The budget works this way; 20% pay to savings, 50% pay to household expenses including mortgage or rent, 10% pay to holidays, 10% pay to clothing and 10% pay to emergency fund. I stuck to this budget and now I look back and am so proud we own our own home, we have had three round the world crusies and several other holiday trips. We have money in the bank and we are having a pretty good retirement. Pity about the current government they seem to be pushing up inflation and the cost of living is rising. I expect we will have to have a recession as we did when Keating was in power. I think we will be okay though, fingers crossed.
24-May-23

I occasionally help at my dear friend's cafe. There is one lady she is a regular customer, she is gluten free. She caused us that she has almost died because of us because we served her gluten free food with "dirty" tongs. She was at the... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
If her ongoing behavior (customer) is causing emotional distress and mental distress for the owner and for the staff (as you have stated in your post) and she (customer) has 'no' valid rationale for her ongoing behavior (as you have stated in your post). Then, the owner SHOULD have a conservation with an attorney (lawyer) - that way the owner can find out - if this customer - can legally - be 'bar her' from entering the premise (business). Sometimes, THE CUSTOMER IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT. Which is WHY I always worked in the PUBLIC SECTOR!
19-Apr-23

These days people are always on their phones, and it is hindering people from get up to do exercise or talk to the people around them. The younger generations are mainly the ones on their devices, and usually spend to looking at screens. What do... See more
Melissa S 393323
I have a disability due to collapsed vertebrae in spine and yet have cleaned tile flooring, scrubbed kitchen floor, scrubbed baseboards, hand washed dishes, cooked meals and laundered bedding, towels and clothing.
16-Feb-21

After a 20-year career, I quit to raise my family. Now 15 years later, I am contemplating returning to work. What would you do? See more
Pamela G
I would return to work. The economy is iffy so work while you can. And be prepared for a lot of obstacles to get your foot in the door. The work world is so different after 15 years. Brush up on computer skills and be prepared for young managers.
21-Mar-23

Where do you turn to for advice on retirement village and aged care? Or what's your experience with these See more
Paula J 395266
There is My Aged Care but while the mandates are still in place I wouldn't leave one of my cats in an aged care facility. My mother had been in a nursing home for some years before Covid but when they introduced the vaccine mandates almost half the staff left and the place soon fell apart. The residents were neglected as there simply weren't enough staff, the food was terrible, visitors were prevented from visiting and the residents were prevented from going out and every time a resident tested positive they were all locked in their rooms. Prisoners were treated better. My mother had an infection which had previously been tested for regularly, it caused her to have a heart attack, then someone fell on her breaking her knee then another infection went undiagnosed or treated and she died. I lodged a formal complaint 6 months ago and am still waiting for a reply. It was cruel, unkind and over the top and our aged deserve much better. So until sanity prevails and things get back to normal I'd steer clear of the aged care system.
07-Mar-23

Do you really think we are going to have cars in the future that hover (fly) over the road and tires are a thing of the past? See more
Linda C
It's already happening so of course. Technology will go as far as mans mind imagines anything and this is endless. of course it goes without saying that the morons in charge of weapons and armies do not destroy everything first.
27-Feb-23

If you were unable to take care of an actual pet because of allergies, but somebody decided to make robotic pets that looks real, feels real and acts like the species it was made to look like but is still a robot, or even an old pet of yours that died... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I am not a 'pet-lover' - in the tradition sense of the word (pet-lover). Furthermore, cyborg pets are already (HERE). Just like people some have microchips in their body and wear wearable technology (to monitor a health issue - internally and externally) which interfaces with a computer. Some people (rich or super-rich) have microchips planted in their pets' body and put wearable technology on their pets (to monitor a health issue - internally and externally) which interfaces with a computer. I have a robotic pet (dog) - which can actually be programmed to speak and/or make sounds like a dog. The advantages of a robotic pet (in my case - a dog): You do not have to walk your robotic dog, feed your robotic dog, clean up after your robotic dog, or take your robotic dog to a veterinarian on a regular basis for shots. Other words, the PERFECT PET. Interesting, I have become 'quite' attach to my robotic dog and I gave my robotic dog a name (SERIOUSLY) :-))!
26-Feb-23

If you were to go for fast food with the family, how much would you expect to pay for the meal? How much for the kids? How much on yourself? What would you think is fair to pay? See more
Andrew T 123623
Nothing as I can't afford shop brought takeaways. I am on a very tight budget and a fixed income. You can make home made takeaways a lot cheaper that buying them.
24-Feb-23

The cost of living has increased in so many ways: fuel, food, vacation service. Also in many other ways. It has infected my family. How had it effected yours? See more
Hamzah S
Eating less and going out less. Can't believe that there's going to be an increase in the price of electricity and gas when many people are already having a tough time.
17-Feb-23

From the wheel to sliced bread, there are virtually millions of inventions that have benefitted humankind. What invention do you think has helped humanity the most and which has turned out to be the worst. Is there anything you would like to... See more
mary c
The shoe phone the best invention. Thankyou Maxwell Smart.
03-Feb-23

I've had a lot of spam calls lately claiming to be the CRA or border security! I've even had phone calls from banks that I don't bank with. However, I have been playing phone tag with the government due to my student loans. How are we to... See more
Chosen
If you are not sure just ask for their number and address and tell them you will phone them back. Spammers will hang up at that point.
27-Jan-23

How many cancer survivors on here. Seems every second person has it or has had it. I am eight years down the track from bowel cancer. See more
Gigi
Daddy died of pancreatic cancer and lung. He was 70 and a heavy smoker. We know that's how he got it. It metastisized to his pancreas. Pancreatic cancer has the highest mortality rate. If you have pancreatic cancer, you are going to die in short order.
28-Jan-23

Have you or someone you know who was 21 or younger had a court grant you custodial guardianship over your younger siblings? No need for explanations why, unless you choose to tell about it. How do you feel about children under 21 being... See more
Paul B 522937
If a child can get pregnant and have a baby then I see no reason for them not to take responability for another relative but having said that we all mature at different ages
12-Jan-23

Do you have a nickname that you go by in your regular day-to-day life? How about a pet name from your significant other, if you have one. Sometimes they are private or personal, so if that's the case, please don't participate. Get your reward... See more
Jania S
Nicknames are childish. Nicknames are not pet names. In some eras Nickname were insulting. we are really scaping the barrel
20-Nov-22

I got my significant other a new pressure cooker, because he makes rice almost every day for himself to eat, and I thought they were the best thing for rice. But he won't use it. Says he likes his old method (just making it in a pot on the stove).... See more
Dada WA
A rice cooker is easiest. I have a pressure cooker but now use slow cooker and airfryer and its just used as an ordinary pot for soup usually.
20-Dec-22

If you turn on TV, there is a chance you will see food experts showing us how to prepare a cheap family meal for four people under $10. Have you ever took part in such a challenge? Would you be able to feed four people for under $10? See more
Summer H 71954
Yep, do this regularly. Baked beans or spaghetti on toast, or fried eggs on toast. Hotdogs are a good go-to as well.
17-Dec-22

Vehicle drivers need licenses to be authorized, Lawyers need licenses to practice law, Applying the principle for politicians will get smarter leaders to run the governing system without fear of criticism and injustice. Have them go... See more
Pato Lo Duck
You forgot to mention fining them or sending them to jail when they break the rules. As can happen to vehicle drivers.
14-Dec-22

I find that the word 'love' has become so exhausted that it's value as an expression of feelings or emotion no longer has any worth. Where it was once used in context of your emotions towards family or intended family, has now been thrown... See more
Reva D
Learnt loves be hurtful at times.but family is supose be love of family but learnt not all family same learnt family meambers can hurt worse than stranger
02-Dec-22

Have you ever noticed.. whenever there is a person who has a sudden death, or major illness, that some family member runs to media, like on new-sites, to tell their sad story! Sometimes it ends up with the family member trying to raise money... See more
APB
I can show you how to be very wealthy...its easy...just send me $1 and I will explain it all to you..........
30-Oct-21

What do you think of those people mouthing off about how certain sponsors should not be used in sport? Netball Australia has just lost a 15 million dollar deal with Gina Rhinehart and as far as I can see, over a lot of misinformation. I... See more
Priscilla R 316016
Personally, I don't know why anyone sponsors sports especially if they are going to be bad-mouthed over it. I never notice who is sponsoring anyone anyway and I doubt that I am the only person.
26-Nov-22

We seem to have an aggressive funeral market that isn't making enough profit from people dying currently (how much money do they want?)...they are making you feel guilty for dying and saying that it is a burden for your family...pay in... See more
The dog house
It might be easier if you put the insurance you would pay in a separate account and watch it grow every year.
17-Nov-22

What would you spend it on? Would you save it or give it away? What would you most like to buy? See more
Beverley S 383001
After I came around after fainting I would just quietly bank it until my emotions settled down and then I would carefully sort out the best way of using it to benefit my loved ones.
13-Nov-22

It just happened today, around midday. Waiting in a bus stop. Another woman was waiting as well, for the same bus. Exceptionally cold, windy day. The bus came in time - we waved, and the bus simply rushed by! Deliberately, without... See more
Jayne C 315662
May I offer a suggestion? Don’t assume he ignored you on purpose. Stop for a moment and consider what might have happened in his life. Perhaps he just had the news that his wife has died from the cancer that has ravaged her for the past year. Maybe the police have just contacted him to let him know that his son has been critically injured in an accident and is in the hospital. Has his estranged daughter finally contacted him to say she wants to reconnect with him? Any of these things, and more, could mean his mind is elsewhere. Should he be driving? Probably not. But we are all human and we all make mistakes. We don’t know what other people endure, but you would be happier in yourself if you did not take it personally.
11-Nov-22

Regardless if it was a paid job or volunteer work, what has been the most memorable job so far in your life, and what made it memorable? For me, I guess it would be volunteering at my children's Primary school. I was fortunate enough to... See more
Jan K (Central Vic)
Riding for Disabled - its the best thing - esp those riders who are unable to go bushwalking...they just love the trail riding days. We also play games on horse back, giving them eye and hand coordination, strengthening their core muscles, and generally giving them something exciting to look forward to each week.
09-Nov-22

Recycle all your plastic bags to the supermarket, I even use potting mix bags, cut off top and bottom, & one side, put on the line and brush off dirt when dry. It is amazing how much you get in just one week, I dry frozen vegetable bags on the line... See more
Paula J 395266
Goodness me. I don't have enough time to go to those lengths. I recycle as much as I can but some of the symbols are quite difficult to see. I wonder why there are so many. I feed the food the cats leave to the neighbourhood fox and birds and I compost all tea bags, egg shells and veggies peelings and garden waste so I feel I pretty well do my bit.
16-Oct-22

I couldn t imagine how hard it was when we had our 2nd child. My parents are not in here, and we don t have any family support who could help us to look after our kids while my husband and I are working. We are both working full time.... See more
Rosemary E 383382
People seem to want the top range of everything today. A lot are not prepared to wait until they can afford non-essential items so they buy them on credit, many can't pay it off by the due date and get themselves even further in debt.
03-Oct-22

It's no secret that the world is becoming more and more dark, scary, and negative. What are some things, no matter how small, that we can do to make the world just a bit more bright, hopeful, and positive? Or do you think it's a lost cause at... See more
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Get rid of Facebook and other social media platforms to stop online bullying and scamming etc. Life before these platforms was so much easier, and people cared a lot more
13-Jun-21

In the 1970s, President Richard Nixon formally launched the war on drugs to eradicate illicit drug use in the US. "If we cannot destroy the drug menace in America, then it will surely in time destroy us," Nixon told Congress in... See more
Larry S 382961
A plane load of agent orange or similar flying over all the sites growing drugs would clear a lot out. But problem is too many big wigs have fingers in the pie and it’s the little guy who get hurt
23-Sep-22

Recently we are researching a move to a country area from the city, and I was angry at the high cost of going through this transition. It is like a minefield. Stamp duty, capital gains, agent's fees, removalist costs, legal fees etc are far too... See more
Christine M 323842
To buy another house you are entering into the very same problem that the rest of Australia is facing- its expensive
All those costs unfortunately either come with the cost of real estate purchase , and the income generated by the increase in value upon sale. Or just with moving home, it’s too much, I agree.
At least you are not facing homelessness like many of us who don’t own a home.
21-Sep-22

A lot of people believe that there is more life out there in the universe, and the others believe we are the only ones in this huge universe ... What do you believe in? See more
Sandy G 969046
In the vastness of this Universe, we would be foolish and arrogant to think that we are the only life occupying it.
08-Sep-22

Do you believe that every person, female and male, should have to serve 2 full years in the military? Immediately after graduation from high school. Thoughts. See more
Steve
No
not military service
But National Service
To be trained to help in National Disasters
Like we’ve had lately
06-Sep-22

Some claim that anyone who values privacy, must have something to hide. Something criminal or along the lines of it. Why is that? I have relatives who are extremely private, just as I have some who are introverts. It's a habit, it's a lifestyle... See more
APB
At 50 you start to become invisible to employers...by 65 you are almost totally invisible to anyone in marketing...or anywhere else for that matter....at that point no-one cares about what you are doing at all and you can basically do whatever you want ....it is the younger members of this new bright and shiny society that is being created for us that need to be very wary and very cautious...they REALLY ARE watching, measuring and weighing you up on a regular basis....and nothing to your benefit is going to come out of it....
05-Aug-21

Do you think surrogate laws should be changed to make it easier? See more
IdentifyAs
The legal ramifications and how to legalize this hasn't caught up. I know there have been wonderful stories of a sister carrying a child for her sister etc, but when you get money coming into this with greedy unscrupulous people it is a big problem. Nobody thinks about the child.
17-Jul-22

The latest issue was about a two year old walking on his own. Why is this happening when we trust these people with our children? Someone I know was training as a teacher and was placed at a childcare Centre as part of her training.... See more
Sheree T
I was out walking on a number of occasions and I was walking on the footpath on the other side of the road from a daycare centre and could hear children crying and the adult carer was absolutely yelling at the children. Those daycare/childcare facilities need to be monitored.
07-Aug-22

China buys the name "MG"...designs cars in the UK...manufactures the parts entirely in China...makes sure that at least most of them are assembled in the UK...but tries to imply that you are still buying the long dead original product... The... See more
SueS
Energy Australia is now owned by China. They bought the company and the name. I think this is very misleading. I changed to an Australian electricity supplier as soon as I was made aware of this.
20-Jul-22

I cannot believe that I am saying this. I just thought I would give them one last go to help me recover from a spot of bad health. Furthermore, I have tried cooking them many ways but always found them bitter and pretty horrible and vowed that I... See more
AlanH CENTRAL VIC
try growing them in your own garden,they take up vey littl room and taste s a lot better than the ones you bu in a supermarket,
10-Jul-22

Who was that one person that you couldn't stand one time to quit or get fired, so you didn't have to deal with them anymore. I worked at a salon, I couldn't stand the bitch she was constantly in my way doing nothing. I'm just irritated... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I only worked one job - before I retired. I was the only minority at the job for thirty years (federal civil service position - USA). I did not socialize with my co-workers on the job, on weekends, holidays, or when I took annual (vacation) leave from the job! If I had a co-worker from hell - I did not care - since I could always transfer to another jobsite (without loss of seniority or having to accept a lower paying position)! More important, I never brought the job home with me (mentally) - left job-related personalities at the job - at the end of my shift (and I never dreaded (mentally) going to work in the morning)!
08-Jul-22

Some things are discounted, or you buy in bulk...it pays to read the small print...the bulk pack is very often more expensive than buying several smaller ones...that Gourmet Pizza is half price...but the half price only applies to one sort...and the... See more
Dianne P 756644
Yes we get ripped off all the time. I always look at the price per gm as the smaller packets are nearly ways cheaper than the big packet
22-Jun-22

Did you know there's a thing called DE-BANKING? It's where the banks have been given a right to shut down a bank account, without informing the banking---- customer. It's happening more often with these private banks, and they are... See more
Terry G 153626
If you think they have done something wrong by you then go to the Ombudsman. Banks dont like being reported.
26-Jun-22

Why is it that when rich and/or famous people do something illegal or immoral, they are excused? Nothing ever happens to them. Never get jailed, etc But if the average "Joe" does the same thing, they would be severely punished. Not fair. See more
Biscuit
Really ? Bill Cosby, O.J.Simpson, Martha Stewart, Harvey Weinstein, Oscar Pistorious, Robert Hughes, Gary Glitter, Rolf Harris and I could go on.
I know people raise these topics for the points but come on. Put some thought into it.
19-Jun-22

I can only wonder how many more trees countries like AUSTRALIA will need for our increasing population? I believe there is a current shortage, like so many things at the moment. Since we need more timber to build housing...to supply... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Trees provide oxygen through photosynthesis - trees are the vacuum cleaner (I know a horrible pun :-)) of our planet. Trees absorb harmful pollutants and release oxygen for breathing! FYI: I have never lived in a house or an apartment - made from timber or had wooden floors. My guess (do not hold me to my guess :-)) - homo sapiens can use other materials to build more homes and/or more apartments (?). Anyway, every country on this planet needs to plant more TREES (we homo sapiens are a very messy lot)!
15-Jun-22

Should we always forgive and forget? According to a recent survey, almost three quarters of Australians are holding onto a grudge. What do you think these grudges are? Can they sometimes be good for us, or is it always healthier to let go? See more
Liane H
They say some star signs forgive and quite differently.gemini a couple of days,leo can hold a grudge for life. But unfortunately for Taurean crossers,um it's until your dead and sometime even after that! Believe me I am a taurus! But a genuine apology will always ring true
07-Jun-22

France currently estimates that it needs at least 125,000 people to work in caf s and restaurants...they can't get staff anywhere (it's the same here)...it is because....the wages are really terrible.....your job security is about... See more
Melissa S 393323
People are the worst. I could never work hospitality as I would likely get into a brawl with someone who mouthed off.
30-May-22

As we get older, there are always things we learn. What are the 3 best things you have learned. Mine are: Always treat people as you would like to be treated, Laugh a lot, no-one is getting away from here alive Love lots and... See more
APB
Never burn your bridges unless there are a lot of Russian tanks on them at the time....and....come on everyone..... when life throws you some gristle....have a little whistle......AND...always look on the bright side of life....
05-Apr-22

Have you ever been called up for Jury Duty? Do you think it should be compulsory? I mean, it can't be easy for people who are forced into this position. I'm lucky so far ... I haven't been ... but a family member was some years back. Your... See more
Sandra C 12043
Never called up, but would have done it if needed. Not an easy task if you are called up for a murder trial like a friend did. She was called up for the Truro Murders and I think it lasted 6 weeks. She was a nervous wreck after it.
09-May-22

The ACT, government in Australia have made changes to some police policy's regarding home-break ins. Under certain circumstances in the ACT...if you're a victim of breakin-burglaries...the police won't attend your home to take a... See more
Bugalugs
This is an appalling idea. It is just an excuse for the Police to do Nothing for that is exactly what will happen. What about people who do not have, nor want, the Internet, computers, mobile phones etc.? What do they do or will some non-Police employee of the Police simply tell you to either report on-line or forget about it? The Police are Supposed to be there to Help, to interact with the Community not just sit in offices looking a computer screens or swanning around in their fancy cars. Once - many, many years ago, there were Police on the Beat in most suburbs - on foot. Today by the time they would get to you when there is trouble it would probably be far too late.
This proposal is just making the Police even more remote than they already are! Have a look at some of them the next time you happen to see one walking about! Most are Grossly over-weight so to have them off their backsides and walking the beat would be good for them. The result would be the Public would feel Safer and know that the Police actually do care about Public Safety and the prevention of Crime.
30-Apr-22

Is there really such a thing as justice? When two sides are in such vehement opposition, sometimes it seems only the lawyers are the winners. People talk about closure, but it seems that satisfactions n in the court is something of a myth. Or... See more
Carmel C 103964
Justice has nothing to do with closure. Closure is the personal ability to accept something and move on. No-one else can do that for you except yourself.
25-Apr-22

Do you have any celebrity/public person crush? I am in Platonic love with Will Smith for about 2 decades. My husband always laugh when I watch some movie with him. Apparently I always blush. See more
Cat8
That celebrity is no one to look up to.
His disgraceful behavior at the academy awards has forever tarnished him.
01-Apr-22

I can't believe the rising cost of healthcare insurance prices. I understand why many people are not insuring themselves for health care, but unfortunately some people need it because of certain illness. I believe that all health insurance companies... See more
Linda C
If they bought the cost down a good bit many people would take it up but every July up it goes and people start to pull out. Our health system here in Australia over the past 10 or so years has just gone down and down with hospitals closed, staff shortages but costs rising in part due to the top people getting paid very high salaries. Systems put in place that are not logical or workable in many cases. The age care sector is a disgrace. It is time to put someone in charge to go through it all bit by bit and get solutions that are workable yet still cost effective without limiting the care required.
22-Apr-22

As a kid I was promised jetpacks...flying cars...colonies on the moon and Mars at the very least (even a nuclear-powered post office in orbit around the planet?)...all of those things (apart from the post office) seem to be getting a lot... See more
Terry S 676925
It doesn't hurt to dream but you have to be grateful for what you have. Mine is being born in a country that wasn't at war and never being shoved around by a soldier with a gun.
29-Mar-22

Have you ever had a bad experience It is hard to find a hairdresser that will listen or advise you on what is best for your hair. I have had a few unfortunate experiences, once I went in for a trim my hair was long and the hairdresser got... See more
Judy T 470524
When I was 15 I went to the hair dressers & got a perm...cause that is what you did back then. I ended up with an affro, not a good look on me.lol I wore hats for months.
04-Mar-22

Do you prefer chocolates or flowers or something else for a Valentine's Day present? Or does just being with the one's you love good enough? See more
mary c
I will supply my delivery details if anyone has a surplus of chocs- particularly caramilk and/or milkybar and flowers, ooh and trinkets also accepted :)
10-Feb-22

Accomplishment through work? Bringing up a family on your own? Your kids working hard? Looking after an ill one? Leaving a legacy? Standing up for your beliefs? Knowing you were there for someone? Saving animals from cruelty? ... See more
Henry W 362692
I think my most proud moment was when my brother and I spent 2 months looking after my dying mother in palliative care at home we alternated nightly to ensure that she was looked after,she was embarrassed that her sons were looking after as our sister cared for her during the day,I can recall once I took to the bathroom & had to wipe her butt she cried but I told her you wiped my butt for years she never was embarrassed again.This time I spent with my mum was the most uplifting experience in my life,I have spoken about this in groups it has changed my life made me a more compassionate person to all humanity.
06-Feb-22

We spend about one third of our lives sleeping. There s no other activity we engage in more, and it s as critical to our health as food and water. Put simply, our cognitive abilities deteriorate without sleep. So how much sleep in your idea... See more
Joe B 288252
I’m a rubbish sleeper. I get 4-5 hours per night. That’s prolly why I enjoyed shift work all my life and why I have hypertension and arrhythmia and a whole lot of other woes. Would I swap if I had my time again?……not on your nelly, it was a hoot, loved every minute of it. Slowing down now though….lol
15-Jan-22

An item was purchased online. It was delivered to the wrong address. A picture was sent to your email address to verify the delivery. The porch, door and windows, plus a toy, showed the wrong address in the photo. The online store... See more
Ariana K 109733
A courier delivered a parcel of ours to a neighbour two doors away and once we discovered the error my partner went to the neighbour's house only to discover one of their sons (about 16yrs old) in the middle of eating some of the chocolates that he'd stolen from our parcel. The Warehouse were good about it though and redelivered the items no charge.
28-Dec-21

There has been an enthusiastic...some might say ridiculous...spread of "Doggy" products available to your best friend in supermarkets...each new wave more expensive than the last...heaps and heaps...and now we have boutique little mix and match... See more
IdentifyAs
I think dressing up your dogs every day is stupid. I like my dog to be au natural and let him roll on the grass
20-Dec-21

Every now and then... public servants tend to go on strike. Teachers, Nurses, and others! Do you think it's justified for them to do so? They do cause some disruption to services. Your Views? See more
Paula J 395266
No, they are public servants, so are paid by the public to serve. They are all on good money, and apart from nurses have very good hours and benefits. If you aren't happy in your job then leave, but of course they won't because they never get sacked and their super will provide them with a very good income, while they are comparatively young, for the rest of their lives. I always worked in the private sector where you daren't strike in case they worked out that they could do without you and if your weren't happy you looked elsewhere. In my view they hold the public to ransom.
14-Dec-21

Is it possible to never forgive people who wronged you and still go on with your life (and thrive)? Can you be happy with never being able to forgive? Do you think forgiveness is overrated? See more
Larry S 382961
I got robbed of large amount of money by non very ex cousin of wife. Money is gone and have moved on BUT won’t let her get 2nd go at it. If she knocks on the door it won’t be opened. Just maybe a bucket of water may accidentally get tossed out to clean the patio
09-Dec-21

I get quite disappointed when I see the word Xmas everywhere. This eliminates the true meaning of Christmas....The correct word is Christmas and I cannot bring myself to ever write the other...are people getting that lazy? With the... See more
Ruth 404159
No it is not correct to say xmas. It is the Lord's birthday and it is Christmas. Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night
01-Dec-21

The girl guides and scouts, do you think they are still important for kids growing up? Kids today ... have so many other things to do, and social media, games, sport, etc. What could be better for kids...than getting out in the fresh... See more
Darren S 116121
i think they are still relvent,learnibg skills that arnt taught anymore,i have taught my children how to fish,hunt,grow their own food and find water and make a fire if they need too,These are skills i learnt as a boy and have never forgoten,if the sh#t goes down i want them to be able to help themselves instead of relying on others,unfortunatly a lot of these skills are not handed down anymore
22-Nov-21

Have you heard of Universal basic income, or UBI?It's a unconditional form of income that could be provided by your National Government, regardless of income status, or whether you work or not.A recent survey in Australia in indicated... See more
Lynn A 461499
I still think that people need to work in order to retain their sense of dignity, purpose and pride. I think a "top-up" system is okay, as long as you still need to work. Getting money for doing nothing does not help people.
02-Nov-21

Some people believe that it should be younger to slowly introduce alcohol to them at a younger age so they are more responsible with it. Other people believe it should be older due to kids brains not being fully developed or they ll get addicted if... See more
Disie
This is the only law I really agree with in America. The legal drinking age of 21 and learning to drive at 16. That way they have time behind the wheel before being handed the keys to the pub as well
12-Nov-21

Do you think a digital identity will become compulsory? It sure seems ... that we are heading that way. I do have concerns with the privacy aspect of Digital ID! How can we be sure it won't ever be misused? See more
Arthur
I refuse to use my mobile for checking in because I don't use data and don't want to load my phone with apps, however, I check in the old fashion way; pen and paper. Digital ID, cashless society are only means to control the masses by big brother
05-Nov-21

How much TV is too much? I recently had lunch with 3 friends. I told them I spend a fair amount of time doing surveys. They told me I should get a life! Then two of them spent the next 10 minutes discussing the many programs they... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I don't own a TV! I have not watch TV in decades - this gives me time to do things that I enjoy doing!
07-Nov-21

Instagram was quite popular with a lot of people especially youth people were interested in it, but ever since tiktok started and become known, it started to take over instagrams popularity with billions of people joining tiktok and are usually on... See more
Lachelle B
It's like asking is Gonorrhea better than Syphilis? They're as bad as each other and you can do without both! NOTE: Not based on personal experience lol.
29-Oct-21

Supermarkets commonly mark down their produce and you can get lots of good bargains if you are at the right place at the right time. It is not uncommon to get your meat and vegetables marked down by more than 50%. Just curious what are some of... See more
Anneliese
I once happened to be shopping just as they were making down a huge shelf items that were to be discontinued at that store but still were well within their due date. Everything was about 20c or less. People were grabbing boxes of things because they were so cheap. I got protein bars, shakes, condensed milk, chips, tea, chocolate, healthy snacks, baby formula and baby food and more. I filled up my trolley to the brim and only paid just over $30 which included items that weren't for sale. It was my most incredible shop!
14-Oct-21

What ever happened to UNIONS? Why do they seem to have little say about Employment and Employees, these day's? I know they attracted much criticism in the past ...from mainly, Big business, politicians, other leaders, Media, but I... See more
Darren S 116121
i think government and big business have made it so its near impossible for unions to operate,no power anymore,theres a reason 20 or 30 years ago,dad went to work,mum raised the kids and looked afer the home,one wage kept a roof on your familys head,food on the table,even a holiday someplace every year,maybe not overseas but a holiday some place nonetheless.
This is impossible today,prices through the roof,wages going nowhere,while executives get big fat bonuses for every job they cut.
I read someplace not long ago in the 60s and 70s bosses were paid 3 times the salary of a worker,now its hundreds of times more
20-Sep-21

Some countries require that all, male and female, serve in the military for X number of years. Should all countries require some form of military service? See more
mary c
Mixed feelings about that- it depends what they are being taught- if its to shoot and kill people and fixate on weapons then no but if its to teach hard work,fitness, team work, trade's, and helping people/communities in need in our country then yes for a year. And just to add it would need to be a "healthy" environment that doesn't secretly "allow" bullying and abuse.
09-Sep-21

Most people struggle with falling asleep and have times where you're stuck thinking, so what do you do? drink something warm? read? what is your favourite thing that helps you See more
Edward S 497347
Getting to sleep is very much like the type of dreams you have when you fall asleep.
The length of time it takes to get to sleep depends entirely on things like medical conditions, the amount of stress you were under that day, problems in your life, noise around you, and how active your mind is when you go to bed.
The best way to get a good night's sleep is to try to clear your mind of all worries before going to bed or failing that, to listen to some relaxing music in bed.
NO eating for at least one hour before going to bed, NO computer use for at least one hour before going to bed, leave your mobile ( cell ) phone in another room, NOT worry about things you have to do the next day instead write a list of those things before going to bed.
Having said all of that, I am the type of person who cares about others and worry a lot about things which are going on in the world and it takes me between one and four hours to get to sleep ( Living on a highway with traffic all day / night does not help either ).
As a result of this, I average 3 to 4 hours of sleep at night, then I get up and do surveys, then do whatever else I need to do that day then have 2 to 4 hours sleep during the day.
Counting sheep does not always work for some people because if you go to bed hungry then while you count the sheep they might start turning into lamb chops LOL
26-Aug-21

Who believes that instantly falling in love with someone the moment you look at them real? See more
Viola
I walked away from my first marriage, ended up dating a few people and then decided I was not going to date anymore and just be by myself. Mainly because I didn't have a very good opinion of men in general. The day after I decided to stay on my own, a man walked up to me and started a conversation and it was like both of us knew instantly that we were the right people for each other, It was love at first site and we still love each other just as much 33 years later. He also changed my opinion of men.
25-Aug-21

My husband recently had a birthday and only one member of his family could be bothered to pick up the phone and wish him a happy birthday. All the others just sent a text message. I personally found this unacceptable. You have one birthday a... See more
Emmi G
A better option would be for people sending personal mail not just text message, email or a phone call. When possible meet in person for coffee cake or dinner would be my preferred birthday celebration. I often have to revert back to letters as all of my brothers and sisters are overseas.
13-Aug-21

Do you thing that come through gene of your bloodline or sickness that you inherit from descendants, or diet? See more
Luna
I used to have thick hair but it has now thinned out. I think it's due to my anxiety and high stress. I'm always in a state of stress even if I am relaxing, always worrying about something. I suspect this is the cause of mine. I've tried supplements and I have had blood tests to check but nothing wrong there. What do others do to remedy this if anything?
31-Jul-21

When you're stressed or worried or have a lot going on what is it you do that makes you feel free? refreshes you? and just helps you relax? See more
Steven K 462804
I like to get out & go for a walk in nature, amongst the trees. Sit under a big tree or hug a big tree. Let all your worries & stress go then. Nature is a good healer in my opinion. Be free & relax with nature. Get away from the hussle & busyness of everyday life. Relax & feel free Angel in a natural environment. Natural nature will refresh you & relax you. I guarantee it.
19-Jul-21

Should police departments tackle the issue of mental illness and sociopath within their own ranks MORE aggressively to minimize the danger of unstable officers? I m not sure that tackling officers mental issues is as important as tackling... See more
Arthur
with all due respect to rewardia panellists, I have a firm belief that folks who join the military or the police force are the ones who couldn't make it to be lawyers, doctors, architects, computer programmers and the list goes on.. Some of the police personnel make it to become politicians like the oaf Dutton, others rise in rank and become like the NSW deputy commissioner who stated lately in a televised news program that the police are tired of people breaking the quarantine rules (tired!!!!), srlsy? you are only issuing fines and nowadays all is computrized.
16-Jul-21

What's the best way to chop onions without crying? I can cope for a while by breathing through my mouth [for about 1/2 an onion], but if you have to chop up a lot for a stew or a casserole, what do you do then? See more
Ruth v
You need to peel the onion then sit it in the freezer for a couple of minutes then take it out and chop. No more tears.
04-Jul-21

What is it with parents these days? Odd baby names, whether names spelt wrong or using accepted surnames as first names. Some babies are even stuck with names of fruit or items in nature. Through the past years, children who have grown up... See more
APB
It only used to be rich idiots who did this...remember Yowie?...Yowie Bowie?...David hopes you don't....and the lovely Moon Unit...Frank Zappa's offspring?...they just changed their names as soon as they could...so can everyone else I guess...
22-Jun-21

Thoughts about this? I prefer to save, because I feel more in control, but I would be interested in other peoples points of view and experiences. See more
Grommie
I've discussed this with Grommie, my financial adviser. His wise words are: "in order to make a small fortune, you need to start with a large one."
05-May-21

What ever happened to good old rock n roll like in the 60 s & 70 s? The music today is enough to put you to sleep. Back in the day, the music would make you want to get up and dance. You didn t need to go to the gyms then, you would... See more
Tupulua S
good old rock n roll, yes, that was a great era, and real dancing. today's act of dancing is shaking your body all over the place, and sometimes is very explicit.. call me old school, rock n roll dancing is still no 1
30-Apr-21

There is an end in sight for COVID with vaccines rolling out. Our city is required to wear a mask in public places, but this will soon be ending. The question is, how many will still be doing it voluntarily? Will you keep wearing a... See more
Aussie Aussie Aussie
Definitely masks need to be worn by all while out in public, this is a pandemic we are talking about here, no time to compromise, no need to complain.
29-Mar-21

How to find the right attributes in a partner, how to raise a family. How to run a household budget, to name a few. Why are only academics the only way in life when not every student is academically inclined. See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Should life skills be taught by school districts - NO! Life skills should be taught by the kids' PARENTS. If a parent doesn't want to teach his/her kids' life skills, then the parent should not have kids!!!
13-Apr-21

When you ring a business how long is to long to be on hold before you hang up? See more
Grommie
wait 2 hours for tax dept, telecom, any other govt department and then get someone who has English as their 2nd or 3rd language
30-Mar-21

Thousands and thousands of people around the globe waiting for organ transplants but there are not enough organs available. Legalization might help many people. See more
Therese M 73305
Definitely not i understand people are in desperate need but whether people would see me as selfish with my comment but i came whole and im going whole i couldnt donate my adult sons organs the thought of them not going whole disturbed me drastically and strangers having bits of my children would have haunted me im sorry but its not for me
18-Mar-21

Should households be fined for too much waste going to landfill? Also should there be fines for those who don't recycle properly? I currently live in an apartment so it's a little harder, but I'm still stunned at how many people put bags of... See more
Maria B 89860
We used to have one (small) "dustbin" in the old days for all our household rubbish and sometimes that didn't even get full so we must have been better at recycling back then. Don't forget the backyard incinerators served a purpose and of course if you had a wood stove, well, all those old papers, cardboard and magazines were like free fuel to cook by or warm the house up. There weren't any drink cans and of course you took the soft drink bottles to the deli or where you bought your soft drinks from and had it deducted from your purchases. The rag man and other suchlike individuals would also call by periodically and relieve the households of such unwanted goods. We can almost say the in the old days recycling was a behind the scenes well functioning "industry" almost like backroom workers who were never acknowledged in the way they really deserved.
26-Feb-21

My mother works herself sick every year. There's no stopping her. We get to my parent's house and there's 10 different cookies, eight different kinds of candy made, four different desserts, and you can't see the table because of all the gifts... See more
Carolyn 395035
Xmas has become way too commercialised for my liking. Always got to buy the latest gadget for loved ones, and they do not come cheap.Nowadays it seems to be about who can outdo who and not about the gifts themselves. I actually make my grandchildren presents and as a rule of thumb, I always get them stuff that is educational and nothing to do with technology.
14-Dec-20

Should Mothers be fulfilled by staying home being competent homemakers & teaching children manners & responsibilities? By running an efficient household. Teach children budgeting, doing chores, having chooks & a veg; garden that is how I remember... See more
Henry W 362692
The situation compared to the 40’s & 50’s is so different lots of families need two incomes to cope with huge mortgages,cost of education,cost of utilities & food costs,it is much more difficult to save in one income families.
21-Jan-21

I recently asked my Sister for suggestions for my Nephew's (who is 11) Christmas present which was a iPhone. I asked about other ideas as I feel that not only is it too expensive but at his age, he isn't responsible enough to own one, but... See more
MoB
11 is far too young for an iphone. If he doesn't want anything else don't give him anything else. Sounds very spoilt to me.
03-Dec-20

I got half way through a BA after I left school and threw it in when I got a well-paying performing gig. Then I got half-way through a postgrad in journalism and threw that in when I started getting paid to write for publications. I... See more
Sabine V
University isn't for everyone plus l think it's over rated, What you learn there is not for every day living on the real world
24-Nov-20

I've tried some pretty out-there diets! I really want to try the champagne diet. Any diet that allows a couple of glasses of champagne a day, sounds good to me! See more
Vesta
It's sad that this question implies that dieting is normal - please love yourselves and don't fall into the trap of thinking that you need to be any kind of preferred 'normal' whether that be big, small or any combination of body shapes. When you die the only thing that matters is who you were which shouldn't be defined by appearance. Just aim for the kind of healthy that allows you the freedom to do the tasks you need to, have enough energy to get the job done and enough love and mental peace for those who mean the most.
14-Nov-20

I don't feel comfortable buying food that is out in the open for people to cough on, sneeze on and touch in this current climate. Unless it s covered, packaged or canned, I won t buy it. Anyone else feel similar? See more
Bugalugs
I simply will not buy any Imported Meat, Fruit and Vegetables. If that means I have to go without something when it is out of season in Australia then so be it. Why support the economies of countries which don't give a damn about Australia? Why support Farmers in other countries when our own are doing it tough and in any case at least we know that our Farmers - be they Fruit, Veges or meats at least try to obey the rules when it comes to the use of Pesticides, Herbicides and other Carcinogens? Do we Really need those Grapes from the USA? Do we Really need that Asparagus from Peru or Mexico? Do we Really need that Pork from China and the USA? Of course we don't so Buy Australian!
17-Nov-20

I still can't believe that we are in the middle of a pandemic. If someone had told me that a virus was the future for humanity. I would have said, "that only happens in the movies!". Anyone else got the pandemic blues? See more
Bugalugs
I am Irish born and simply cannot believe the absurd amount of drama which has been generated, for which the media in general, but in particular those so-called "celbrities" from Commercial TV all chattering about a) How we should all behave and b) The terrible mental strain it has been for them! People, and in particular children and young ones, whinge about being alone, isolated and yet prior to Covid19 they all lived on their mobile phones - with one Adelaide family admitting the only way they could get their children out of their rooms (in the SAME house) to come to the dinner table was to contact them via their mobile phones! and now they are complaining as to how lonely and mentally stressed they are! What a load of nonsense and heaven help them and Australia if they ever have to face a Real War, be held in some ghastly prison camp with little food and no comfort!
07-Nov-20

I mean we now have trigger-warnings, safe-spaces, pronouns and a bunch of other politically correct stuff. Are we destroying our younger generations by wrapping them up in cotton wool? Life hits hard, you can't be soft. See more
Disie
I agree. Kids are inside and everything is disinfected these days. I say let them outside and eat dirt. Builds up the immunity like Tech never will
21-Sep-20

There are a few staff members in my group home who are vaping in the house and in the van as well, and I did talk to someone about it and the person did say that s a no-no. One or two of the staff members keep on bugging me, calling me Mona... See more
Shawn B 1061185
YES! These rules and regulations are no just for the people who consume the stuff but for all those that don't. Protect yourself and others. Blow the whistle to stop endangering everybody's health.
14-Dec-25

I recently came back from an international trip of one and a half months. I was treated so well and the people accepted me more readily than those at home. I loved the experiences and would happily live there ordinarily. Yet, since the coronavirus... See more
writerrochelle
I have never been a traveler, but more a homebody myself. I find if I'm away from where I call home more than 2 hours, I start feeling anxious. When I was young (I'm 77), I used to think about traveling around the USA, living in a motor home or travel trailer, and enjoying the beauty of the earth...Now I think about being in my recliner, holding my little puppy, Lacy, and watching travel shows on TV! ;-D
22-Nov-25

When I was growing up, I wasn t given any expectations of moving out by a certain age, or at a certain stage. It was up to me or when I m ready. But some of my friends were expected to move out of home at 18 years old, others were... See more
writerrochelle
I'll never forget hearing my stepmother say, "You're 18 now. You can get out.", or something very close to that. I married my boyfriend in March, after he turned 18 in February, found a studio apartment while he joined the Marines to support us (1966 during the Viet Nam war), and had to go to war in May. I got a job babysitting where I lived. Dad brought me groceries until I got an allotment check. And started my life of constant failures, not that my childhood was any better... ;-(
27-Sep-25

I spent a lot of time feeling resentful towards my parents for things I missed out on as a child. But now that I am older, I understand that they did their best, and I am grateful that they gave me a good education. This has given me opportunities... See more
mike B 1066235
WOW, IN OUR FAMILY, 7 KIDS PLUS MOM AND DAD. NOW THAT I HAVE LOST MY MOM AND DAD, I KNOW NOE HOW MUCH WORK THEY HAD TO DO FOR OUR FAMILY. RIGHT NOW I THINK BACK AT THE BAD THINGS I DID, NOT BIG ONES .NOW I CAN NOT SAY THINK YOU MOM AND THANKED ENOUGH. FOR BEING THERE FOR ME AND ALL OF USE. THANK MOM/ DAD LOVE YOU
16-Sep-25
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