Discussions of the day

I wonder if advertising companies even consider consumers intelligence, or do they play strictly to our sense of humor. Some ads today are actually, to me, unrealistic in what they promote. Maybe I'm just old and set in my ways so that I can't see the relevance. As a TV program director used to say on his weekly op-ed commercial, that's my opinion, what's yours?
BLM
Advertising does influence consumers into buying products through various psychological, emotional, and cognitive factors. Advertisement creates awareness, provide information, and evoke emotions that drive purchasing decisions (aka a 'sucker is born every second' - LOL).
06-Mar-26

Anyone else struggles to get there teenaged to go out anywhere? It s like we re punishing them to go shopping or to the pool for the day?
Travel
Keep an eye on your teenager's mental health. My son had depression and was suicidal but he was usually in his room and I didn't realize until someone at my church put him onto headspace. Staying in your bedroom and not talking is not normal teenage behaviour. Also look out for lack of interest in things they used to love.
30-Jan-26

I am pretty open with finances only with my best friend. That being said, we are both in similar financial situations and have similar mindsets towards money. What about you? How often do you discuss personal finance with your close friends?
Cocoabeansmom
I don't discuss finances with anyone but my husband. I never talk about anything personal with friends.
23-Jan-26

People who never apologize often struggle with fragile egos, deep-seated shame, low self-esteem, or a rigid belief they are always right. We all know people who just can't apologize, why do you think that is?
EMJM
Rude. Narcissists. Got no time for 'em. Life's too short to argue with ego's. Let them go.\u270c\ufe0f
13-Dec-25

Depending on which half of the hemisphere you live on, you either have a summery or wintery Christmas. My whole life, I have only experienced summer Christmases. Do people who have Christmas in winter even realise that the other half of the world is in summertime? You see Christmas products in shops and everything is based on a winter Christmas. The real question is... which one is better and why?
Sheree T
It doesn't matter if it is Winter or Summer where you live, Christmas\ud83c\udf84 will always be Christmas no matter what the season.
24-Dec-25

Sometimes I wonder if it is really necessary to host a Christmas dinner. I love spending time with family, but organizing everything can feel stressful and expensive. Many of my family members are busy too, and it makes me question if a big dinner is truly needed or if a simple gathering would be enough. I m looking for others' thoughts. Do you think hosting a Christmas dinner is important, or is it okay to celebrate in a smaller, easier way?
J
I think Christmas should be spent however you want. If hosting a dinner is it then by all means. The stress can be alleviated by turning it down a notch or two.. It doesn't have to be elaborate. The whole idea is the sharing and caring as we get together and celebrate. Get family members involved. They can contribute by bringing something.
15-Dec-25

Traditions often shift and adapt when they cross borders. For example, Christmas in Australia blends European customs with summer barbecues and beach gatherings, while Lunar New Year celebrations vary widely between China, Vietnam, and Korea, each adding unique foods, rituals, and symbols. Even ancient practices like Yule have been reinterpreted into modern holiday traditions.
lippy loo
If different traditions enter through new family members what is wrong with that. You can keep yours and just add theirs. We are all immigrants or ancestors of immigrants. We used to be mainly English traditions which did not suit our climate anyway. I never saw snow until my teenage years, so a snow scene scenario is not my tradition. A roast in Australia during 30 plus degree temps. is just ridiculous so a BBQ or beach setting with seafood etc. became the rule for us although many still keep up the UK traditions. Each to their own. It is basically all about family isn't it?
09-Dec-25

I am grateful to members of my family who have helped my husband and I during a recent move. They organised rubbish removals, helping with lifting and cleaning and provided extra transport to the new property as well. Is there anyone in your life who is an invaluable help and comfort to you during these events?
Lachelle B
Give family date of move, organise truck, pack one room, cull as you go, boxes in the garage, clean room, shut door. Takeaways for last two days so you're not doing dishes all the time. Last day males move, women at the other house unpacking. Organisation is key including weather reports. Pets are the last to be moved.
04-Nov-25

Do you have siblings? Do you get along with them? My older brother and I used to play together all the time as kids. But as we grew older, we grew apart. Now we hardly talk and when we do, it's awkward. I'd love to reconnect, but our interests are very different, and we live in different states, so it's difficult.
Princess2026
I have one sister younger than me. We are very close our mother died in childbirth and my sister, and I are very close, I'm 12 years older I love her so much she is my angel and gift from God .
23-Sep-25

Everyone has a different idea of what success means. For some, it s having a good career and financial stability, while for others it s about happiness, health, or strong relationships. Success doesn t always look the same for everyone. What does success mean to you, and do you think your idea of success has changed over time?
GB
My wife still loves me. I have 2 daughters who love me. 3 Grand daughters who love me. And 1 grand son who loves me. Success.
26-Aug-25

With the rise of social media, messaging apps, and remote work tools, it's easier than ever to stay in touch with people across the world. But at the same time, I sometimes wonder if all this "connectedness" is actually making us feel more alone. Are we really connecting in a meaningful way, or just filling the space with digital noise? I ve heard some say that while we have more ways to communicate, the quality of our interactions has gone down and that face-to-face...
writerrochelle
As I only have a landline phone, a desktop, and a laptop computer, I can honestly say technology hasn't isolated me. But, when I look around and see families in a restaurant with their attention on their phones instead of each other, I'd say people are more isolated 'together'... ;-(
14-Jun-25

What time period would you choose?...let's see...go back for more than 50 years, and you are just starting to struggle with the language 200 years, and you are almost totally lost and everyone else is tiny...all these fun new diseases that no-one can cure...at some point no-one speaks any language you understand...and go back to the dinosaurs, and you would be unable to breathe the atmosphere...going back in time?... I wouldn't go back much further than when I was...
Pongo
I would love to go back to 1066 when my ancesters came from France and took over the running of England, it must have been a very interesting period.
02-Apr-25

Is there an experience you wish you could relive as if it were brand new? Maybe it's the thrill of your first roller coaster ride, the excitement of discovering a favourite book or movie, or the joy of a special trip. What s something you d love to experience again for the very first time, and why?
BLM
IF I could go back in time: I would address regrets, I would address personal reflections, and I would address philosophical considerations. Unfortunately, I STILL would make the same mistakes over and over, just like societies (COUNTRIES) do over and over again (LOL)!
21-Mar-25

I used to read magazines, and one of the reasons I lost interest is because you can't be sure of what's claimed to be factual. I had read an article on Americans and work, and it stated that, given the choice of having more free time for family and friends or more time working, the majority of Americans would prefer to work. (????) While I'm sure there are some people who would feel that way, I find it hard to believe that the majority do. It makes me wonder how valid...
lippy loo
If I ever do read any it is with skepticism at best. I saw a photograph of Nicole Kidman in 3 magazines but from different angles. Different story for each unrelated to each other as well. People tend to believe the written word these days more than ever. The internet is rife with falsehoods.
16-Mar-25

Do you make New Year's resolutions? If so, do you stick with it? After indulging in all the goodies and good foods at Christmas, I always make my resolution to exercise and lose the extra pounds I've gained. I do stick with it and I do lose the extra weight, however, I sometimes indulge in treats now and then throughout the year.
Bugalugs
Most of us sdeem to failwhen we make these. For 2025 we can make some which only Habit stops us ftom keeping.
There is Climate Change and Plastic Pollution, with some scientists saying the latter is every bit as dangerous for it is finding its way into the Food Chain and, a bit like Heavy Metals such s Copper Chlorophyl, once in our bodies it never, ever can be renoved.
So why not resolve to stop using Household Plastics such as Gladwrap, Clingwrap and use either Waxed or Greaseproof paper? Stop using Bin Liners. Is it really so hard to hose out the big bins? Wrap Food Scraps in old newspapers and Freeze until Garbage Day. Most Supermarkets have Service Delicatessens and now you are allowed to bring your own, Washed, containers instead of everything being wrapped in huge Plastic Bags? All it takes is a bit of effort to start with and then it becomes a habit. Shopping Bags? You do know that those so-called Green bags are just more plastic? We can buy Cotton ones which can be tossed in the laudry every now and then to keep them clean and nice for the Checkout staff to use.
31-Dec-24

Whenever I see my family happy, it feels like the most fulfilling moment of my life. I truly believe that witnessing the joy of loved ones is the greatest gift anyone can receive. Besides that, what personal experience brings you the most happiness? What has been your happiest moment in life?
BLM
When I got divorce, and I get alimony from my 'beloved' ex-wife - PURE HAPPINESS - for the rest of my LIFE!
25-Oct-24

Try again when a child pushes you away, be patient. Wait a bit and try again. It is important that children know that they are worth pursuing. Talk Keep conversation open, children don't always know why they are doing the things they are doing, they need your support to understand themselves better. What are your thoughts? What to do when your child pushes you away?
Jania S
The AI need to learn to speak English. A little grammar would be great, But a stupid question no information and loads of rhetoric... Try rewording
12-Dec-24

Often times, when I eat at a restaurant, go to a clothing store, or visit any type of business lately, the staff member tells me to be sure and give them a 5-star review online. I had a waiter bring out a QR code for me to scan with my cell phone in hopes I'd go online and give a 5-star review. I told him I didn't want to do the review now, I'd do it later. I hadn't even left, and he's trying to get me to do a review before I leave! I understand how important the...
DocR
I'd rather have them say something like: "If your experience was anything less than 5-star, please make sure to tell us so we can work on improving"...
20-Nov-24

I was taking my dog to our local dog park to help with socialisation, but one day, I noticed a dog becoming more aggressive toward other dogs. As a result, I took my dog and left. Trainers and vets often discourage the use of dog parks. They say it can become violent or spread sickness. What do you think is a dog park bad or good?
Coverdalegirl
If you have a dog breed that needs to run around to burn energy they are great. Otherwise, a nice walk should be great for their needs.
11-Nov-24

Our new neighbour is in his mid 80s and is up every morning at 6 am. He starts cutting wood to burn and disturbs us early in the morning. As we are new in the neighbourhood, we do not want to cause any trouble, so we remain quiet. Would you ask the elderly man not to cut wood so early because it disturbs you, or would you stay quiet?
Hispania
This is hard for you. I avoid confronting people even in a nice way. Invite him in for a coffee and have a general get to know you chat. He might explain why he does it so early and every day without you even asking him. If he is doing it every day then he must not be doing it for very long. It might be a routine from an earlier part of his life. I can\u2019t imagine he needs to do it every morning. In a general friendly chat you might be able to suggest he only does it once a week. Just do the get to know you first before you leap in and contact the council or start to tell your neighbour to change his ways. I feel for you. This could become increasingly more irritating.
22-Oct-24

If you bought a brand-new plain white T-Shirt, then what words or pictures would you have printed on the front of it?
Von
I saw a photo of a couple wearing the following...one reads "I Come in Peace"
The partners T-shirts reads "I'm Peace"
10-Oct-24

What are your thoughts on the wealth divide and distribution of wealth? Is it something that is going to get more prominent in the years to come
Jania S
The wealth divide will always be there, THAT IS LIFE... Stop with the comparisons, and enjoy the life you have.
12-Sep-24

Hi, my name is Alisha, and I am dealing with weight gain and I exercise a lot. What are some ways that I can lose weight?
writerrochelle
This is how I lost: Lower daily intake of calories (1200 for me at 5'2"), drink something HOT every 2 hours (tea, coffee, lemonade, and hot chocolate, at 9am, 11am, 1pm, 3pm, 5pm, 7pm, 9pm and 11pm for me), and only eat in an 8 hour period, fasting for 16 hours (11am breakfast, 3pm lunch and no later than 7 pm dinner for me). I can do it by drinking a hot beverage every 2 hours. I lost 1 pound a week, in 11 months, and am keeping it off, and you can, too! I'm 76! I started on February 14, 2023 and, before February 14, 2024, I had lost that 45 pounds! Oh, and I did NOT exercise, or take anything for weight loss! ;-D
18-Aug-24

A relative received insurance money for stolen jewellery. She was instructed to go to a particular store on the Central Coast in NSW to buy replacement jewellery. Many of the items stolen were heirlooms, so it was going to be heartbreaking. At the store, she noticed there was a half-price sale. Was she lucky this time? Not really. The store manager claimed that it was policy for Jewellers to charge full price for items bought with insurance money, even though...
Bugalugs
The word is GREED. Greed has been expanded like never before. What the jeweller did was patently Dishonest. Without exception ALL Insurance is Grand Scale Larceny by ALL Insurance companies . One huge Multi-national group operating in Australia, IAG, which Victorians should get to know, controls RACV's Insurance, has just announced a 79% Increase in Profit from the House Insurance Division of their business to over $AU1.4 BILLION. In the same breath they announced they are INCREASING House Insurance Premiums by 11 %! Almost 4 times the CPI. They also announced an Increase in the Profit they made from their Motor Vehicle Insurance division. If this massive increase in House Insurance premiums is not Price Gouging or Profiteering I would like to know what else it is. It is beyond time the federal Government stepped in and regulated the Insurance industry and if that means regulating Premiums so be it. Even better would be a Taxpayer Owned Insurance Company, one which, unlike Medibank, could never, ever be sold off to Private Enterprise. We all saw what happened when the then Federal Government sold Medibank to Private Enterprise. Medibank Ltd. became the Leading Force in Raising Private Health Insurance Premiums.
The boss of IAG used lots of weasel words to justify those House Insurance Ppremiums Increases. No-one, least of all the ABC's Sarah Ferguson on the ABC's 7:30 Report last night, believed a word he said.
Insurance is nothing more than a Gigantic scam.
22-Aug-24

One day chocolate was suddenly poisonous to dogs (that would have been a surprise to my first three dogs who ate it and lived until at least 13 year of age)...best buy them dog treats at $10 a packet... AND you should not give them sticks or bits of wood they may splinter and be swallowed (but you can buy a stick shaped dog toy...made of wood...in the supermarket...for only $19!!)...oh and bones...cooked or uncooked...can splinter and be swallowed too now...or damage...
Denise C (Qld)
Yes it's a big business - and don't forget the flea shampoos and heartworm tablets and doggies day care centres and vet bills that are more expensive than human services.
20-Aug-24

We have really good dog like robots...ones like birds...and otters. Why not make robots TO hunt? Some people are totally obsessed with outsmarting and killing things....some people have stopped eating animals...why not stop killing them for no reason too? We could even make smarter "animals" that would make "hunting" more exciting for those with guns....they could be disabled and "die"...then just restarted for the next "hunt". What do you think about that?
Pato Lo Duck
Great idea, then we could have a robotic duck season and I wouldn\u2019t have to hide in my nest anymore\u2026
09-Aug-24

I have seen a lot of these products on the shelves what is up with inventors they come up with odd things which are not safe for children at any age I saw a cotton candy flavoured putty or something which I don't think is safe for kids and a lady had chap stick or lipstick which is not safe for kids and the mom gave it to her 6-year-old. What do you think?
Izzy
I grew up in the 80s and all our toys were hazards. I had a barbie once, roller blading barbie, she had flints on her rollerblades, so I'd drag her across the floor or carpet and sparks would shoot out! I can't imagine something like that being sold today haha!
10-Aug-24

When we get married or involved in a committed relationship, we also become part of our partner's family. Have you experienced a mother-in-law and/or father-in-law who are rude to you? You know they don't like you, so interactions become awkward. How do you handle it? Do you confront them? Do you find out why they don't like you and try to change to get them to like you? Do you ask your partner to intervene? Or do you just keep quiet to keep the peace? ...
Norman PSBHRJ
You shouldn't change for anyone, especially your inlaws. Your husband should talk to them and let them know if they are rude to you, they are being disrepect to you and your husband, if they can't behave and be grown ups then they need to stay away. Your husband married you for who you are, why change that to please his parents.
31-Jul-24

Do you think post secondary is worth the cost? I have an MBA & love the Degree, but it came as a huge cost. If you have a Degree, was the cost involved worth it to you?
Moonspirit
It depends what the degree is in and how helpful for your desired career. I know of a few people without a degree who make more money than those with one.
26-Jul-24

A nutritionist on the morning news has warned that ALL soft drinks are REALLY bad for you. There are NO good ones, you should wean yourself off them using fizzy flavoured spring water, and then supposedly just drink water. So at the moment you can only be safe and responsible if you drink water and eat vegetables...everything else either really bad for you...or really bad for the planet...when they remember that there is also credible evidence that plants feel...
Izzy
Me and my kids were hooked on pop for years . But the last few years we've been drinking water and juice pretty exclusively.. I think we just got sick of pop! Especially in the summer nothing beats cold water!
12-Jul-24

We have seen many settings for soapies from all over the world. Beaches, Vineyards. Airlines, apartment buildings, cafes, restaurants, cotton plantations mafia involvement etc. Can you suggest other interesting or provocative ideas for a new soapie in your country?
Kymberleigh R 733541
I would like to see people that live with physical disabilities on Soapies as there is not enough diversity on these types of programs.
I like watching Neighbours and Home and Away, Neighbours currently has a young lady that has Down Syndrome, (I can't remember her name)
A new Soapies could be the trials and tribulations of NDIS.
It would give the wider community a real understanding what people with disabilities and their parents/carers and siblings have to do deal within real life.
Another idea is a hospital setting with all the patients living with various disabilities needing medical treatment.
04-Jun-24

While some of the claims about running shoes...without any scientific proof...sell products...it really becomes laughable in "sports" where whatever shoes you are wearing Golf?...really golf? These guys don't use their footwear to achieve anything you think if you buy a pretty pair of shoes with blue bits on the sole, you might play better golf?...come on
Conny 1314879
shoes do not make the person, however, if they are comfortable, they can improve the personality. . .
10-Apr-24

Well the first multi-story car park recently collapsed it would seem because it was not designed to carry the full weight of all the cars that were parked in it. A building that was perfectly safe when parked full of cars in 1970...had to carry vehicles at least one third heavier by 2020....and now we have loads of electric cars that weigh a minimum of one third heavier than even that again some double that weight or more that's something to think about...eh?...we...
BLM
One, I don't drive (vision issues). Two, not my issue. Three, reads like municipal (city) civil service building inspectors ARE NOT doing their jobs! Last, we need to pump more 'money' into public transportation (long-term cheaper than building more multi-story car parks to accommodate ever increasing heavier automobiles)!
23-Mar-24

What do you think about art done with A.I.? I personally find it sad, as I think art done with a canvas and paintbrush really shows a lot about the artist. And lately I've been seeing lots of people claiming to be an artist using A.I. Experienced artist here by the way
Yaya
This is just silly...that is fake but i bet they will start selling and then the real silliness will follow
12-Mar-24

Has anyone else noticed how online shopping has become cheaper than shopping in store in your hometown? I'd like to shop local, but the prices have skyrocketed in my town
lippy loo
Never shop on line. I need to try clothes on, feel the quality of the product also. However, I rarely buy clothes so it does not matter too much to me.
05-Mar-24

I've been a social smoker for 3 years now and tried to go cold turkey for the last 2 months but finding it difficult. Thinking maybe switching to a vape would help. Who has experiences with using a vape? Is it worth it ?
Rosemary E 383382
Put the money you would spend smoking into a locked container. Given the price of them the money will soon amount to enough to buy something you need or maybe reward yourself with a weekend holiday or one of your "dreams". You may have to cut back over a few days or couple of weeks. You may need encouragement from your family and close friends.
03-Feb-24

I am getting sick and tired of companies just using chatbots on both phone (if you can get a number) and computers. You have trouble explaining to them the problem, and then you have to wait for ages for a real person to get back to you. If ever. What do you think of them?
Stephen 1449391
Maybe someone could start a course to teach people to just talk like a chat bot. New job opportunities?
21-Feb-24

A multi-storey car park in New York has recently collapsed...they generally don't do that...and a report in the UK advises that the weight bearing capacities of our car parks needs to be substantially revised....most cars have become a lot heavier over the last 30 years...and all the new electric models weigh at least 30% more...often double or more...many current carparks were never designed to take this kind of weight when full.....scary stuff?...
Bugalugs
Just what is this obsession people have with buying these huge, heavy vehicles? vehicles designed for Off-Road use are being bought but never do morwe than take the children to and from school, do the weekly shopping. General Motors released a Monster Vehicle called RAM, a vehicle which dwarfs all others, designed for heavy Duty Work but like the smaller, but still massively heavy and big, are never used for Work but also to take the chhildren to and from school and go to the Supermarket. Not only do they tear up the roads but they eat fuel and, in Australia where they are being dumped because other countries are banning their sale they pump out more emissions than any others. I was in a Supermarket car park the other day and one of these monster vehicles took up Two parking spaces.
Do people buy these tanks because they have such low self-esteem they make them feel bigger and better than everyone else?
Governments should ban their sale becuaes, for the most part, they are totally unnecessary.
10-Feb-24

All families come in different way of life, such as having kids behave, obeys, helpful etc. then you have families having kids that they want a servant for them, don't obey, spoiled like a brat & claim to be rich. When these type of children fall into bad habits, it is so hard to steer them into the right direction. Parents/carers can or can't control children many times. How do you feel by teaching them a life lesson that is away of all gadgets that distract them at all hours of...
Pennye R
I live on a farm and my grandchildren are learning to grow their own food, taking care of animals, working together, and reaping the rewards of hard work. I wouldn\u2019t change it for anything.
21-Jan-24

If you paid for an airplane ticket, and you were fortunate to get the window seat, would you be willing to trade for an aisle seat because someone who says they are very nervous and claustrophobic and having your window seat would help them....... (to be able to look out the window at the vast area outside). WOULD you be fine or not trading your seat with them? Remember, this flight is an eight-hour flight, so you will be stuck in the aisle seat for quite some...
lippy loo
I always take the aisle seat as I feel this is less claustrophobic than stuck in a corner albeit with a window to look out from. One has more leg room also and it is easier to get up and down from if one has to walk anywhere or do exercises. As for switching, no I wouldn't. You have been allotted a seat and that is where you should sit. If you want a particular seat then organise it pre flight.
04-Jan-24

Do you think dark tourism is immoral or moral in your country's social norms? A dark tourist would be somebody that is from a country that shooting a gun is illegal. So they travel and go shoot a gun in a different country. A dark tourist destination would be a body farm. Last would be travelling to nuclear blast zones, towns that were evacuated during the bomb, and they never returned because of the high levels of radiation. In your comment, please state the country in which...
Albal
Dark tourism I have heard about is people paying huge sums to go to Africa and shoot big game that is fenced in on reserves. Where they have local guides and transport so they can chase down the animal. Lets get rid of their high powered rifle and give them a spear and have to chase the animal for miles until one or the other is exhausted, and have to fight to the death. Then they can skite how good a hunter they are!
03-Jan-24

While watching a lot of clips on Facebook and mainly on animal rescues. I sometimes come across what appears to be fake and possibly cruelty to animals in the making of the clips. People get paid for these clips. Have you encountered anything that may be questionable in either clips or news?
Graham A
It's more the question of what isn't fake on Facebook!! The influencers are fake...done up fake, giving fake reviews about products they are paid to give fake reviews for etc etc etc. It's a disgusting place and is has no moral boundries. I can't believe people think it is important to post pictures of 'look at me having a cup of coffee' etc. The stupidity of posting pictures of their new car with number plates showing, their new house with a street number visible, their real birthdays, telling people they are going away for 3 weeks over Christmas to the newest trendy place, the designer dog they just paid $6,000 for...it goes on and on and when they get robbed they blame everybody else.
I was a member years ago until I figured 90% of Facebook is just inane crap and all about money and letting people know that you are bored because you have nothing to do but read the stuff posted.
I HATE SOCIAL MEDIA...it's just dumbing the world down.
17-Dec-23

I have just been reading about an existing service...for older people...where the local authorities can go through with you...your eating and drinking habits...exercise patterns in fact every facet of your life really...and with their experts... come up with the perfect plan as to what you should be doing...it is very likely that none of these people are very old themselves.....the service is totally free...and at the moment at least...you do not have to do what they say or...
NZSCORPION
SCARY just more invasion of privacy and data collection by an entity that is probably not an authority in that particular field.
What's wrong with the world where people want to be told how to do things and when to do them, the communists do not rule the world.
Sounds like 1984 is coming true all be it 40 years later. I'm not a sheep like most of the world seems to be, I like to think for myself which is part of being free.
08-Dec-23

From regular panic attacks on day-to-day basis to an unexpected panic attack before for example flying - how do you manage your everyday life? How do you overcome anxiety?
Joy G
I have suffered from anxiety for over forty years. I have tried everything that I come across. I take medication but it doesn't seem to help much. I have tried many hypnotherapist, talked to many counsellors, psychologist, psychiatrists. I have tried numerous herbs, CBD oils and medications, relaxation techniques, crystal therapy, and the list goes on. I still have anxiety. I don't believe there is a cure. There are techniques to help after anxiety hits but no idea (sadly) how to overcome it.
28-Nov-23

Should school be a chore? Why can't learning be fun? I think that the way children are taught at school is too methodical and processed, it's a critical time for our kids, I was lucky enough to have great teachers who along with factual information I was also taught me why this information is important for instance I had a maths teacher in high school who took us to putt, putt to teach us speed and angle in relation to ball to the hole 95 percent of that class scored BS or...
APB
I had a few gems as teachers...but not many...I had a lot of fun at school but I wasn't supposed to be enjoying myself..so a fair bit of the time resulted in mad people hitting me with canes...over the bottom or across the palms..and a stream of half hour detentions after school..but none of it worked..I didn't get depressed...or give in....I still had laughing fits...I still had fun...that's what kids do!
...kids are VERY resilient..,and you cannot cure them of being REALLY happy,,I'd lie on the floor laughing and could not get up!..
....I am not sure how our current batch of little angels would cope with that...they would probably need therapy...(these days I might get therapy or medication for being optimistic defiant and happy...it is probably a medical condition...like everything else)
many of our current batch were really damaged during covid because they didn't see their friends....it affected their communication skills and their abilities at school....I wonder how they would cope with the Blitz....
or being in other interesting places...we might be raising a generation of babies that never want to leave home...
sorry BB I'm wandering off course here!
01-Dec-23

We love traveling, and have just done a big trip to Europe and The UK. While we were there we were asked a lot about Australia and of course we told a few pork pies (exaggerated truths). What is the best one you have told? The one we used to tell American sailors (before internet) was that the Harbour Bridge was closed every day at 5pm for the Kangaroos to cross. It was amazing how many believed it. While crossing from Spain to Italy by...
lippy loo
Heck we do not have to tell Porkies, our truths are enough. We have the most deadliest spider/s, deadliest snakes 9 of the top 10, Kangaroos that attack, Dingoes that attack, Sharks, Sea Snakes, Stingers, Blue Bottles, Stonefish, Box Jelly Fish, Salt Water Crocodiles, Cone Shell, Blue Ringed Octopus, Paralysis Tick, and the list goes on and any one of these are deadly. The European Honey Bee is also a baddy. Never had to make anything up. However, one American asked if we could see Uluru from the Sydney Harbour Bridge and of course I said yes but I did educate him after I took the mickey.
However on the plus side we have a beautiful country with unique animals, flowers, trees, etc. A huge rock in the middle of the country and the largest coral reef, we have wave rocks, canyons, deserts, water falls, mountains, stunning beaches and wide open spaces. Our country is diverse with so much beauty to see.
Actually, Kangaroos have been known to cross the Harbour Bridge so not such a porky.
22-Nov-23

Spent a few days in Sydney, and I'm not so good on my feet, so used a lot of very expensive taxis. Overhead one driver actually asked for a tip and got himself a five dollar reward. This was wrong of him to ask for, as none of the others did, what do you think?
BLM
I don't believe in tipping (I don't tip, and I don't feel self-conscious when I don't tip). Your employer (taxi drivers are employees) - should be paying you enough - so a customer shouldn't have to TIP YOU (known as subsidized your wages/earnings)! For as I am concerned - this individual (described in your scenario) needs to get a "real" job that doesn't involve tipping!
10-Nov-23

I've done a fair bit of travel and found that despite negative media about some Countries, they are actually fantastic!!, what are your experiences?
BLM
Why would you trust the 'MEDIA' on any subject - PERIOD! (Example: Fox News settle a civil lawsuit for 787.5 million dollars based on the fact - Fox News was blatantly distorting the TRUTH (aka outright lying that former President Trump was cheated out of his re-election bid in 2020)). The MEDIA is in business to make money - by any means necessarily - the end (profits) justify the means - (aka capitalism) - which has nothing to do with giving you unbiased facts so that you can make informed decisions!
05-Nov-23

On August 15, 1971 if my memory serves me correctly, president Nixon temporarily suspended the redeemability of USA notes back into gold. So from that point, the currency issued only has the promise of the government to make good on those notes. If you take a look at the indebtedness of most countries governments, this temporary action by president Nixon is fast becoming a world nightmare. Do you think it's about time to re introduce gold and silver to back currencies, or do...
BLM
One, your memory doesn't serve you correctly, the first president to take the USA off the gold standard was FDR in 1933. Two, you are deliberately confusing personal debt with the debt of a country (a stigma comes with personal debt - not the debt of a country). Three, every 'country' on this planet has debt (including Saudia Arabia, Kuwait and China - supposedly the three richest countries on the planet). Four, not any countries have enough gold (in reserve in their country) to cover its debt (including China, Saudia Arabia, or Kuwait). Five, if the world economy went back to the gold standard, the world economy would immediately go into chaos (and a full-scale depression). Six, you 'never' hear international banking firms, international accounting firms, international law firms, or international think tanks (firms), etc. advocating for a return (back to) the gold standard. Seven, your plan will only work if you are advocating for ANARCHISM. Eight, cryptocurrency is a digital currency designed to work as a medium of exchange on a computer network that is not reliant on any central authority, such as a bank or government - to uphold or maintain it - aka a 'SCAM' on the streets of USA (in rough neighborhoods). Last, cryptocurrency 'only' works if you are 'gullible and greedy' - it is not a long-term viable solution to replace a monetary system that doesn't work (anymore 'except' for the benefit of the rich or the super-rich) - aka CAPITLISM.
27-Oct-23

As a freelancer, I'm seeing more and more AI technology surface. I get excited but at the same time have doubts. What are your thoughts on the future in AI technology?
Bernie
Too much - too quickly! How is the average person supposed to know "who" has given the information to AI? One big scam!
23-Oct-23

We are lucky to live in a world where most medicine can cure your discomfort. However, the cost of living is so high that it has become a problem for people to buy medicine in drug stores. Certain medication that can crucially save others' lives is extremely expensive, and it is harder to afford with tax implemented. The ideal solution is to have insurance to cover your medical expenses. But for someone who struggles to find jobs with benefits, this cannot be the case. Not...
NZSCORPION
If you took tax off medications then some other sector would want tax removed as well and then everyone wants tax gone. Taxes pay for all your other necessities.
I'm sure most 1st world countries have systems in place to help the less fortunate.
Most medicines do not cure they merely help fight the ailment you are struck with.
21-Oct-23

Ok, everyone has one or two little secret tricks they implement around the home to make life easier.... Did you know you can freeze milk? I recently discovered this gem, and now I never run out! Works best with a good quality one. Just put some into a smaller clean bottle in your freezer for up to 3 months, It may turn a yellowish colour in there but defrosted in the fridge overnight again, voila back to exactly the way it was ! Chillies also good to freeze and no they...
BLM
As you get 'older' - you will have to fight 'everyday' the urge to become a 'pack rat'. The less 'stuff' you have in your apartment (or house) - the less cleaning you have to do on routine (or everyday) 'basis'.
04-Oct-23

Sydney is going to have a advertising campaign to try and convince residents to stop flushing undesirable objects down their LOOS. It blocks the sewage pipes when they do this, and it's not good for anyone to have this happen. Wipes are not permitted...but its many other things being flushed including oils and even toiletries...etc. Do you think some do this on ---purpose...or do you think they are just thoughtless and careless?
Pongo
This is a pet subject of mine, I’ve been in the plumbing business for over 50 years and in that time I have seen strange articles stuck in drains
Often children put toys in the loo and in England there was a man at the water treatment station employed to look for still births. One really common article was a sanitizer that hung on the rim of the loo. It was just small enough to disappear from sight but never went any further. The clear water could pass but solids would accumulate . I must have cleared hundred out over the years until they made them bigger
07-Jan-22

Betrayal is a breach of trust and can feel very much like grief. Is it possible to truly move on? Have you ever undergone a huge betrayal? If so, how have you sought to process these lies?
BLM
If you are having difficulties moving on (from betrayal) - try conversing with a mental health specialist/professional.
11-Sep-23

Hello everyone. So I have a 6-month-old boy and was wondering is it a good thing to put your child through daycare or is it pretty ok just to wait till kindly? New at this :)
Evie
Get married (if you're not) and Raise your own kids. There's a good reason the traditional nuclear family worked so well.
Triggering in 3...2...1...
09-Sep-23

My twins are 9. They would like to walk home from the bus stop, is 9 too young to let them do this?
Bugalugs
Depends on how mature they are. Do they know Never to speak with anyone they don't know or who have not visited their Mum and da at home?
I thinke Lorne M, below, has got it right. Safety in numbers.
They Must also klnow that there is to be no wandering off simply because they feel like it and that they Must come straight home and then, with your permission go off with other kids so that Mum/Dad knows where they are going.
08-Sep-23

There are reports of children on a large scale refusing to go to school, and it has been labelled a medical condition. Is it really, or is it simply a case of children being children? The problem has blossomed since the Covid lockdowns, when I suppose children found all sorts of things they could do at home rather than sit in a classroom and listen to a teacher. Specialists are asking for more money and resources to deal with the problem, but shouldn't parents just tell their...
Pennye R
It\u2019s because parents are letting their children get away with everything. If there are problems at school, then investigate and deal with them. Allowing children to avoid facing problems will only create more problems for them later in life.
28-Aug-23

If your neighbor's lifestyle bothered you, would you say something to them? Many people like to smoke cigarettes and marijuana, which I have nothing against. However, if you are one of those people who do not do either, but your neighbors do it non-stop, and it affects you, would you let them know?
Roslyn A
I had a neighbour who used to complain about me for digging a hole for a tree at 5pm, sanding a wall at 9am and other petty things - yet I was up earlier than her and at work earlier than her and in bed later than her. I say, leave your neighbour alone!
31-Jul-23

Do you think genetically modified food is making people obese? It seems that when people use more and more genetically modified food they put on weight quite fast. Whereas those people who only eat food grown locally and meat that has not had hormones added don't put on weight so easily.
BLM
If you don't trust 'genetically modified food to be safe, then don't buy genetically modified food. However, this is a capitalistic society (aka profits over people)! What do you expect when it comes to making money (short cuts are going to be involve to raise the profit ability level)?!
10-Jul-23

Falling victim to a scammer is an awful feeling. It s not only the theft of money or personal information that stings, the thought of being tricked by lowlife crooks is enough to enrage anyone. Statistics show more than 95 per cent of Australians are exposed to telephone, text and internet scams each year. Even more alarming is the amount of money these thieves are stealing from us. Last year it exceeded three billion dollars. Is there a meaningful solution to stopping scammers...
Lt p
Prison, hanging, electrocution, firing range\u2026\u2026I am getting so tired of people trying to screw over innocent people. And wasting my time answering their stupid calls.
07-Jul-23

If you could change one thing in the neighborhood you live in, in an effort to make it a better place, what would it be?
Larry S 382961
Clean out the drug dens,put road horns off the streets. Make councils do what they are paid to do and not bend to minority groups
24-Jun-23

Does anyone else experience seeing things from their dreams in reality and get a deja vu moment ? Or am I just tripping, ha-ha Happens quite a bit for me ...
Peechy
Allllllll the time, worst thing for me is I'll say something then it happens, eg phone rings or dings, son drops an egg on the floor etc etc etc
18-Jun-23

Which age group has been the most challenging for you as a parent? Some people say it's the first 8 weeks, others say it's the terrible 2's or troublesome 3's and others may say it's the teenage years. Each age group has unique challenges, but which age group have you found to be more difficult?
sherry s 714699
2 and 13, See when your sweet baby turns about 13 aliens come and take that baby away and leave its evil clone and you don't get your baby back until it has babies of its own. Overnight you are the enemy and your child's evil clone is on a seek and destroy the enemy mission.
14-Jun-23

Easter Holidays are fast approaching. What traditions or special things do you do for the holiday? We tend to spend the few days as a family trying to reconnect. Usually everyone is off on their own things and work, so it gets a little hard to see everyone. The 4 day break is a nice time to catch up and enjoy the company... and eat some chocolate.
merricat
My family used to get together for all the major holidays, but since my Mom passed away, we hardly ever see each other. So sad, really.
06-Apr-23

It amazes me how some people can 'transform' themselves with make-up, fake lashes etc. I struggle with mascara don't even get me started on blush 'rosy cheeks' disaster! What's your 'going out for the night' look?
allinyourNCbc
i never liked a woman i went with that i did not recognize the next morning, only care for real women, the beauty is always inside,,,,,\ud83d\ude09
16-Jun-23

I was dating an addict for several years. I eventually kicked him out of my home. I have since joined a site of families of addicts. So my questions is - should you stay and support the addict when their behaviors impact your lifestyle? I left for my own mental health, but I have heard both sides. People that say if you love them you would stay, others like me who had enough and left. Curious about what others think?
Dada WA
An addict to what? Crosswords? sport? Please when asking a question make it clear. I assume you mean drug addict? There are many addictions.
10-Apr-23

My wife loves these reality TV shows and as a devoted husband I have sat through quite a few hours of reality TV which to me is nothing like the real world, so I don't understand where the reality title comes in, love is blind, perfect match, farmer wants a wife and many more, I have watched, and I have an opened mind, I just don't get how the men act or the females talk, is it just the way now or is chivalry dead?
Lachelle B
Should be called 'Desperation Shows'! 10 women vying for one man, have no qualms about kissing him when he was kissing someone else an hour ago. Willing to have it all hang out, spend hours on make up and hair daily. You don't see blind, deaf, disabled people... on these 'reality shows'. Chivalry can take a back seat, should start with common decency and having enough self respect to dress appropriately. There are already too many botoxed and duck lipped women on the planet. Looking 'normal' will be the new 'in' thing one day, then you can call it a reality show.
20-May-23

Why is it hard to get off of drugs? The older people get. Does anyone have or has had this problem? How to deal with this ordeal
Pearlz
I don't drink alcohol, I have never smoked, I don't play the pokies and I have never tried drugs so why people become addicted I have no idea, and while what others chose to do is their own business I am growing tired of their lives over flowing into mine. In both Sydney and Melbourne there are injecting rooms set up for people who chose to use illegal drugs while I have to have a prescription for Mersyndol and they are about reduce the number of tablets in a packet of Panadol from 20 to 16 and will reduce the number of packets you can buy at a time to 2. So the majority of us have to suffer for the actions of a minority.
09-May-23

So you decide on a washing liquid or powder for your washing machine...but however much you paid...you really need another additive to get your clothes really clean ... and the colours bright ... and then you need another product to wash your machine AFTER washing your clothes ... this is getting really silly ... why not just have one product that does the lot ...or are we just being conned? What do you think?
Wombat
My hubby does the washing. He used to bleach all the whites. Now he just washes them in napisan and they come up white so we do not need several products
22-Apr-23

I'm a young lady born and raised in Louisiana. Down here, we love to cook. We have gumbos, etouffee, sauce piquant, all the seafood, and rice and gravy's. Louisiana is known for its gumbo and the crawfish. I would love to know what food comes out of the state (country) you live in!
Pearlz
I live in NSW Australia and our native foods are Barramundi, kangaroo steak, crocodile sausages or witchetty grubs. However, we also claim Pavlova, Lamingtons and Anzac biscuits. I'll eat the Barra, Pav, lamo's and the bickies but I won't even try the others.
12-Apr-23

In Australia, we have medicare to help cover health cost. Should there be medicare for your pets too?
Bugalugs
Why do so many people expect "The Government" - But READ "Other Taxpayers" to pay for everything now? People have children and they expext other Taxpayers to foot the cost of Childcare. Why? People are earning combined salaries of well over $AU200,000.00. Let them cut their wallets so that they can pay All their own Childcare Costs. Our Parents and Grandparents managed to have children and bring them up themselves and none of them had anything like the Incomes that people have today. Think on this, if you will. Today the Unions are asking for a Pay Rise of 7% for the Lowest Paid Workers, a rise which will make their Minimum Weekly Pay $AU812. Compare that to Old Age Pensioners who worked hard for 50 and more years, paid all their Taxes, raised their children and got No Financial Assistance from any Government were recently given an increase of 3.7% which brought the single OAP up to about $AU560 per week.
Yes, by all means extend what was, dishonestly, touted at the time as "Universal Health Care" aka Medicare to cover all Dental and Optical Expenses, but including Pet Care is a step too far. What will they be asking for next? That other Taxpayers pay for all their Food, Alcohol and Illegal Drugs? Their Motor Vehicle expenses?
Fortunately we still do not live in some sort of-Socialist-cum-Communist State such as China. Did you realise that under the Chinese Communist Party Dictatorship you have to get permission from it to move from your village/town/city of Birth to another? That is what those calling for "The Government", read TAXPAYERS to cover Pet Care under Medicare will end up getting.
01-Apr-23

After answering a discussion about marriage, I decided to start a discussion about independence after years of codependency. I have been in many toxic relationships, never a good one. I've been single for 3 years now, and I'm thinking about dating again, but I'm not ready to give up my independence. It seems like I only attract toxic people, so I'm very leary. It also seems like guys always want to rush into things. If you find yourself relating to how I feel, can you please give me...
Michelle S 553303
I was devastated after my children's father, my first and only true love from the age of 15, told me after I finished a night shift as an RN that he had spent the night while I was at work and slept with a woman that he had met ( I hadn't a clue) when he played cricket on Saturday's and planned to move in with her immediately. I was also informed by him that "the sex was so good that they'd broke the bed". Yes there'd been problems in the marriage and the past year had been especially tough after moving and renovating an old house I'd inherited and the death of my beloved mum to cancer and trying to help my Dad through the loss of his lifetime partner. I don't know if I can say that I had a mental breakdown but I did try and kill myself which ended up costing me a 3 day stay in a ward in the hospital that I worked in but with a "special" nurse so that I wasn't left alone although thankfully NOT in the psychiatric ward as my boss wouldn't allow it, but I changed after that whole experience. I was 39, had 5 kids and I thought "well if HE doesn't want me I'll have to find somebody else who will appreciate me". This led to a short relationship with one of my soon to be ex husband's friend from Church who had recently got divorced from HIS wife. I look back on that experience, which I try hard NOT to do, which led me to remarry just 2 days after my divorce came through and that lasted under 6 months. I was still shell-shocked after my 1st husband's betrayed and CLEARLY not thinking straight and I NEVER dated or looked at another man again. That was almost 19 years ago and when my aged father tries to suggest, which he has many times over the years, for me to find someone, I just tell him that I'm happier with just my 5 cats! I did look after my 1st husband's dad until he died coming up to 5 years this July, and the shame that I felt over the fallout of both those marriages and the eventual loss of my home and bankruptcy, allowed me to be so busy to look for another someone even if I HAD wanted to, but I felt that I had nothing to offer someone anyway, as "why would they want ME?" I am TRULY happy, although "happy" is an emotion that I haven't felt for years, but perhaps content is a more appropriate definition of how I feel, with my animals for companionship, but I know that I would judge any relationship and make too many comparisons to my previous relationships to be able to be open to letting myself fall in love again. I know that this story sounds morose and moribund as do I, but you CAN be wounded so much that you shut down ALL future opportunities for happiness. However I wish the other commentors here all the best with their own romantic endeavours!
18-Feb-23

OK...we are moving away from diesel and petrol powered vehicles into electric and other forms of power...the vehicles we have are already now looking very much the same...and boring.....what about a fresh start? The new vehicles DO NOT need to look anything like the old ones...how about something radical? How about a new type of vehicle that is really fun?...or is that expecting too much from our current carmakers?
Liane H
I miss my little convertible Peugeot.206 such a cute car and easy to zip in and out of parking spaces.
17-Mar-23

You have just been asked to be married. Would it bother you if your diamond engagement ring or wedding ring set was designed and produced in a lab? Or would only a real diamond be acceptable?
PEN15
I just don\u2019t understand the appeal of expensive jewellery. As long as you like the way it looks and feels, then why would you care how much it\u2019s worth?
14-Mar-23

The Whole World is a Stage and everyone plays a role. My favorite role is being a Villain. What is your favorite role?
Neo
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages.
William Shakespeare
19-Mar-21

Do you think Valentine's Day is a day for romantic gestures, or only there for businesses to profit from?
IdentifyAs
I don't think we have chivalrous gentlemen anymore, or they have been put off by these women who don't have the slight bit of feminine wiles. I was married to a pig who was incapable of even uttering a kind word or compliment. I did have a young man who gave me his seat at a funeral and another older gent who opened a door for me. I was very grateful and thanked them. and yes it is too over commercialized. You don't need to spend a bomb or be ostentatious to tell someone you love them.
14-Feb-23

What was the most embarrassing moment of your life, and how did you react to it?
block head
When I locked myself out of the house when I walked out the back door and had to wait till that afternoon before anyone come home to let me back in. Wearing only tee shirt and shorts. Now way of getting out front as all close in back courtyard. Mobile phone was left inside the house.
09-Feb-23

I recently took on a position and found myself in such a toxic work environment (in a Professional office) that it literally made me sick for two months. When the issue was addressed about where the behavior was coming from, it was put off as a "misunderstanding" because I was new. Many people say never go to H.R because it makes you look bad and because it won't be resolved. It will be investigated but if no proof because the toxic atmosphere happens when the boss...
Julie K 348980
In my last job a woman who thought she was my supervisor (she was in fact a co-worker) said “do you think I give a &@^% about anything you have to say”. Not willing to put up with that behaviour I walked into my boss’s office and handed in my immediate resignation. He asked why, I told him and he asked me to wait for 10 minutes whilst he sorted out the matter. He called a department meeting and made her apologise to me in front of everyone. I stayed at the company for many years and was very grateful when she was transferred to another location.
07-Feb-23

Politics can be a very touchy subject. How do you and your family and friends feel about the differences you may feel, and how do you discuss the issues we all face in this day and age?
lin r
ALL IN THE US do not say nothing make sure trump maggots know how he lies and lies and lies 30,000+ when in office d o not put your head in the sand and just think the republicans maggots will go away
02-Feb-23

I have a Will, (it's a bit old and needs an update) but my partner does not have a will. We also have a business together. We are not married, (but been living together for 41 years this April - so yes I know de facto status etc comes into play). But given our surnames are different, I think it would be much easier all around if he had a Will too. He wants to, it's just one of those things, 'yes I'll get around to it one day'. His Mum recently...
Darla T
Will is done, funeral paid for, and memorial stone installed. I didn't want to leave preparations to chance and burden someone else who might question if they are fulfilling my wishes.
25-Jan-23

During COVID-19, all schools were closed and everyone had to work and study online. Usually almost everyone always wished to work from home but once they actually had to do it, that s when it wasn t so funny or comfortable as imagined. So now that we can go out again. If you have the option to send your kids to school or do the same thing online, what would you do?
Agonis
I am home-schooling my children and they have regular meetups with the other children that are also homeschooled in the area. I was already studying online when covid happened. I much prefer working and studying from home as there are fewer interruptions. My son has thrived in homeschooling as he has the option of choosing what he studies (within reason) he has additional needs and there are no small class options in the area so this works best for him and we did not utilize technology, he has been doing pen and paper, educational books and social skills by visiting the community centres to see other homeschooled families.
18-Jan-23

Before Covid19 hit, there wasn't a day that went by when we didn't hear Greta being spoken about. But things have certainly gone quiet haven't they? The media have bigger fish to fry.
Sand
Why is everyone giving this incredibly intelligent and well informed girl so much grief? How much do you know about her? The Matrix summed it up: We are a virus! It is time we love our earth mother. She is not led by others and is not selfish, unlike the shortsighted many. I am disheartened by the ignorant, uninformed and selfish views of many below. I hope Gaia haunts you all in your dreams!!!!!!!!
14-Oct-20

Mad wars. Plagues of destructive viruses. People are out of control. Philosophy and logic downgraded. Science outranked by mythology and religion. Religion that does not even follow its own basic teachings.
PatCat
Throughout history when were we ever peaceful for long? I was born at the beginning of World War 2. All my life there have been wars and rumours of them. Religion has been tried and found wanting. Wealth breeds corruption. So we are just a huge heap of apes with big brains. God must have realised by now that he should never have let Eve eat that fruit! On that note peace to you all my fellow Rewardias.
21-Mar-22

Be safe and enjoy with people. Don't drink too much and drive home. Have a designated driver with you at all times.
Mopos
Hubby and I at home, relaxed, good music, a light dinner, a few wines, no not too many!, champers at midnight watching the Sydney fireworks on TV at midnight.
Happy New Year everyone........., especially you Blue Butterfly!....
31-Dec-22

We've heard the heads up about a recession, while most of us are feeling the pain of increased day to day living costs. Is there anything you are doing to prepare for tricky times ahead?
Agonis
Making everything just about at home. Walking everywhere, homemade craft activities for the kids, homeschooling, doing surveys and anything extra I can for extra money.
28-Dec-22

Why are foreign owned companies allowed to pretend that they are local... Energy Australia for example is Chinese....why are they not legally obliged somewhere to state that this is an International company....the other strange thing...why don't companies that ARE local point out this to their customers either?...to me that is a very important reason for choosing them...what do you think?
Witchypoo
Let’s just keep Australia for Australians! You can’t get more local than that. Aussie, Aussie, Aussie! Oi, Oi, Oi!,
02-Nov-22

As many women know, being in a relationship with a guy who is not fully matured can be a difficult situation. To give a little context, I have been in a relationship for over a year with a guy who s quite young and doesn t fully understand the ways of a relationship and how to make the girl happy. There have been a lot of issues where there is no communication, yelling over little things, shit talking / letting his friends talk bad about me, never taking me out, complains...
lippy loo
Why are you still with him. The old saying "a leopard never changes it's spots" is true. Some partners might temper their actions but it usually comes back out again. Firstly he is younger than you and this is not really the ideal situation. You are being a doormat. He disrespects you big time. You are there just to do his bidding whether it be cooking, cleaning, physical or financial. Get some respect and leave or if it is your place ask him to leave immediately.
13-Dec-22

What really does forgiveness mean to you? It's subject to experience and belief systems, so I don't believe in a wrong answer
PammyG
I can forgive without forgetting once trust us broken it’s extremely hard to win back. I am also a big believer in karma, what you give out will come back to you.
08-Dec-22

I am listening to many mention "New Normal" among getting back to the old normal. Does everyone even have a normal? My life is consistently in motion and changes like the wind. So, what's your thoughts on normal? Does it exist for you?
Amber 22
Not me any way I cry every day and wish I was dead I just wish I could be normal but people are always meany to me I have no real friends I love cats I wish people would be nicer to other I think it would be normal to not be called a bitch all the time and to have an idear of where your life is heading I do not have much of them I must keep going I have a beutafill son have to try and help him and any one I can I think it is a good life some times have to keep trying for better f everyone you have to believe in your self and in god
17-Jan-21

If for whatever reason, it became necessary for you to surrender your pet because you could no longer have it where you live or couldn't take care of it any more, what would you do with your pet animal?
Crazy Chef
I've been told that our cat might need upto 1500 dollars of dental work, which is rediculous, we can barely afford our own dental work, so I think when the time comes and he shows signs of pain, we will probably do the humain thing and have him put down.
18-Nov-22

I do believe the technology era is making us part of it too. How will people feel in the future when machines replace essential jobs? And then not essentials, but as many as machines would cover. Can you imagine coming to school without a teacher? Can you imagine coming to a supermarket without the usual counter stuff or people who sort out all food on shelves? Can you imagine buses and trains without drivers? No doctors or nurses, no postman, no barrister or...
Lyn A.
There is a place for technology. Personally it has spread my "social life", Can chat with people I have met from other countries. Some people deserve to lose their job to machines, at least machine might be polite and actually try and help.Maybe a machine will not indoctrinate child to their own views as many teachers do.There are pros and cons. Guess maybe if/when a machine could show artificial emotion [as many people do] they may work in better
12-Nov-22

I became a caregiver 4 and a half years ago. I had to give up any chance of working. A caregiver is on call 24 hours a day. There are flexible hours, but I needed to be at home all the time. Especially in the beginning. If it wasn't for survey sights, I would have gone broke and crazy. Why don't governments help caregivers? What can be done to give them a living wage?
Pearlz
Some years ago I sprained my ankle, 2 weeks later I broke my knee, 2 weeks after that during a routine X-ray the doctor found my ankle was broken. My cast was getting bigger but just as I was starting to feel better renewed pain in my foot sent me for another X-ray and the other side of my ankle was broken. As I was very incapacitated my husband had to take time off work without pay and we felt it very unfair that we weren't entitled to any form of Government assistance. So no pay and loads of medical bills while other people manage to get heaps of assistance. All caregivers should get some sort of assistance.
06-Nov-22

If so, what did you see hear smell or feel that couldn't be explained by the five senses. What was your response? Did you share your experience with others?
Pearlz
I have never had a Paranormal experience but I do sense things. I will go to the letter box and know that a certain letter that was not expected is in it. I also know who people are despite never having met them or even seen them before. I used to know who was on the phone when it rang, now it tells me so I don't know if I can still tell who it is. My daughter and I would go shopping in different places but when we got home we would find we had been in the same stores but in different suburbs, and bought the same things. There are other weird things like knowing what people are going to say on TV or know the plot way ahead of time. I don't think it's supernatural or anything like that, I just put it down to being super attentive and noticing things other people don't.
03-Nov-22

With the shortages of staff in hospitals, wouldn't it be a good idea to bring back some of the matrons that did hands-on training in hospitals. As I remember, we had some really great nurses trained in this way. Instead of sending them off to University, they could be trained in the same manner as apprentices. It could help fill the hole that we have now, with shortages all over Australia.
Pearlz
The problem is that nurses are sent to university then into hospitals. In the old days you started emptying bed pans before you decided whether or not it was the profession for you. Now they are sent to university then have to empty bedpans. Wouldn't it be a bit of a shock after years of schooling? Why would anyone spend years studying then perform back breaking work, changing dressings, wiping bums and the like when they could be earning much more in the corporate world. Starting at the bottom then studying your way to the top is always the best way to fill the ranks.
05-Oct-22

Driving into the hills one day the forecast was rain, as I got to the top of the road I was on and turning left I saw in a paddock a herd of goat, what struck me as odd was that every goat about 25 all stood facing the same direction and not moving, it's not the first time I've seen this. Couldn't help think that the devil's pet is a goat, or was it just something like the forecast for rain?
Hugh Nose.
I get the same sort of sensation when I walk into the women's change room at the local swimming pool. They all scream and turn in the same direction.
30-Sep-22

If you could go back into the mists of time, way Way back- is there a subject or skill you wished you had learned at school? I would have liked to have done History and Art History, and Car Mechanics. Not that the latter was offered at our Religious girls school back in the 70s n early 80s. A class on how to avoid getting very drunk and making a total ijit of yourself would have been useful too.
Larry S 382961
shouldn't the question be what didn't you want to learn at school.
I hated Maths B and could never understand why A + B =C.
I liked geography and maybe that is why i like to see places
31-Aug-22

Whether you're walking back to the stove twice or 3 times to ensure that there's no heat ....what obsessive thoughts make you check on the check? And what is it that you have to repeatedly check on to make sure it REALLY GOT DONE?
Cassandra B 208821
As someone with ADHD and OCD this is a far too common occurance to even try and tally how many times i do it.
05-Sep-22

Surveys often want to how many painkillers and cough medicines you buy in a year....if you say none you are instantly flung out...and on TV there is a constant barrage of adverts telling which painkillers and cough medicines to buy...who is buying all this stuff?...if you are buying it regularly...like groceries...do you think that is normal?...why aren't people going to see doctors?...this industry is raking in millions of dollars...what do you think?
IdentifyAs
Because of being locked up, our natural immunity isn't being strengthened. People with normal immunity might get sick for a few days. Elderly and immuno compromised people will die. I always have painkillers/cold-flu tabs and immediately take more rest, hot soup and orange juice, tea with lemon and honey..You can't go and see a doctor now. If you have a runny nose they won't see you. We need to be more aware of our immune systems, I take supplements to keep me healthy and eat good food (vegs and fruits). If you give your body a fighting chance rest will allow it to get well and form immunity. Nothing has changed since this Covid garbage came around, they have just given it all a new name to panic us.
13-Aug-22

If you had the chance to go anywhere - or travel back in time to see your favourite bands or singers performing, who would they be even if they are long gone? Hard to choose Pink Floyd and Steely Dan up there for me, Tears for Fears back in the day, def Alan Parsons
Happiness
Beatles, Queen when Freddy was live, ABBA back in the day, Skyhooks at Sunbury. Oh but I would have loved to be at Woodstock. Bette Midler again. Oh so many
22-Jul-22

If you could go back in time and tell your 15-year-old self 1 pearl of wisdom, what would it be? Something to avoid ? Something to embrace? Stock market tips ? What would it be?
Henrietta
When I was 15years & 10months old, I met the man who was to become my husband. I actually asked him if we could get engaged as he was due to go in the Army & do his 2 years national service. I waited till he came out of the army so when I was 18 years & 1 month, we had a white wedding which was a dream of mine. This coming September we will have been married for 62 years. We have had our "ups & downs" as they say but we have always been able to sort them out. If I had my way again, it would be exactly the same except for a bit more travelling than what we have done. I have been disabled for the past few years & he has become my carer. He now does the cooking whilst I sit at the table & do the food preparation. We work as a team & always have done. Plus I still love this man, my husband after all these years.
01-Aug-22
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