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Discussion of the Day · 14-Nov-25
I recently took my car into the dealership's service garage for limited work, i.e. replace summer tires with winter tires and an oil change. I was told in advance it would cost $450, but the garage performs an inspection before it commences... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
14-Nov-25
Discussion of the Day · 03-Nov-25
More and more businesses are asking for payment upfront before the job or service has been performed. What happened to the practice of completing a job or service, then sending an invoice for work well completed to everyone's satisfaction? What... See more
Ann 1498966
03-Nov-25
Discussion of the Day · 02-Oct-25
Please share anything fun things to do with technology (that is not something that is a usual thing to do with it). I think it is fun to give online translators things translate from English to another language and then have that result... See more
Norman M
02-Oct-25
Discussion of the Day · 24-Aug-25
I was at the dentist today, and we were talking about how teeth don't get better with age. This started off a discussion about what does get better with age. Of course, wine was mentioned. He said his cooking was getting better, and... See more
writerrochelle
24-Aug-25
Discussion of the Day · 12-Aug-25
Imagine humans successfully settle on a new planet. To ensure a fresh start, the community decides to create one founding rule that everyone must follow. What do you think that rule should be and why? Should it focus on equality,... See more
Lachelle B
12-Aug-25
Discussion of the Day · 10-Aug-25
What s the one food everyone seems to love but you secretly (or loudly) can t stand and why does it feel like admitting a felony every time you say it out loud? See more
boy blunder
10-Aug-25
Discussion of the Day · 04-Jan-25
In the 1970s we were as a family for about 4 months we could not find a place to live there was lots of housing, but landlords did not want to rent to families then with children. We did finally get a place, and my husband worked at... See more
Chris P Chikin
04-Jan-25
Discussion of the Day · 29-Jun-25
The idea of giving someone an awesome gift is always forefront of our minds when a new baby is on the way, but how much should you really spend? See more
Sheree T
29-Jun-25
Discussion of the Day · 16-Jun-25
Regardless of how well you think you remember things, all of our brains are full of memories of events that never happened so-called false memories. And that, according to science, isn't necessarily something to worry about. What would you... See more
Elizabeth A 807208
16-Jun-25
Discussion of the Day · 25-Jan-25
Should there be stricter building regulations in fire-prone areas, including the use of materials like metal roofs and stucco walls, and a reduction in the amount of wood used? Additionally, should every house in these areas be required to have a... See more
Laura 1512647
25-Jan-25
Discussion of the Day · 15-Jan-25
Are you taking vitamins for health reasons? Some experts say that vitamins are useless. We should be able to source essential vitamins from our daily food. Now, however, there are warnings about Vitamin B6 causing peripheral neuropathy in... See more
Kathleen 1396104
15-Jan-25
Discussion of the Day · 12-Nov-24
Our perception changes as we grow older. What's something you realized about a family member once you got older? See more
Teri 1282723
12-Nov-24
Discussion of the Day · 14-Nov-24
We often hear about the negative aspects of the internet and online activity, and they are all valid. But for me, the positives outweigh those negatives. I am 64 and have been "online" for at least 30 years now. These are a few of the... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
14-Nov-24
Discussion of the Day · 28-Oct-24
1st-time parents have many questions, what advice would you give them? For me: I let them know that babies cry a lot and hugging them gives babies comfort. See more
Cathy S 315728
28-Oct-24
Discussion of the Day · 27-Oct-24
I made my first Christmas Cake for this year yesterday and realized that I have been making this cake for 60 years. I have made it so often. It has been a birthday cake, a wedding cake and of course every year I make a lot of them to give as... See more
Angie
27-Oct-24
Discussion of the Day · 25-Sep-24
For me, decent housing improves health, education, and work. It provides a sense of safety and belonging. Without a decent home, it is difficult to contribute to society. Because housing is so vital to our "mana" and wellbeing, it is a human... See more
merricat
25-Sep-24
Discussion of the Day · 12-Sep-24
What are your thoughts on the wealth divide and distribution of wealth? Is it something that is going to get more prominent in the years to come See more
Jania S
12-Sep-24
Discussion of the Day · 07-Sep-24
I have recently been invited to a Hens' Party. No worries. I love the tradition. However, this time I was asked to pay $125 for the privilege of going to an event at a swanky hotel. I ended up paying, because I simply did not want to... See more
just me- NZ
07-Sep-24
Discussion of the Day · 21-Jul-24
Do you make your own compost? If not, why not. Save the planet and your local rubbish dump See more
just me- NZ
21-Jul-24
Discussion of the Day · 28-Aug-24
I have been paying for Private medical insurance for years. Every year, the rates go up with less cover than when I joined. Now, when I need an eye condition covered, they will not pay. I discovered that many eye conditions are now no longer... See more
Elizabeth J 447888
28-Aug-24
Discussion of the Day · 21-Aug-24
Whether answering captchas for accessing sites, work reasons, authentication purposes, it is incredible how awful these tests are and the bots often mistake an actual human with a bot spam. Not just the annoying ones where the picture of... See more
Simone S 316632
21-Aug-24
Discussion of the Day · 07-Aug-24
I have been searching for a job, for about 6 months now, with the same result every time I've applied. One of the main requirements when applying for a job is having a driver's license. I haven't been able to get my driver's license for a number... See more
Katzeye
07-Aug-24
Discussion of the Day · 05-Aug-24
Has anyone reused their clothes? An example is a jumper I do not care to wear out anymore, so I have decided to use it as a pyjama top because it is warmer than the original pyjama top. I have a shiny top that I have had for 10 years, so I am... See more
sunflower
05-Aug-24
Discussion of the Day · 29-Jul-24
I am not sure if this could be a topic, but how do you forgive someone who took away the life of someone you love? It is now 40 years since my brother died by a drunk driver. The hatred that spewed from me was just horrible. I just had... See more
Charlie B 182908
29-Jul-24
Discussion of the Day · 20-Jul-24
Have you ever been involved in a road rage incident? See more
Liane H
23-Jul-24
Discussion of the Day · 18-Jul-24
For me, they can shut up and actively listen. They re not just waiting to speak. They have a sense of balance in the conversation. What are your thoughts? What screams "highly intelligent person"? See more
Liane H
18-Jul-24
Discussion of the Day · 08-Jul-24
I have read in different places that some people believe that they should be paid for helping with their grandkids and these days most families both of the parents to get by and if they have to pay a grandparent to help it sometimes cost too much and... See more
Aisha A 379399
08-Jul-24
Discussion of the Day · 05-Jul-24
So I've never been to a concert before and have been thinking about seeing one for once. But I've been seeing a lot of conspiracy that concerts are secretly demonic rituals in disguise. What are your thoughts on the matter? See more
Teri 1282723
05-Jul-24
Discussion of the Day · 24-Jun-24
How do you go about with helping your kid who's being bullied at school and the teachers won't do anything about it? My daughter doesn't want me to confront these kids as it will make them bully even more. I feel lost in trying to support... See more
Danielle R 478487
24-Jun-24
Discussion of the Day · 23-Jun-24
Recently, my family and I were trapped on an escalator at a major Hardware store, when the wheels of a trolley caught at the bottom of the escalator. People started to panic as they were pushed into one another. It was a very frightening... See more
Gerald 1492860
23-Jun-24
Discussion of the Day · 18-May-24
When you finish a relationship, need some time to get use to be yourself again, because you have being with someone during a while. But which is the best moment to start dating again? Maybe you are not looking a relationship, maybe you are just... See more
Linda C
18-May-24
Discussion of the Day · 11-May-24
It has happened to me, not once, but twice. The first time I legally fought them, got my job back, but felt the tension with the co-workers and managers. Although I did not do anything wrong to be forced out, when I returned, I couldn't take... See more
Rosemary E 383382
11-May-24
Discussion of the Day · 18-Apr-24
Do you get bullied via social media? And these people hide behind fake accounts to harass you How would you deal with it? I'm currently experiencing this, and I called this person out because I know who it is, but she keeps at it See more
Linda 1473555
18-Apr-24
Discussion of the Day · 07-Apr-24
There are laws that state that something "on sale"...HAS to have been originally sold at a higher price...but there don't seem to be any rules on what "a limited time" is...are there?...and I see a few stores having these sales for several... See more
Enloe M
07-Apr-24
Discussion of the Day · 28-Mar-24
I have a fairly large CD collection, maybe 200 to 250...just all the very best music I have ever heard in my life....most of it from the late 1960s to the 1990s haven't played most of it for over 15 years...(and I listen to some... See more
allinB4UFLY
29-Mar-24
Discussion of the Day · 27-Mar-24
We mistakenly look for confidence in the clothes that we wear or the car that we drive. We seek to recover from loss, loneliness, or heartache by purchasing unnecessary items. Furthermore, we seek fulfilment in material things. And we try... See more
writerrochelle
27-Mar-24
Discussion of the Day · 18-Dec-23
I am so very interested what everyone is going to have for their Christmas food. Can you hit me with some ideas? Last year we fed lots of people, so I made salmon, ham and pulled pork with a few different salads and baked potatoes. This year... See more
KAREN J 796020
18-Dec-23
Discussion of the Day · 23-Jan-24
I have found many drivers in my opinion 9/10 sit right on top of me as specially when stopped at traffic lights on a hill position. So many times because they are literally on top of me when going to go my car (manual) has slightly rolled a... See more
Alan P 162916
23-Jan-24
Discussion of the Day · 19-Jan-24
I called noise control when one of my neighbours was making too much noise at 10:30pm on a Sunday night. They couldn't come to check the site until about a hr later. When they arrived, they didn't do a great job with investigating the... See more
Julie K 348980
19-Jan-24
Discussion of the Day · 08-Jan-24
How do you feel when you find out, the person you're dating, in their 30s & still living with their mother? Do you find this is strange & weird? Many adult children, these days, are still living much longer with their parents or either... See more
Sarah G 76834
08-Jan-24
Discussion of the Day · 03-Jan-24
Do you think dark tourism is immoral or moral in your country's social norms? A dark tourist would be somebody that is from a country that shooting a gun is illegal. So they travel and go shoot a gun in a different country. A dark tourist... See more
Bel 1301027
03-Jan-24
Discussion of the Day · 26-Dec-23
Electric cars sales are currently plummeting Worldwide and car giants are panicking...powered by... in the most part...fossil fuels...limited lifespans with expensive replacement parts and unsustainable batteries and oh yes....sometimes...just... See more
Michael B 384408
26-Dec-23
Discussion of the Day · 01-Dec-23
Should school be a chore? Why can't learning be fun? I think that the way children are taught at school is too methodical and processed, it's a critical time for our kids, I was lucky enough to have great teachers who along with factual... See more
APB
01-Dec-23
Discussion of the Day · 10-Nov-23
Spent a few days in Sydney, and I'm not so good on my feet, so used a lot of very expensive taxis. Overhead one driver actually asked for a tip and got himself a five dollar reward. This was wrong of him to ask for, as none of the others... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
10-Nov-23
Discussion of the Day · 02-Nov-23
Sometimes I find I have been overcharged for an item. Store Policy guarantees that if you are overcharged, you are refunded and given the item free. Unfortunately, it is not the case with most staff. I sometimes remind them and other times I... See more
Graham A
02-Nov-23
Discussion of the Day · 03-Nov-23
What is our destiny? I have often wondered this, and I have to say it is very hard to come up with an answer. We can search for a lifetime without ever having a clue, so we just drift along, either working until the end or doing other odd... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
03-Nov-23
Discussion of the Day · 28-Oct-23
Why is it that, there are so many people, especially who owns cats & dogs, they don't look after them. To me, it doesn't matter what animal you choose to own. If you chose a pet to have, it is your responsibility to look after it. A pet is... See more
Teri 1282723
28-Oct-23
Discussion of the Day · 13-Oct-23
People around me have been receiving phone scams for the past four years. They sometimes have your correct personal information and trick you about your credit card, home internet, and undeliverable packages. Some of us even receive more than 5... See more
Wendy Q
13-Oct-23
Discussion of the Day · 25-Sep-23
Have you ever gone into a store expecting something and finding it wasn't what you thought it was, but the sales person was so delighted to see you, and you suspect you may be their first customer of the day, you feel you should buy something and... See more
Maria B 89860
25-Sep-23
Discussion of the Day · 15-Sep-23
Do you think that everyone should receive the same pay as what the government is saying? I don t agree, as you work your butt off to earn a high salary by putting yourself through education and university, to earn a top paid job. Then you have... See more
Claude H
15-Sep-23
Discussion of the Day · 07-Oct-22
These days, it seems that kids are "dating" or "going together", before they even know what responsibilities come along with relationships of that sort. How old were you when you remember the"love bug" biting you? When you were past... See more
Charmaine M 596083
07-Oct-22
Discussion of the Day · 23-Aug-23
If someone with a lot of education (law school grad, for example) decided they'd be happier doing something that even didn't require college, like a plumber, bartender, opening a coffee shop or grocery store, whatever, Is that an okay decision to... See more
Smiley
23-Aug-23
Discussion of the Day · 11-Aug-23
Your son, daughter, grand child....has finally passed their licence. They don't have a lot of money, but would like a reliable one. They ask your advice. So what car would you recommend? Manual? Auto? Hybrid? Safety rating? Brand? ... See more
Bugalugs
11-Aug-23
Discussion of the Day · 08-Jul-23
Do you think that there will ever be a time when the whole world is at peace? Judging by past history the chances are slim. See more
APB
08-Jul-23
Discussion of the Day · 13-Jul-23
You are taking a walk in the park when you notice a person stumbling, do you assume they are intoxicated or do you ask if they are okay? This situation happened as I was at work and noticed a man stumbling on the lawn. Another worker also... See more
Sandra C 12043
13-Jul-23
Discussion of the Day · 29-Jun-23
Well, I am a 51-year-old female with terrible decision-making skills. (Had mental breakdown July 2019.) It has gotten to the point that I'm almost scared to decide anything. What I want is to have my boyfriend take over my... See more
Sandra C 12043
29-Jun-23
Discussion of the Day · 10-Apr-23
I was dating an addict for several years. I eventually kicked him out of my home. I have since joined a site of families of addicts. So my questions is - should you stay and support the addict when their behaviors impact your lifestyle? I left for my... See more
Dada WA
10-Apr-23
Discussion of the Day · 21-May-23
I really want to hear your thoughts on forgiveness. Forgiveness is for you rather than the other person, right. Forgiveness can be powerful and empowering. But, how do you forgive certain things and move on? I would love to hear some... See more
Gloria S 949194
21-May-23
Discussion of the Day · 15-May-23
When you look out your bedroom window, what do you see? See more
Dimitri T 100433
15-May-23
Discussion of the Day · 25-Apr-23
I remember 20 plus years ago when landlines were still common, getting phone calls in the evening to complete a survey. It would go on sometimes for a good half hour and they were not paid surveys. So if I get frustrated from screening out, I... See more
Chosen
25-Apr-23
Discussion of the Day · 01-Apr-23
In Australia, we have medicare to help cover health cost. Should there be medicare for your pets too? See more
Bugalugs
01-Apr-23
Discussion of the Day · 18-Feb-23
After answering a discussion about marriage, I decided to start a discussion about independence after years of codependency. I have been in many toxic relationships, never a good one. I've been single for 3 years now, and I'm thinking about dating... See more
Michelle S 553303
18-Feb-23
Discussion of the Day · 28-Aug-22
Should Public Transport Be Free? Well I think yes in urgent and/or important situations because they are very major, and we need to get there, that way, we need transport. Transport is never free. So we need to pay money even for... See more
Jania S
28-Aug-22
Discussion of the Day · 07-Dec-22
I have become so "into" doing surveys that I feel I can't go on to other activities until I've spent several hours each day taking surveys. Is this a healthy habit and a good way to make a few bucks, or is it an addiction? See more
Chosen
07-Dec-22
Discussion of the Day · 18-Jan-23
During COVID-19, all schools were closed and everyone had to work and study online. Usually almost everyone always wished to work from home but once they actually had to do it, that s when it wasn t so funny or comfortable as... See more
Agonis
18-Jan-23
Discussion of the Day · 31-Dec-22
Be safe and enjoy with people. Don't drink too much and drive home. Have a designated driver with you at all times. See more
Helen E 469767
31-Dec-22
Discussion of the Day · 24-Jul-21
Why are the elders of millennials constantly talking about how "messed up" we are, when they were the ones who raised us ...? See more
Disie
24-Jul-21
Discussion of the Day · 07-Nov-22
At my workplace, I have noticed a change in how staff culture has changed around sickness and taking time off work to recover, has anyone else? Before the days of Covid, staff would come into work with colds and coughs and "battle on" to... See more
Lyn 78550
07-Nov-22
Discussion of the Day · 22-Nov-22
Australia and the UK share to a certain extent that the local pubs and bars are HUBS, where people get together and socialise. The increasing massive taxes on beer in both countries...and possibly elsewhere too along with covid have... See more
Elizabeth H 165879
22-Nov-22
Discussion of the Day · 15-Jan-21
What addictions do you have? Do you think it is a good addiction or a bad one? What do you do to stop this addiction? My personal addiction is tea. I drink about 15-20 cups of black tea a day. I love it and nobody ever told me that it is... See more
Katzeye
15-Jan-21
Discussion of the Day · 23-Dec-20
Aside from World Peace and Justice for All, (no, really, I do want that), I'd like a comfy pair of slippers/loafers, a good box of gooey chocolates and someone to help me tidy/arrange my house - so's I can keep it that way. Too much? ... See more
Chris P Chikin
23-Dec-20
Discussion of the Day · 11-Sep-22
There are always friends like this, I'm telling a friend that I have a genetic disease, and then they say, you need to exercise more, you need to drink more water, and say something encouraging to me. To me, very annoying. Why don't they... See more
Mary M 329762
11-Sep-22
Discussion of the Day · 11-Oct-21
Do you have a family member you're not willing to speak to? I personally haven't spoken to my father in more than 5 years and have no regrets about it. I believe more in surrounding yourself with people you like, love and care about regardless to... See more
'smee,SWQ!
11-Oct-21
Discussion of the Day · 27-Aug-22
We started out with silver tops and gold tops (gold tops had twice the cream which tasted better) through modified, low fat and skimmed (because the fat was bad for you)...to highly manufactured fake milk made from just about anything that... See more
Toni A 861237
27-Aug-22
Discussion of the Day · 23-May-22
I was bullets in the workplace as I didn't take my break as them want. The rule is after 2 hours you get your tea break as I didn't want to go before hand. She's telling me off in front of peoples send to the management to put me down. In the... See more
Bugalugs
23-May-22
Discussion of the Day · 08-May-22
To prepare for future disasters, do you think which kinds of food never spoil, and we can start stocking them now? See more
'smee,SWQ!
08-May-22
Discussion of the Day · 29-Apr-22
What is the best lesson you have ever learnt in your life, or the funniest? Mine was that you cannot make every person happy and if you have to change who you are or go against your morals or beliefs to make someone happy, then you don't need that... See more
APB
29-Apr-22
Discussion of the Day · 28-Apr-22
What books have you read in the past that made you really think, it opened your eyes? I like to read stuff about COVER UPS. People that have experienced things and revealed information... especially when it's not political-correct to... See more
Bugalugs
28-Apr-22
Discussion of the Day · 16-Apr-22
I am from 6 brothers and sisters. I feel very fortunate to have many siblings. Unfortunately, some of them can have funny attitude later in life due to the effect of their partners. Since, I am the younger sibling, I usually just take in ... See more
Wendy Q
16-Apr-22
Discussion of the Day · 03-Apr-22
Well I would say yes because then they already like to learn how to do work and stuff, so they don't grow up being lazy tell me what you think See more
Tupulua S
03-Apr-22
Discussion of the Day · 13-Mar-22
I recently started study in NZ University. I am almost 33 years old. Furthermore, I believe education is an important part of our lives. And I feel good about it. I got very diverse feedback from others. Would you go back to school to... See more
Morenita
13-Mar-22
Discussion of the Day · 15-Dec-21
This year has been ups and down for most of us may it be personally or professionally. Please share what you are most excited in the coming 2022? Are you looking forward on a more stabilising year? What's your vision and new life... See more
Bugalugs
15-Dec-21
Discussion of the Day · 18-Dec-21
Should we as parents be allowed to discipline our child without being told we are abusing our children? For example: if my child swears or does something really naughty, should I be allowed to smack his hand without it being abuse? Or is... See more
Sabine V
18-Dec-21
Discussion of the Day · 19-Oct-21
What do you believe happens when you die is there an afterlife having a hell do we go back to our creator or is our energy reconciled with the remainder of our soul what do you think? Are we waiting on the resurrection? See more
Amber 22
19-Oct-21
Discussion of the Day · 10-Nov-21
The term narcissist gets thrown around a lot these days as a negative slur to label people on social media, reality TV and politics. And studies show narcissistic traits are on the rise with 10% of us exhibiting traits like self-obsession... See more
Lachelle B
10-Nov-21
Discussion of the Day · 03-Oct-21
Streaming on our TVs are "period" dramas set in the 1980's..."Public Enemy" is what your dad listens to...NO-ONE uses email anymore...and Facebook is only used now by old people (over 30's)...is everyone keeping up?...whew! See more
Bugalugs
03-Oct-21
Discussion of the Day · 13-Sep-21
In the USA, although it has been shown that masking saves lives by keeping you safe from Covid19, many schools are fighting about this issue. What do you think? See more
Tupulua S
13-Sep-21
Discussion of the Day · 04-Sep-21
You invite the whole class to your child's 6th birthday and when you arrive you are told by one of the parents I've added my 4 year old to the party and I've paid for them to join. When handing out the thank you bags, the parent also asks for... See more
Christine M 323842
04-Sep-21
Discussion of the Day · 28-Aug-21
A colleague recently had three vehicles stolen plus other property by three teenagers who are not locals but travel regularly to our town to commit robberies and wilful damage. A policeman was seriously injured when one rammed a stolen car into... See more
Jenny L 591463
28-Aug-21
Discussion of the Day · 17-Aug-21
I'm not talking love affairs, but do you have an interest, hobby, work area or cause that you are/ were truly passionate about? It used to be a saying that if you find something you love to do, you will never work a day in your life. I've... See more
Jan R 542056
17-Aug-21
Discussion of the Day · 02-May-21
What is you're opinion on today's banking system? Do you trust them? Do you think they put their shareholders first ... before customers? Notice how low the interest is on money in you're bank account! Credit card - interest too... See more
Grommie
02-May-21
Discussion of the Day · 17-Feb-21
Are people in general getting ruder, more selfish etc. or are people behaving generally in the same manner, but I m just more sensitive to it as I get older? See more
'smee,SWQ!
17-Feb-21
Discussion of the Day · 05-Jul-21
We have .... Health, life, Disability , Employment, Even insurance for pet's. Do you have it? Do you think some insurance is too expensive? Have you had any issues with yours? See more
Rhonda D 522615
05-Jul-21
Discussion of the Day · 19-Jun-21
As a former teacher I get very concerned when I hear so many demands for things to be taught in school which I believe should be the role of parents. In the meantime parents complain about falling standards in basic reading, spelling, writing and... See more
Rod R 101788
19-Jun-21
Discussion of the Day · 07-May-21
can carnivores change their diet - no?! - can herbivores change their diet no?! - can omnivores (humans) change their diet - no?! - humans are eating the planet up - in front of all are eyes (global warming) - humans can not agree on a plan to stop the... See more
Stephan S
07-May-21
Discussion of the Day · 16-Apr-21
I heard on talk back radio that some schools are planning to stop mothers and fathers days because some children may not have a mother or a father. I don't agree with this as the children really enjoy these days and if they don't have a parent they... See more
Margaret C 68385
16-Apr-21
Discussion of the Day · 18-Apr-21
Technology for all its benefits is a great thing. But how many times have you seen glued to their screens, constantly? A lot of this is because of Facebook, that keeps everybody connected, whatever we're doing, while in the... See more
Sandra C 12043
18-Apr-21
Discussion of the Day · 25-Jan-21
Has COVID-19 changed how we will live our lives forever or will things return to the way it used to be before the pandemic? See more
APB
25-Jan-21
Discussion of the Day · 02-Jan-21
I was wondering what you are all out there, are expecting to possibly see happen in 2021. It doesn't matter weather it's a good or bad thing that everyone may encounter in the world in 2021. How do you see 2021 shaping up to be? See more
Alan P 162916
02-Jan-21
Discussion of the Day · 24-Oct-20
As humans we think if we attain something like an award, it will equate to making us happy but sadly this isn't the case. Have you ever won an award? Were you disappointed by how short-lived the joy was? See more
Helen A 395807
24-Oct-20
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